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Namratha - I totally get it

Originally posted by: Ashu25

Namratha - I totally get it

But I do think its high time she seeks space.

Shee nedds to shape herself up first.

Wealth will always be an issue as you said. It wont destroyed.

She will always be taunted indirectly. The middle class have this right. Cause we are insecure.

She will be asked not to interfere. And she must not. Atleast now.

She has many things to look into at MM itself. Entangling herself with all this mess is not a good choice in my opinion.

Families are weird. They want their daughters to be present with them in their happiness and grief but wont allow thwm to interfere or talk .

U simply dont get this attitude.

You want II to help around, cook, gush about the kids, but wont allow her to help akka see her dream?

Sil should be respected right? Then why is her husband never treated properly by appa? Why is he always looked upon with suspicion?

Rules change when societies and statuses do eh?

Weird game!

correct ashu

Originally posted by: Ashu25

I cannot agree more!!!

it's such a human way of being double standard

See this is what I say ABOUT healthy and awesome.debates

II more than anybody hurts about the class divide and often thinks she doesn't deserve what she has got...the way Ranjan is ready to make Vanditha director if she desires and the way he baby sits Shravu with Nandu...nobody treats them mean ...it is the iyers who are turning out nasty yes it is very very embarrassing to receive the gifts of the Bhallas as they have not accepted them as Sambandhis whole heartedly while they are looked upon as family by them.
If it was Shruthi instead of Baldi the discrepancy would be more visible...Maanvi should have sisters like the Dude desires else Bala's inadequacy would make him resent the Duke even further.

You can be firm in telling II no from the outset and sticking by it. But accepting her generosity even when it has pushed her to bankruptcy and taunting her thus...not ok...Vandhu chose to befriend Sam...Bala insists she works even when she is not able to...if affordability was an issue...Sorry to say this why have a second kid?

Somewhere it is a misplaced sense of pride...would Sree have eased Vandhus problem? How would the Iyers have cared for Periappa and paid expenses of Vandhu's delivery?
They know the girl cares so much and reaches out yet dont tell her anything of the illness as she was on a holiday. Which Iyer Maapilai will fly down and watch his wife slog like the way II does ? Treating her thus and the way amma questioned her over the phone and how they invite her for breakfast and start firing her right at the door after Vandhu making this demand is so unfair...she is the more immature in this instance...treating her sister the way she likes not even noticing II burn her arm to feed her and Balas son...she is treated like a karuveppilai kothu...you add for flavour and discard it...not done

Originally posted by: NSB7

correct ashu

She must mind her own business and make and keep her own boundaries... That's what dude wants her to do too I suppose

But hey...can u treat your parents sister and athim of 13 years or so as strangers?

She totally must control her emotions

I so agree

But she or us..we can't...it itches us if we see our family in trouble and naturally go attened them..no matter we get slapped in the face for it

I so wish she does what u want her to ashu

She totally must

Nam - Healthy debates help one grow

Originally posted by: moonwearer

II more than anybody hurts about the class divide and often thinks she doesn't deserve what she has got...the way Ranjan is ready to make Vanditha director if she desires and the way he baby sits Shravu with Nandu...nobody treats them mean ...it is the iyers who are turning out nasty yes it is very very embarrassing to receive the gifts of the Bhallas as they have not accepted them as Sambandhis whole heartedly while they are looked upon as family by them.
If it was Shruthi instead of Baldi the discrepancy would be more visible...Maanvi should have sisters like the Dude desires else Bala's inadequacy would make him resent the Duke even further.

You can be firm in telling II no from the outset and sticking by it. But accepting her generosity even when it has pushed her to bankruptcy and taunting her thus...not ok...Vandhu chose to befriend Sam...Bala insists she works even when she is not able to...if affordability was an issue...Sorry to say this why have a second kid?

Somewhere it is a misplaced sense of pride...would Sree have eased Vandhus problem? How would the Iyers have cared for Periappa and paid expenses of Vandhu's delivery?
They know the girl cares so much and reaches out yet dont tell her anything of the illness as she was on a holiday. Which Iyer Maapilai will fly down and watch his wife slog like the way II does ? Treating her thus and the way amma questioned her over the phone and how they invite her for breakfast and start firing her right at the door after Vandhu making this demand is so unfair...she is the more immature in this instance...treating her sister the way she likes not even noticing II burn to feed her son

a perfectly put across point Sri

Nam - Not humans.. APPA

Totally agree Ashu...a stance could have been taken before or after the wedding but they chose to look the other way...the poor girl left money and took a loan and cringes to take his money...they think shes basking in all the comforts ...the Dude never complains of the lack of facilities in the iyer homes...to him being t matters more it is not things but people...Shravu is imbibing this quality example the water guns video game and i pad fights...the dude takes the Metro to work in Paris...Bala is unable to tolerate the heat one evening when the car breaks down...Why cant he take the Delhi Metro?...Dude is a real Prince and II the most lovely ...yet look at the way she gets treated the girl has been made to feel unwanted ...she shares it with the Dude ...when slighted she now atleast has him to comfort her ...just imagine her plight had she wedded an iyer as planned