Originally posted by: mahirmukhtar
First of all i would like to thank you Yagya that you picked up a very serious topic to voice your thoughts on or i would better say to let the voice of hundreds and thousands of women get heard through your pen. ⭐️⭐️
You are right, how much serious is the institution of marriage and how much it is taken lightly by our society is very well known to us. Everywhere i have seen around me i have yet to find a happily married couple. I still believe that love exists between couples, maybe it happened in another dimension of the world, sometimes it gets snatched away by the cruel norms of our society as you depicted very well in your introduction of FF. In my 25 years i have never seen a wife and a husband living a normal life.
And some women who says that they are living a normal life are either being too compressed or oppressed that for them a forced compromise is like living a normal life. They are kept in the dark from day one to what is marriage about. So they would never know what their lives are reduced too.
Society say a woman has always to compromise. A real compromise between two people is more like accepting the bad with the good. It's give and take, but the compromise in a marriage is reduced to only give from the wife's side and take from the husbands side. it's not compromise it's pure slavery.
A marriage is treated more like a slave contract than a sacred oath, where a woman sacrifices her independence, hoping for a better life but in the end only manages to lose her individuality and then her sanity.
Her wishes and hopes reduced to that of her husbands. Who she was, what she is and what she will be? those questions have only these answer : cook, clean, give birth, fulfil your husband's and in-laws wishes and that's it. A wifey come robot's work done, now go to sleep and in many cases they are even deprived of their sleep!
I am not against the marriage of institution, i am against the marriage which turns out to be like a slave contract, against the society which has reduced marriage to a vehicle which has no reverse gear!
I am stopping here dear, because it's a topic on which i can comment on and on, a very passionate topic which you have chosen for your FF. I really salute your effort Yaar!
Will wait with bated breath dear for the first part of your FF. 😳
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