P&P Part III - Page 84

It’s like history repeats..the guy never apologizes for his lack of communication or how badly he treats her when he is sort of guilty of his own..never opening about his feelings or being honest..

viveka has her own insecurities and he only tries to negate that when he has not done anything to help ease her feelings and assuring her.

He is here every time she comes to escape their commotion and why? She knows he will come or she really needed to spend time with her family or feel needed?

will they address their own issues before caring about Naina? Will he stop her from worrying and asking her to listen or try to solve Naina issue first? Will be interesting to see if anything changes this time with Ranav.

“I am going to tell him he needs to pamper you like a princess, and lay a bed of rose petals under your feet and never say no to you”

Gingerly walked up to the bedroom and shut the door instead and stood guard nearby… kinda…

🤣🤣

Both Akash and Satyen are such darlings 👏 Sooo sweet! 🤗

He wanted to be wanted

He was a jerk

But he wanted to be wanted ♥️♥️

“U were there until 7?”

“8” she said gleefully 😆

“I didn’t call the AV guy I thought what if he saves my number and started calling me at midnight?” she sweetly smiled 🤣

They're both so cute! Baiting each other 😆

Waiting to see this play out

What's up with Smrita though? Hard to digest she'd just let matters be!!

Viveka and even Raanav has not been able to catch a breath since they got married.

Satyen's health, then Dadaji's surgery and Naina-Inder's constant drama, Smrita's continuous taunts, Viv's disappointment about her PhD, over that the Parasher men have a empire to run and above all this Viv's parents putting Naina's responsibility on Viv - Come on, these people have to cut some slack for the newly married couple.

Shouldn't they be given some time off from all these issues and allow them to get to know each other and have some private time with each other.

Now I am literally pissed off with all the elders on both the sides.

Savi Bua was right when she said that Satyen should lessen Raanav's duties at their business empire. Same goes to the Mathurs too, lessen some responsibilities from Viv's shoulders for some time.

Anu once even asked Viv what the twins are up to and whether she stalks them on their IG and what they are planning to study. Can’t she ask herself? Why is Viv dragged in every issue.

And till now, not once the Mathurs asked Naina what she saw in Inder, what was her idea, why she eloped? Even basic questions were never asked.

Elders should really allow the newly married couple to take a break for few days/weeks.

I like Karuna - she was shocked about the proposal and refused to be home when Mayank's family showed up. She has managed to remain sane and normal even with Naina shenanigans.

Mathurs follow all societal norms. Wonder if the Mathurs ever wonder why Vi stays over their house so often ? If Ra is travelling they think it is Ok to stay over ?

Newly married Vi covers a lot remember Anu after a hair color appointment,generally gets a headache,so Vi was cooking. Ra has to come and pick her up...otherwise she can continue to reside at her parents home.🤔

Have they not realized that she now has a life of her own also ? Look for alternatives rather than expecting she will fill in like before.

Originally posted by: bakwas_serial

I like Karuna - she was shocked about the proposal and refused to be home when Mayank's family showed up. She has managed to remain sane and normal even with Naina shenanigans.

Mathurs follow all societal norms. Wonder if the Mathurs ever wonder why Vi stays over their house so often ? If Ra is travelling they think it is Ok to stay over ?

Newly married Vi covers a lot remember Anu after a hair color appointment,generally gets a headache,so Vi was cooking. Ra has to come and pick her up...otherwise she can continue to reside at her parents home.🤔

Have they not realized that she now has a life of her own also ? Look for alternatives rather than expecting she will fill in like before.

Shradha, I was wondering the same.

Vi has taken a lot of Mathur family responsibilities from very young age looks like. I remember once she had mentioned that by age of 9 she could cook a little, manage her sisters along with her school work.

I think she has played a maternal role to her sisters more than a sibling's role.

I do get that with Anu and Akash having high demanding careers, it is not easy to balance both professional and family lives well. And I wonder if Viv has shared her parent's responsibilities much more than a child can do.

And Anu seems to be dumping this on her even now, like saying talk to Inder about Naina, find out what your twin sisters are doing or what they want in life, or what Naina wants to do etc etc.

Viv even buys and carries heavy groceries needed at home. She has to get the broken dish washer repaired by coordinating with the repair guy.

I am not saying a girl should shrug off her duties towards her parent's house once she is married, but this is a bit too much.

Anu and Akash should encourage her to build a life with her husband, enjoy married life.

Imposing their duties on her this way is really not right.

Originally posted by: canapoem

Shradha, I was wondering the same.

Vi has taken a lot of Mathur family responsibilities from very young age looks like. I remember once she had mentioned that by age of 9 she could cook a little, manage her sisters along with her school work.

