The Dialogue that Dadi Said
"Aaj Pehli Baar Aapke Dil ki Ek Jhalak Dekha Hai
Hum Aapke Dil Ko Phir Se Haarne Nahi Denge?.."
Has set many ppl taking that Maan might have had a romantic relation in the past...
No yaar, i beg to differ. Pls read the first line...
Dil has always been associated with a lover whereas love is associated with anything ranging from parents to bro-sis to friends to lifeless objects...
Had Maan been in love b4, it wouldn't have taken him so long to comprehend his feelings for geet...
He as of now looks like he has no idea wat hit him, y else does he keep repeating that he has gone mad?
Maans past has everything to do with his parents..
1) Have u noticed that there r absolutely no pics of Maan's parents anywhere in the mansion...
Not even the one containing chandan ki maala considering they r dead.. Isn't their absence conspicious??? Any normal house will have pic of the dead unless of course.....
2} Dev's mum calls him Chote Sahab. It means she must have been his Nanny whom senior khurana latter married either cause of Maan's upbringing or cause he had an affair with her..
3} Maan's perceptions bout womens r that they r weak, uncapable of logical thinking cause they r always crying...
Women just silently suffer at the hands of their family members, they don raise their voice against injustice done to them.
Thats y he asks geet to stop crying, stand for herself, work out ways to get out of the prob she is in n fight against the injustuce done to her...
I think Maans mum was in an abusive relationship with his father.. He must have physically n mentally tortured her n she must have silently endured all that cause she really loved her husban.. He must have cheated on her..finally she must have commited suicide... His exp with his mum taught him that love only gives pain.. He tells geet he hates emotional talks cause he must have heard his mums..So he made himself so strong that no emotion should ever bother him...Maan must have witnessed all this n was deeply hurt that he was unable to do anything for his mum..His father might have ill-treated him too......His mums death was the final blow....
His mother was his only hope when she was alive, after her death he felt betraied by the only 1 who loved him n whom he loved too..
Check out Maans expr when geet told him that he cannot love anybody n nobody has ever loved him.. She touched a nerve there..
Maan has always helped geet only bcoz i feel she partly reminds him of his mother. The only difference being that she is fighting for herself... This promts him to help her... Many have already told that Maan feels it his right n duty to protect geet. When he saved her from Brij there was no romantic angle of him for geet but even then he saves her with all his might n makes it very clear that till he is alive no one will be able to touch her...This may be cause he feels that he was unable to do anything for him mum, atleast he can help geet out... He was doing all this subcounciously ofcorse untill he fell in love with her...
Regarding Naintara being Maan's past, i highly doubt it... Her rishta might have come for Maan but he must have flatly refused so she eyed dev n married him..Regarding his hatered for her i feel he knows wat she really is n must have opposed the wedding...
He must be blaming Naintara for his bro's misdeeds (it was her who came out with the idea of Dev's fake marriage to clear off their debts.). When Maan punished Dev for his mistakes n thrown him out of the house, she must have blamed him of doing so to Hog the entire property n rule the house... So he left the mansion n is living in the outhouse n he is so adament not to return to the mansion at any cost..
Regarding Naintaara's intrest in Maans marriage might be that since he rejected her he cannot absolutely cannot fall or marry any1 else.. We alreary know that she thinks very highly of her self...
Ufff.... A very very very long post... Sorry... I just felt like putting my random thoughts into writting...
Am baad at writing so pls forgive n forget my shortcommings...
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