Walking With YOU (MN).chp25...12/10..pg 143 - Page 52

The biggest evening of all the ceremony arrived and the anxiety preparations were on peak at both sides. Here the decoration of venue, dinner, arrangements were of biggest concern and were checking multiply times and there was a bit chilled environment as thy have not to much to prepared for

Nupur's house:

Nupur was leaving for the palour whn she was being hugged by her mother..

Zeenat: hum apni beti ko apni beti ki tarah dekh tu lay ….she lovingly spread her hand on her face..

N Nupur hugged her tight…n sobbed a bit, thing wch she was holding in her are now strting to pore out…khush raho hamesha aur apna buhat sara kayal rekhna ….rotay hoay ghar se nhi jatay….chalo sahabsh….

She left whn zeenat was still looking at the path

Zeenat: betiyaan kitni jaldi bari hojati hai na….aur phir chali bhi jati hain….bs khush rahy woh..

Diya: ami woh khush rahy gi ap fikar na ker bs duwa kerti rahain

Zeenat: duwa tu hum tum dodno k lyan kertay hain…..

She was going outside whn she meet dadu…he put his hand on her head pressing it gently….smiling at her

For the first time she saw sumthing gentle in his eyes, prayers, a slightly grief n happiness…

Before leaving there same prayers need to be offered tht im not including

Mayank's house

Mayank: hum seehra nhi banday gay….bata rahy hain

SA: ap ek kam keray shadi hi maat keray

Samrat" aray ami jan asa na kahaein bhai k heart fail hojay ga

Mayank: aj mein tumhara kam taama kerhi doo Samrat

SA: tum dodno ek ki shadi hai aj aur dossra bhi acha khasa bara hogya hai..aur bacho ki traha lar rahy hoo

Samrat: ami ap yeah nhi kaha sakti thi k ankareeb(very soon) meri bhi hai…meray armanoo(wishes) k ghoon(murder) kyun hota hai

MF: chukled….shilpa hum bata rahy hain…agaly saal tak is ki kerdo warna yeah khud hi lay aay ga…aur ap ko kiya pareshani hai…. asay moo kyun banaya hoa hai apni shadi k din…..

Mayank: baba hunain sehra nhi pehna …ajeeb kuch bakray jasa lagta hai insaan

MF: laughed ….maat pehno koi baat nhi….ap se tu achi Nupur hai…woh tu pehnay gi

Mayank: maaf keray per woh tu humain kuch Allah miya ki Gay lagti hain…(she seems to be too much obedient)

SA: acha dekhlyin Ap abhi tu biwi aai nhi aur abhi se us ki traf dari…..(aha wife hasent arrived and yet he is taking her side)

Samrat: wasy ap ko kasay baat woh asi hain…han ….han han….nazar hai ap per meri ….hmmm…..

MF: acha bs…mayank ap humara sath aay humain ap se baat kerni hai

Samrat: akelay mein baab apko kaun se moofid(useful) tips dayny waly hain …AJJJ k special occasion lyan…

Mayank encircled his arm around his neck suppressing his blush….n tightly hold him

Samrat: bhia maar jao ga

Mayank: ab bool ….nhi bool

Samara: aray tu woh makeup tips day rah hogay..

Thy bth looked at each other n brust in laughter..

Mayank worriedly was going to his father, he himself was fearing any TIPS being offered by him …knocking on door he entered

Mayank: ji baba

MF: aay yaha humaray pass….

He set beside him …

MF: Mayank aj ap ki zeemdari(responsibility) bahr ny wali hai….sirf ek insaan ki maadii( materialistic) zarooratien bori kerny ki hi nhi….magar us k jazabbat k kayal rekhny ki bhi…

(u just not only need to fulfill her materisltic needs yet u need to take care of her emotions to0

He nooded in yes…n was feeling suddenly..to heavy inside

Her insaan acha hota hai Mayank …bs waqt aur halat kahbi khabi usay misfit kerday tay hain…yeah ap ki zeeemdari hai k Nupur ko is ghar mein ghar jasa mehsoos ho…na kay kuch adhoora lagay …..

Apki maa k beta aj se do hisoo mein bat jay ga…aur khabi khbai ap ko khud bhi yeah mehsoos hoga….per agar ap is mein balance rekhy gay tu khud bhi khush rahy gay aur saas aur bahu k rishta bhi kharab nhi hoaga …

(ur mothers son is now being divided into two, n at time u will feel like this to, but if u balnce bth of them thn u will remain in peace plus, saad and bahu will also)

Mayank: ji….he said so but he wasn't getting a thing

Mjhy pata hai apko is waqt lag raha hai as kuch nhi hai na hoga, per asa hoga …tu mohtaad(careful)rahy…doosara

Ek larki apna sab kuch, apny sary rishtay, apna sara ghar, apni her payari cheez chor ker apk pass arahi hai…us k ehsaan mand(grateful) nhi rekh saktay tu kam se kam, us se pyar, aur izaat dayna us k haq hi ni ap ka faraz hai….hum aur ap ko koi kahay k ghar aur ghar walo chor do choro ga…

He immediately nodded no , n thn took deep breath realizing how difficult it must be….

