Indradhanush 3 - Page 21

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

I agree Vani

Neel is rushing things, from wanting an affair to somehow marry her as fast as possible
There will be buyer's remorse later... its natural

Originally posted by: Nisha0604

Sonal

we are all the same
The things that drive us... and drive us insane and the things that move us to tears are startlingly similar

Ladies don't like being rushed but men r impulsive and live in the moment.its true men don't sit still till they get what they want Neel is a perfect example. Once Neel understood what he wants and how to get it, he doesn't want to waste even one minute.

Any relationship be it blood ties ,Friendships platonic ...that we love and lose does rear it's head at different times as there's an emotional baggage to it.

So I can only imagine how it should be for non -platonic relationships like love and marriage or live -in that you are part of...to love and lose to deceit or death is bound to have an huge impact when you move on to form a new relationship.

A lady whom I know... If I have to crudely put it she's with boy friend no ... 7/8 ... God only knows...
She is warm to talk to... I just feel she's too gullible in love...While she is involved in a custody battle for her son with her ex ... She daringly says " each love feels different kalpana... They affect you in more ways than one, you become a different person at the end of each one ... Then you dive in to another one..."

I asked her " when you move on won't there be comparisons' . And she replied ..."yep...always the sore spot darling... past elements are sea food in cold storage that tags along with you that you pay no rent for...Bring it out in the open and it stinks".

The cold storage baggage she is referring to is fear ..., fear to trust again... Being afraid to get hurt again... Being afraid in not wanting to expend emotional energy
again ...In love ... Relationships are scary I feel , more so when your heart has been ripped out leaving you bleeding ...

Rutwik danced upon her suvi's heart , stuck a knife in when she was least expecting it and oozed his way out...

And for Neel ... Nupur was the greatest person in the world until she died... that's a perfect ready made reference chart for comparisons that he unknowingly will draw from I think...

Nisha...True that...at times there no escaping that ...Buyers remorse ... I see where this is going...looking forward to see you handling that .

Originally posted by: VeeIyer

<font color="#0000ff">Har aadmi Rutwik nahi hai aur har aurat main Neel ko Nupur nahi milegi ...</font>

These two have to face the hard facts as it is not just both of them but two little ones who will face the backlash and the flak if decisions are made in a hurry...

Suvi is being ultra cautious and Neel rather reckless. @beauty sleep is quite right in saying Neel seems in an unnatural hurry to get things moving.

Perhaps it is a "man thing " ??!

Speaking of that, loved Neel assertively telling Suvi that she can't move till he says so😳😳

Vani... Neel's in a tearing hurry...it's pretty obvious ...
While his 'man thing' actions are reckless... and outwardly agitated... I'm not too sure if suvi is being entirely ultra cautious... Suvi's woman thing is not far off from it though she is projecting a calm exterior...she is very much a part of it.

The lucknowi Nawab summoned it but she was equally part of their Darbar at DiVan -E - khaas ... ha ha...Ably guiding him with equal fervor. Sick joke I know I know...
She gives in to his passion...while she is asking him the right questions ..., I do wonder to pop Nupur and Rutwik out after the rendezvous is like she is trying to checkmate him after the surrender . I would agree that she was ultra cautious only if she had not encouraged his physical advances if I have to infer anything out of Neel saying to suvi ' humne 4 baar roka.. Aap samajti Nahin... Or something like that.
Even if she were to back out of this now... She would hv done enough damage to herself at this stage already. But yes I do believe she's asking questions that needs to be asked ...

On a side note... don't know about these two.. my heart was galloping wondering if their ' Divan E khaas would become Divan-E-Aam with Tai and Aadya snoring away at the Gate. 😆 😆
Ammo...small mercies.



And as they say the best kisses are the ones you sneak 😎

Nisha, what do you mean by buyers remorse?
Will Neel regret his decision about marrying suvi ?
Ask as many questions you want suvi. She has been through lot. I don't want her to be in unhappy relationship. I don't want her to feel dejected after she is married. I don't want Neel to make her feel miserable about herself post marriage.

In case suvi has to face backlash of Nupur being perfect I would rather settle of not a happy ending for this story.

I agree with preet...i dont want neel or anyone regret the marriage...it will kill essence of this story and their relationship...if we take r&b and ii relationship one thing i like most that they dont regret the marriage...even they fight very nasty not even once r&b felt like that...i like that thoughtfulness very much..so i dont want neel feel like that...it will kill the story...they can fight all they want not this...

Originally posted by: Errantnomad

Vani... Neel's in a tearing hurry...it's pretty obvious ...
While his 'man thing' actions are reckless... and outwardly agitated... I'm not too sure if suvi is being entirely ultra cautious... Suvi's woman thing is not far off from it though she is projecting a calm exterior...she is very much a part of it.

The lucknowi Nawab summoned it but she was equally part of their Darbar at DiVan -E - khaas ... ha ha...Ably guiding him with equal fervor. Sick joke I know I know...
She gives in to his passion...while she is asking him the right questions ..., I do wonder to pop Nupur and Rutwik out after the rendezvous is like she is trying to checkmate him after the surrender . I would agree that she was ultra cautious only if she had not encouraged his physical advances if I have to infer anything out of Neel saying to suvi ' humne 4 baar roka.. Aap samajti Nahin... Or something like that.
Even if she were to back out of this now... She would hv done enough damage to herself at this stage already. But yes I do believe she's asking questions that needs to be asked ...

On a side note... don't know about these two.. my heart was galloping wondering if their ' Divan E khaas would become Divan-E-Aam with Tai and Aadya snoring away at the Gate. 😆 😆
Ammo...small mercies.

And as they say the best kisses are the ones you sneak 😎

Originally posted by: PriteeMisra

Nisha, what do you mean by buyers remorse?
Will Neel regret his decision about marrying suvi ?
Ask as many questions you want suvi. She has been through lot. I don't want her to be in unhappy relationship. I don't want her to feel dejected after she is married. I don't want Neel to make her feel miserable about herself post marriage.

In case suvi has to face backlash of Nupur being perfect I would rather settle of not a happy ending for this story.

Originally posted by: VeeIyer

Worry not Preeti...Neel has both of us and a bunch of others from the forum to contend with in case he goes the guilt trip way !!

We are the Suvi gang and she has our backing no holds barred !!