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Losing pieces
... There's really not much left of me.
So heart wrenching .Under normal circumstances one would presume that when it comes to custody matters, one would expect to be accorded reasonable visitation rights, but the irony here is she does not have any standing to claim what is called as rights' here.
How very unfortunate!!!! She has been naive to ignore that summon and she is paying the ultimate price for this folly of hers . We don't even know on what rights, did she manage to keep Chandan with him for these last few years.
In the best interests of the child is a double edged sword. Legality looks at evidences as we know. chandans relatives have not seen him for five yrs.. while one could argue that Avanti did not let them visit him the last couple of yrs while she has him under her custody, What about the first three yrs then when Chandan were with his parents before their death ? Were the vaidyas prohibited by Hemant from visiting them then also?
Its cruel for the child to be going through this separation . It's difficult for both sides when the child you want is kept away from you. At least One consolation for the vaidyas was they did not know share or have a bond with Chandan for these last five yrs. when they were separated from him... so that period while they waited for his custody would have been difficult no doubt...but not torturous. That's why it's absolutely gutting to be in Avantika s shoes today where she has this special bond with this kid and she has lost him now after giving herself up for him these last two years. Parental anxiety as an emotion wouldn't hold its teeth for describing her emotional state of mind, for what she is going through now . True that, there's really nothing much left of her now.
Waiting for sanity to prevail
... There's really not much left of me.
So heart wrenching .Under normal circumstances one would presume that when it comes to custody matters, one would expect to be accorded reasonable visitation rights, but the irony here is she does not have any standing to claim what is called as rights' here.
How very unfortunate!!!! She has been naive to ignore that summon and she is paying the ultimate price for this folly of hers . We don't even know on what rights, did she manage to keep Chandan with him for these last few years.
In the best interests of the child is a double edged sword. Legality looks at evidences as we know. chandans relatives have not seen him for five yrs.. while one could argue that Avanti did not let them visit him the last couple of yrs while she has him under her custody, What about the first three yrs then when Chandan were with his parents before their death ? Were the vaidyas prohibited by Hemant from visiting them then also?
Its cruel for the child to be going through this separation . It's difficult for both sides when the child you want is kept away from you. At least One consolation for the vaidyas was they did not know share or have a bond with Chandan for these last five yrs. when they were separated from him... so that period while they waited for his custody would have been difficult no doubt...but not torturous. That's why it's absolutely gutting to be in Avantika s shoes today where she has this special bond with this kid and she has lost him now after giving herself up for him these last two years. Parental anxiety as an emotion wouldn't hold its teeth for describing her emotional state of mind, for what she is going through now . True that, there's really nothing much left of her now.
Waiting for sanity to prevail
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