Hmm samhj agaya matalb

Mayank: he smiled ji…thnks baba

MF: ur most welcum ….jay ap k bhai aur ami aur kai arrman niklay muntazir(waiting) hain ap k ..

Mayank: baba is waqt tu sach mein hum apni halat kisi qurabni k janwar se mehsoos ho rahi hai…

MF: lauaghed…khus raho aur us ko bhi khush rahkoo…smahjy…

Evy one was dressed up perfectly n left for the venue….as Nupur came diya was stunt to looking at her

Diya: Nupur…..

Nupur: kya hoa api..hum kya buhat ajeeb lag rahy hain

Diya: ap jitni khubsoorat lag rahin hai na ….MashAllah…amii…idhar tu aay

Now Nupur was smiling n blushing there praise were making her so embarrassed, n red….

Zeenat with teary eys kissed her forehead …n not being able to control her emotions ask diya to take her to the hall….covering her with a red, net or organza veil…..

Mayank was getting ready in his room when samrat peaked in

Samrat: bhai tumahin parlor jana chaiy tha

Mayank: pagal hogay ho kiya

Samrat came near him n looked him from top to bottom ….wasy zaroorat nhi….abhi tu tum ny sherwani nhi behani…phir bhi achy khasay handsum lag rahy hoo…...he hugged him n mayank smiled n patted his back…

Chalein warna abhii ami ki zoor daar awaz aay gi….

Oki as per tradition , sherwani is being wore with help of all elders, this strange put yet it done like that….

He came in hall, n his father made him wear the sherwani, hugged him , …thn samart jumped buttoning the top most one, followed by other elders that will do the left overs, and will give shagun to Mayank called as sehra bnadhi, the turban is placed on his head by his father, n uncle..properly tucking his hairs….

His cousin's wife came n applied surma in his eyes, its bhaibi's naik ….

Bhabi: naik nikaloo

Mayank: kyun nikaloo, yeah tu kali hai ..is mein surma(kajal) kaha hain

Bhabi: Mayank sach mein laga day gay hum …jaldi nikalo

Mayank: nhi nhi pls yeah zulm nhi…yeah layin

His brother put a garland in his neck…n than they proceed to the grooms car…n set in side….

Reaching the venue, Mayank was about to step down when adi came in n stoped him

Mayank: adi kya hua

Adi: rassta rukhay k namm suna hia

Mayank: Oh goddd…..ab ap bhi ….wasy IMF se kab nhi hain ap sab…loto mjhy khub looto…

Cousin: Mayank bhai jaldi sab intezar ker rahy hain

Mayank: mjhy bahar tu aany tu mein dayta hoon…pakka

Thik hai…he come out n gave them the money…reaching inside he dadu gave him blessings and adi hugged him n placed a garland …he was with his brother thn reached the stage and set down…where phot session was carried by Samrat and adi….

Adi was called by dadu …

Dadu: apki ijazzat ho tu nikah shooro keray…

MF: ji bulkul…papers day dain tu hum apny gawah( witness) ki signature aur naam likh walyin

In nikah there are two witness from grooms side, not his father…n two from bride..n one wakeel..i.e. a person who will take brides permission for this wedding..he should be brides blood relative…

The signature of all of them is done in the end before prayers that they have listen bth the side, and that groom n bride has excpted each other. Nikhah nama..is document tht holds all these things, including some rights that r giving to bride at time of wedding…like mehar( alimony), pocket money she will get n must get, the right of divorce if given by her husband, n many more there are 28 clause so I don't want to discus…

Nupur's dadu., her one uncle as wakeel, adi and one of her mamo enter the brides room…

Adi: ami nikah shooro keray..

Zeenat: ji bulkily…she set beside Nupur to give her strength, and diya went beside her to be there with her..while her uncle who is wakeel set bedside her

Uncle: Nupur wald Waqar Ali, ap k nikah ba ewaz 1.5 lakh mehar, sika raj-ol-waqt, Mayank ahmed khan wald ahmed ali khan k sath kiya ja raha hai ..kya ap ko qoobool hai…

(Nupur d/o waqr ali , ur nikah with an alimony of 1.5 lakhs, as per todays curancy, is being done with Mayank ahmed khan, do u agree)

This statement was given her shivers…the only thing she can whispered was

Nupur: ji….