I think she has played a maternal role to her sisters more than a sibling's role.

I do get that with Anu and Akash having high demanding careers, it is not easy to balance both professional and family lives well. And I wonder if Viv has shared her parent's responsibilities much more than a child can do.

And Anu seems to be dumping this on her even now, like saying talk to Inder about Naina, find out what your twin sisters are doing or what they want in life, or what Naina wants to do etc etc.

Viv even buys and carries heavy groceries needed at home. She has to get the broken dish washer repaired by coordinating with the repair guy.

I am not saying a girl should shrug off her duties towards her parent's house once she is married, but this is a bit too much.

Anu and Akash should encourage her to build a life with her husband, enjoy married life.

Imposing their duties on her this way is really not right.

Like I said earlier I was really surprised that Anu was asking Vi to talk to.Inder. A marriage has taken place, it is the parent responsibilities and not sister to take action. To confront Inder and his family and take next steps...should be the parents and Naina.

I dont believe superwoman exist..it is not possible to have full fledged career and take care of home (a full time job)..so kids pitching in is normal. Had a male colleague who knew how to make rotis..said he and his sister learned early on as his mother was a school teacher.

But it does feel that the family is used to Vi covering and so they continue to reach out to her. Maybe because she does not need to cook and clean @Parasher because of help ...so they think she has time ? Marriage especially so new has to be build and it is more than just daily chores. They know it..so 🤔

@Kavi, @Shradha,

I'm wondering if Viveka coming home and doing all that she was doing prior to marriage is her way of feeling wanted and needed too. At the Parashar house, except for Raanav and Satyen no one else is bothered about her, there is no concern. It doesn't feel like home to her, where she is a much loved and wanted member. I guess with whatever has been happening its like walking over minefields for her. I can see her need for escape, especially when Raanav is not at home. She had mentioned that she doesn't like sleeping by herself.

But I totally agree about how wrong it is not to question Naina about her shenanigans. Why is she getting this much leeway? Akash and Anu need to sit her down and get some answers from her, on the whole Inder episode. If as she says she has broken up with him, then considering what he has just pulled and the way it has affected her family, she should be the one trying to put things in order. Unless it is playing out exactly the way she wants it to, and she'll do her nautanki to get away from taking responsibility. Someone needs to give her one whack!

Originally posted by: kizh72

@Kavi, @Shradha,

I'm wondering if Viveka coming home and doing all that she was doing prior to marriage is her way of feeling wanted and needed too. At the Parashar house, except for Raanav and Satyen no one else is bothered about her, there is no concern. It doesn't feel like home to her, where she is a much loved and wanted member. I guess with whatever has been happening its like walking over minefields for her. I can see her need for escape, especially when Raanav is not at home. She had mentioned that she doesn't like sleeping by herself.

But I totally agree about how wrong it is not to question Naina about her shenanigans. Why is she getting this much leeway? Akash and Anu need to sit her down and get some answers from her, on the whole Inder episode. If as she says she has broken up with him, then considering what he has just pulled and the way it has affected her family, she should be the one trying to put things in order. Unless it is playing out exactly the way she wants it to, and she'll do her nautanki to get away from taking responsibility. Someone needs to give her one whack!

Agree why Vi does it..meaning coming to her parents home. But the parents? , Dadu in hospital and Anu had to leave for work..Vi covering makes sense. Others like hair coloring not sure. It is like habits die hard. Plus now asking her to talk to Inder.

Naina. Once the shock is over dont they realize their daughter is not arrogant but plain stupid..needs help. So yes they need to talk to her and understand her..so they can help. The girl needs help..wonder how else will she harm herself.

I keep forgetting this is fiction 😁

.V

Originally posted by: bakwas_serial

Agree why Vi does it..meaning coming to her parents home. But the parents? , Dadu in hospital and Anu had to leave for work..Vi covering makes sense. Others like hair coloring not sure. It is like habits die hard. Plus now asking her to talk to Inder.

Naina. Once the shock is over dont they realize their daughter is not arrogant but plain stupid..needs help. So yes they need to talk to her and understand her..so they can help. The girl needs help..wonder how else will she harm herself.

I keep forgetting this is fiction 😁

.V

Asking her to talk to Inder was plain wrong. Why should she? Again they seem to be giving Naina the leeway, almost rewarding her for her actions. If it continues this way Naina will never learn from her mistakes. She'll expect someone to cover up for her all her life (From blaming Viv she was looking to her for help). And she is no child that an adult has to step in to handle matters. If she could take the decision to elope and not keep her family in the loop, then she can very well take care of this situation too.

"Never learn from her mistakes"👌.