Originally posted by: mysterygurl1427
Hi all.....today we are all here due to our three original idiot founders.....Rev di...vrush Di, and Nargis di/mommy ect etc...
we r here because of maaneet......not because of just maan or geet....but because of maaneet....every where i look in this thread i just see tension tension....but no fun!!! Look back in the other threads....in september.....see the difference from then and now.....this thread was a place where when i came from college......i could just chill...release stress....smile....laugh.....think.....when i came from class every day at 4 or 5.....this thread would have reached 40-50 pages....and i would laugh and say.....u guys are torture....wanting me to read all of these pages.....idiots came....they watched the episode....they symbolized....ripped.....and analyzed every single thing......even if the episode was not good....they looked for the positive parts of the episode.....we all read each others takes....opinions.....yea we didn't agree with everything....but neither did we jump on each other for not agreeing with anyone......it is OK to not agree with someone...but it is not okay to tell the person flat out that YOU ARE WRONG.....and also it is not good....to try to prove the other wrong!!!everyone has their own POVs....they should be able to express them....and sure you can disagree with another's POV.....but you shouldn't force ur opinion on that person....respect their POV.../take....and if u don't agree.....then simply state "i respect ur POV, but i disagree...and state ur points.....and so on....of course debates are fun.....but you should keep it calm...and civilized....so that is fun....and u would not be uncomfortable to do it againwe are all different....we all think differently...which is why we all bring fresh ideas....takes....symbolisms...to our idiot family table....we come here....so that we all find a reason to smile....find a reason to chill...and free ourselves from other tensions....not come here and leave with new tensions....no??I love each and every idiot on this thread......but these days....i feel the thread has changed....i feel uneasy in this atmosphere.....aisa to nahin tha hamara thread kabhi bhi!! We always disagreed with one another.....but we also listened and tried to understand the other's POV....even if we didn't agree with them still...but we still respected it and listened......also...if you have a problem with someone.....because of what they said....just politely pm them and tell them what you felt....and clear out the issue.....no need to take tension...we are all friends here.....also don't ever take anything to heart....because sometimes people may not be able to express well in their writings....you may misread what they have wrote....fail to understand...and if so...then pm them and ask them....maybe you will agree with what they wrote....and it will prevent other friction....everyone is welcomed in the idiots thread.....we all love to hear and read everyone's different views....but it is only fun when the environment is kept comfortable....where people are not scared to voice their opinionstension tension every where.....we all just need to loosen up....and just CHILL.....breathe.....relax.....watch our show with an open heart and mind,...let the episode flow....don't try to look for mistakes...because when you do....u will end up finding them......don't sit to critisize....sit to laugh....to smile......to enjoy..feel those butterflies in your stomach when maaneet come close....yes sometimes u have to critisize......because it was just something that had to be done.....but when you do...just chill......karo....np.....but chill.....refrain bashingchill,....deep breathes....come here to enjoy......to laugh....to discuss our favorite show......to see Maaneet....our maaneet....i am sorry if i have offended anyone....this post was not made to point anyone out...i just felt this way strongly....and so as a friend....and shishter....i thought i can share this with u all....i respect and love you all...and so i expect the same from you all...not that anyone has ever disrespected me......you all are wonderful people......lets keep it that way!! Now one favor and request to all of u....can we all chill...relax...and just have fun...and discuss our show??Can we bring the old environment back??I sincerely...with the bottom of my heart thank Vrush Di, Rev Di, and Nargis Di for this beautiful Idiots Thread...had it not been for them...i would not have found such beautiful friends who have become my shisters for life😳
I strongly agree...I love u for..it....I never knew....my gabbar is that much mature of her age.....I miss that fun of september tooo,,,,,,guess,,,I am okie away from thread nowdays