The statement is repeated three times ….

Her uncle kissed her forehead n in congratulating her…n zeenat droped some tears as now half way nupurs belong to sum one else

He placedd nikaha nama in fornt of her ..n she signed it four time..( four copies of nikaha nama, 1 for couple, one for registration, one for sasural, n one for her family)

Mehar decided in todays currency, its ur choice, mehra has many forms, it can be money thing , jewlley etc etc, n is meant to be given to woman, not neccesarly whn divorced…inlife time she must be given

Adi placed his hand on her head, as she was feeling really weak n sobbed a bit….diya huuged her n than zeenat…males went outside to proceed towards Mayanks nikhah

Groom's nikah is done by MOLVI SAHEB…..

String with Nikah sermon that is set of aayat n pryers….there r three aayat wch r recited form wch im pasting two

O people, keep your duty to your Lord, Who created you from a single being and created its mate of the same kind, and spread from these two many men and women. And keep your duty to Allah by Whom you demand one of another (your rights) and to the ties of relationship. Surely Allah is ever a Watcher over you

In these verses, emphasis has been laid on fulfilling one's duty to Allah as well as to one's fellow beings and they outline the main objectives of married life. Again, attention has been drawn towards safeguarding the rights. the need to deal with one's kith and kin with love and affection has been reiterated. The verses also point out that both men and women are equal in rights and rewards, and in order to provide a congenial atmosphere and a happy domestic life for the proper upbringing of children it is essential that husband and wife should respect each other and fulfil their mutual obligations sincerely. Again, while fulfilling one's obligations one should be straightforward and truthful so that domestic life is not marred by mistrust and misunderstanding.

And of His signs is this, that He created mates for you from yourselves that you might find quiet of mind in them, and He put between you love and compassion. Surely there are signs in this for a people who reflect (30:21).\

Allah consider companionship between wife and husband , love respect, as HIS sign and blessings, and the a relation that is closest and most intimate and beautiful.

After reciting the sermon the Molana sehab will ask the groom of his assurance

Mayank ahmed khan ap k nikah nupur ali wald waqr ali k sath ba ewaz 1.5 lakh mehra sekaha raj-ol-waqt kiya ja raha hi kiya ap ko qoonol hai

He took a deep breath as surly he knew, saying I do just not only mean that he is taking Nupur as his wife but he is also saying that to Allah that he will fulfill all tht Allah n prophet as asked him to. He also agrees with the duties, n promises mentioned in sermon….

Mayank: qabool hai….

Saying this three times…zeenat closed her eys to let tears to flow down n diya hugged her mother tighly n sobbed a bit ..she went to Nupur was very cold, n fearing everything n hugged her smilingly n congrats her

Diya: Mubarak ho..Mrs nupur Mayank ahmed….she hugged her n control her sobes,

This name came like a hurricane of emotions that arose in her heart…she smiled n blushed and yet was feeling something is being left behind

and than it was praying time ..

As Mayank signed the paperees….evryone raise ther hands to Allah to pray for the newly wedded couple..

As he paryed for happiness of him her n bth families, as giving him strength form Lord to fulfill is responsibilities…she prayed for the same too…..

Mayank stod up as everyone gathered to congratulate him…dadu , adi, his father everyone hugged him n congratulated him n wished him…samrat camed in dancing a bit ..to which Mayank shoked his head n smiled

Samrat: bhai tum loota gay tumahir bachelor ship gai

He laughed n hugged his brother…congrats broo….jao us taraf hai brides room, bhabhi ko utha ker layoo….

He pulled his ears

They bth laughed

Mayank went down n entered a closed area of woman's siting to get wishes from the mothers…he hugged her mother n she kissed him n thn went to zeenat who was still a bit teary

Mayank: ami…ap hum per behroosa rekhy plss

Zeenat: beta ap per hi tu behroosa hai…..khush rahy …as he huged her…..

Diya also camed n wished him

There are a set of eatables tht is distributed after nikah to evr1…having dry dates, sweet, etc as per ur will

As the wishing session came to an end, it was time for the groom to meet bride..not like that…I know I m leaving sum strictness as dadu out but im making it more realistic…

Nupur was asked to be brought out to stage and Mayank was set on stage where closed relatives were….

Diya: chalein MRs Mayank…dulahy raj se milnya k waqt agaya

Nupur: api hum behossh ho gay tu kasoor ap k hoaga

Diya: nhi nhi…mayank behosh hogaya tu kasoor apka hoag….wasy aj hum ny us k sary daath gin liya..

Nupur: ji///???

