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dristi64

@dristi64

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Posted: 10 years ago

#821

And as usual, I miss out on an awesome discussion😵

My luck seems to favour only trolling

I'm glad that II and R&B had their communication, in their own way. At least she's realizing that MM is her home, too and presently, has to be prioritized more. Amma, akka, everyone tells her to prioritize MM but when she doesn't and goes out of her way for D II and Munirka, they accept it.

She barely shares any of her personal issues with them and apart from the living in different continents bit, they seem to think that she's got it all.

So agree with your points SRIVIDYA.

I feel Bala and Vandu needs to be more united in their approach about things, especially since the baby has arrived now. It's they who need to prioritize and then speak to II if they feel so.

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Jai Singh Rathore

@jairathore

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#822

Lovely debate 😊

After thinking a lot, I think it wil be wrong to label it is correct or it is wrong.

In what I have seen in my life is that there are many things which we can't measure with right and wrong or happiness and sadness, they are way beyond that, specially things involving relationships and human emotions

Also what I have observed is more than self respect is fear, fear of society, fear what will others say, which is wrong but we middle class people are this only.

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dristi64

@dristi64

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#823

ASMA, SHEV DI

Where are you girls??? Hope all is well .

ANU said that she's not regular these days. Work I presume.

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dristi64

@dristi64

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#824

NAMS

You are so right. My father and I were talking today and he said that ppl think they'll be happy with what they don't have. But once that is achieved, they hanker for more and forget what they wished for previously.

I feel that Bala is a bit that way, especially since he struggles with finances.

Paavam though. He's had it tough, too.

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namratha

@NSB7

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#825

Originally posted by: dristi64
NAMS
You are so right. My father and I were talking today and he said that ppl think they'll be happy with what they don't have. But once that is achieved, they hanker for more and forget what they wished for previously.
I feel that Bala is a bit that way, especially since he struggles with finances.
Paavam though. He's had it tough, too.

wahi tho...!!

Sahi bath hai

Ashu - so true...healthy debates teach u things

Dristi - mere kismat sahi mein kharab hai

Just when everybody comes to discuss my lunch geys over and o need to head back to work

But aj after so many days I posted more than 2 msgs per and interacted

Feels good

Tadaaa

See you all when I leave for home

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Srividya

@moonwearer

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#826

Originally posted by: jairathore97
Lovely debate 😊
After thinking a lot, I think it wil be wrong to label it is correct or it is wrong.
In what I have seen in my life is that there are many things which we can't measure with right and wrong or happiness and sadness, they are way beyond that, specially things involving relationships and human emotions

Also what I have observed is more than self respect is fear, fear of society, fear what will others say, which is wrong but we middle class people are this only.

Nothing is entirely right or wrong but right from the Jaipur instance where Appa wanted to rush II to a Gync the iyer's have demonstrated lack of trust sensitivity and compassion to II. The dude has to earn trust agreed but humiliating her for choosing to marry the guy she is so madly in love with is not a crime...It is the attitude that is annoying...it is our actions that define our character our true identity...I find greater grace and nobility in the Bhallas with no hang ups about anything...the wedding onwards nothing blingy about them...ya they belong to a different class...thats how Subbhus mom and Ashwins mom thought of them too...
II was hurt at the way her Akka was viewed and has been consistent...you do not hurt your child/ sister as it hurts your pride...you talk to her i have no issues over that

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Ashu25

@Ashu25

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 10 years ago

#827

Originally posted by: moonwearer
Totally agree Ashu...a stance could have been taken before or after the wedding but they chose to look the other way...the poor girl left money and took a loan and cringes to take his money...they think shes basking in all the comforts ...the Dude never complains of the lack of facilities in the iyer homes...to him being t matters more it is not things but people...Shravu is imbibing this quality example the water guns video game and i pad fights...the dude takes the Metro to work in Paris...Bala is unable to tolerate the heat one evening when the car breaks down...Why cant he take the Delhi Metro?...Dude is a real Prince and II the most lovely ...yet look at the way she gets treated the girl has been made to feel unwanted ...she shares it with the Dude ...when slighted she now atleast has him to comfort her ...just imagine her plight had she wedded an iyer as planned

Thats why support her 😭

She is a gem

She never stops giving.

RB is one grounded guy. He never shows his wealth around. He does love a few rich luxurious things cause he was brought in wealth.

II would have had a million fights by now or she would have become one cow accepting all the Iyer pride and thwarting her self respect.

She is simply never treated well

People take her for granted. Not only at home even at work

She thinks she is impprtant in every body'life. But the truth is the BALLAS are her real importance. They adore her to the core. They are such simple people. And Iyers have a problem with that!

When I say she implants herself where she isnt desored I dont mean MM... It always has to be Munirka or DII

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dristi64

@dristi64

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#828

Bye NAMS

Hi ASHU

Hopefully I'm around for the next round of discussion, too.

Aaj PUTTI Aur VIBHU bada kaam pe lage hai. Koi awaz hi nahi. NOUF toh R&B dhund rahi hongi patients mein.😆

PANDA and PRITEE seems to be busy, too.

SR and VIKAS must be stalking.

Well, hugs to all🤗

Meri lawyer wali DHARA bhi nahi dikhi bohut dino se. 😳

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deepali.rock

@deepali.rock

Rocker

+ 3

Posted: 10 years ago

#829

Ashu and Sri.. So agree with what the two of you have said.. I have generally never had extreme opinions about anyone in the story.. But today whatever DII ppl are treating her is bad.. She's been insulted by them time and again.. You don't humiliate your daughter. They use her money for their benefit.. Use her car.. She runs around all day for shravu gets a burn.. Gives so much but all she gets is humiliation at their end. Bhallas are her family. Who adore respect love and care for her.. Iyers are being too radical and insensitive.. Go girl spend time with your dude.. Play with butter.. Sam tan dad and now even Manny. The minion.. These ppl care for her.. Go to them II No one cares in DII.. Having said this I don't even want her to be here on Tuesday.. Go do your work.. Take your hubby along.. But don't stay here

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Jai Singh Rathore

@jairathore

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#830

Originally posted by: moonwearer

Nothing is entirely right or wrong but right from the Jaipur instance where Appa wanted to rush II to a Gync the iyer's have demonstrated lack of trust sensitivity and compassion to II. The dude has to earn trust agreed but humiliating her for choosing to marry the guy she is so madly in love with is not a crime...It is the attitude that is annoying...it is our actions that define our character our true identity...I find greater grace and nobility in the Bhallas with no hang ups about anything...the wedding onwards nothing blingy about them...ya they belong to a different class...thats how Subbhus mom and Ashwins mom thought of them too...
II was hurt at the way her Akka was viewed and has been consistent...you do not hurt your child/ sister as it hurts your pride...you talk to her i have no issues over that

Hmmm correct

Even I have problem with appa

He is obsessed with hating dude and his that side overtake the appa who is a possessive lover of his daughter. I find it very immature.