Diya: haan…us ki simile hai k wide se wider hoti ja rahi hai…ajo bahar gayab kertay hai…chalo

Holding her hand, n correcting her dress, placing veil properly(veil is a bit see though u can see thought it but not clearly) she grip her hand n start walking out..

Samrat: hoshiyar kahbar dar….bhabhi arahi hai….

He knew very well he needs to control his heart, n remain in his scnce, wch were getting lost as soon as the the sight infornt of hi was changing

His smile vanished complete as n expression of stunt, admire, n passion took over him, he was gazing her without even blinking his eyes….the sight was so beautiful and heavenly , she …She was proceeding towards him ..being his…he was lost in seeing her…though he cant look at he r propely but still he knew she was giving him tough time to remain spoted….

She was looking beautiful, amazingly beautiful, perfectly fixed aatire the colour was making her more beautiful, her hands holding each other nervously, the decorum of hena on her hands, the colour..he smiled…

Adi: bs kerday mjhy pata hai pehli baar dekh raha hai…but beta tu pakra jay ga…asay dekhy ga tu

His words make him cum back to his scnece..n he smiled in full embracement…GOD ..

Mayank: thanks…he said to adi n bth smile…this time adi has an smile of adoring at his confession….as he patted is cheek

He move forwarded n ask her hand ….

Samrat's jaw droped, bhai sab k samny….adi was smiling..he can hold himself…diya was teasing Nupur…wch made her smile….

Nupur placed her hand in his, it was as ice met the warmth, to melt her all inner fears, as if now she knew everything is fine, his hold was soft but yet firm…..

He frown a bit her hands were dam cold…he smiled inside…is larki k kuch nhi hosakta itni tension….

Pictures where taken, and both families cherished the moment, as soo the bidai time arrived

MF: ali sehab ijazzat ho tu hum apni beti lo ay jay

Dadu: bulkily….

Diya took the sehra out of the box, n put at the forehead of 7 married women, to take ther blessings one by one..the 7^th head should be of bride

Adi , n nupurs mamo…came n tied the sehra on her head, sliding the net veil off to let her breath…haa…

The holy book of quran was placed on bth of there head, by brother so adi….

As zeenat diya meet Nupur last time, n dadu placed his hand on her head…they were escorted til the end in the same way , with one hand SA took the weight of sehra n slided Nupur inside the car…n mayank after meeting everyone accompany her….he can hear her slight sob, n placed his hand on her sligly sqeeizing her hand for support…

ADi: ami ap abhi bhi roo rahi hain

Zeenat: Nupur ki shadi Nupur ki shadi….kitna shoor tha na…aur ab dekho ho bhi gai Nupur ki shadi….aur dekho woh chali bhi gai…sochty thy k jab dono betiyaoon(daughters) ki shadi hojay ji tu kitna sukoon milay ga…aj tu akela pan mehsoos horah hai

Adi: us ki ek wajah hai

Zeenat: kya

Adi: ap ny apni baaly(troubles) humary sir daldin aur sukkon ki baat kerti hain….he said naughty …

Zeenat: adiii…..she smiled a bit ..n place her hand on his head..

Adi: chalein ghar chalein….itni raat ko tu Sali bhi nhi humain chay kaun pelaay ga ab…he said himself being getting a bit emotional but than control himself…..

The car came near house Samrat want off it as driver was driving…as ask him to came at house

The reached n Nupur step out of the car as SA helped her…n she

Nupur: aah….she got scred with the soud of fireworks all around

Samrat: kya bhai ap daar gai …ap humary ghar aai hain …sari suniya ko pata chaln chaiya….

Shilpa took Nupur to the hall , where a small area was decorated for MOO dekhai rasam(gifts are given to birde)…n placed her there n now removed her sehra.. as Mayank set beside her…but as he wass iting beside still he cant see her….ufff…

The close relative got together..n the Kheer chati rasm strat

Shilpa came and sit beside Nupur, while Samrat came n sit beside mayank… she took the bowl in her hand and ask Nupur to take the spoon supporting her hand with hers…and ask her too feed Mayank, she did but didn't dare to look at Mayank, while Mayank did the same, but feeling he will again get lost, looked but just for flick of sec, that was way enough to make his heart fluter….. Samrat was busy playing with them, whn ever Nupur came to feed him he pull Mayank away…

This is done seven times…and than evry1 cum and gave her gifts and feed sweet…

And finally the rituals finished as Nupur was helped and let to her new room..there room…

This feeling was not less than a hurricane of emotions. A heart that cant just slow done, the shivers tht are increasing, the numbness tht is not being warmth by the nth time rubbing of her hands…..all of it and the pasing sec ware racing evrythning inside her….