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Hina

@hinz

Moderator

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Posted: 10 years ago

#31

There is absolutely no need to get personal in discussions involving fictional characters. Opinions will differ and we have to learn to disagree in an acceptable manner. Kindly refrain from personal attacks on members or fangroups to avoid further issues.

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merrydock

@merrydock

Voyager

+ 6

Posted: 10 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: divyasn

Yup Baldev and Bansuri did torture and did so many wrong things to Veera

1) He made Veera carry heavy shopping bags ... Eventhough Veera doesnt have any health issue or back problem . And she did work her a** off in Nihaal's farm without proper food ... ( that was for her poojy papaji's dream ) she will even die for that , but how dare Baldev ask her to carry bags and torture her ...

2) He made her prepare food -- Ok Veera forced newly wed Gunjan to make dozens and dozens of parathas for Baldev and co , but how can Veera make food .. bechari 😕

3) He asked her to dance infront of the some paraye mard .. chalo Veera told worse things to Baldev, slapped him, blamed him, and she freely visits rajveer who stays alone irrespective of the time , but how dare Baldev say such a thing ... he did a grave sin ...

4) Bansuri scolded Veera and informed Baldev about Veera's regular late comings, sneaking out of house lying at night , meeting Rajveer at his house many times ...
Chalo Veera did scold, insult, threaten , intimidate Gunjan when she was trying to elope and escape from her Veerji ... but how could elderly Bansuri taunt and scold her ... ghor paap ...

Bechari Veera ...

Now they both will torture her by giving her divorce ... aur kithne sulm sahengi ye bechari ... 😭

she visited rajveer putting her life in danger in order to find proof of baldev innocence, and to find out how rajveer framed baldev, and why nihal got killed and by who? she did all this only for baldev. irrespective of what happened to her in the end, and long as baldev was acquitted of any blame.

if anybody else was there in veera's place and had to undergo what she had to alone, she should have left baldev to his own accord, veera could have gone back to her veerji house and told them the truth of how baldev was ill treating her. her brother loves her enough to forgive her and take her back. but baldev would have ended up in jail for the rest of his life.

so she didnt totally believe him, but she didnt totally not believe him either. she knew deep down he was innocent. she was being practical. and so she slapped him when she thought that he framed her veerji for the liquor. but she was the one to find out the truth. and expose the real culprits. veera supported baldev in this murder case totally, even thought he didnt even listen to her or support her. she did it all alone. and she did it all only for baldev.

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Mandy

@MrDarcyfan

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 10 years ago

#33

@ Divyasn: Wow... I have been a member of India forums for 3.5 years but have never been attacked in this disgusting way before! How dare you call me a victim of domestic violence? What do you know of me? I said that you are immature because you can't see two sides to a story! You thought THAT was a personal attack? What is what you have said? What do you think of yourself?

I didn't see this disgusting comment you made, because I had no interest in perusing this discussion! I have never been abused in my life! You don't have be a victim of domestic violence to sympathize with someone who has! You have really shown your true colors, by making such a vile attack on me! You have taken this too far! This is how you react to people who don't agree with you? By making such cheap comments?

Shame on you!

@Shivani_4u: You have liked this comment? You have liked a comment where a member has attacked another member and called her a victim of domestic abuse? I have no words!

Edited by MrDarcyfan - 10 years ago

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notacrimetolove

@notacrimetolove

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#34

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan
@ Divyasn: Wow... I have been on this forum for 3.5 years but have never been attacked in this disgusting way before! How dare you call me a victim of domectic violence? What do you know of me? I said that you are immature because you can't see two sides to a story! You thought THAT was a personal attack? What is what you have said? What do you think of yourself?

I didn't see this disgusting comment you made, because I had no interest in persuing this discussion! I have never been abused in my life! You don't have be a victim of dometic violence to sympathise with someone who has! You have really shown your true colours, by making such a vile attack on me! You have taken this too far! This is how you react to people who don't agree with you?

Shame on you!

@shivani4u: you have liked this comment? You have liked a comment where a member has attacked another member and called her a victim of domestic abuse? I have no words!

I agree that comment was too far. It's like she's saying it mockingly and saying that since you're so sure about your opinion about Baldev that you MUST be a victim of domestic abuse. That somehow seeing Baldev's mistakes or seeing it from a different point of view means you must have been a victim of domestic abuse?

We all tend to share different opinions on here and I have my own opinion but I have never for one called anyone a victim of domestic abuse or even a victim of rape (or ever thought to) which is just as bad and I find it awful how someone can so easily throw such serious issues around over FICTIONAL CHARACTERS. These are real issues (horrible issues that many people go through) that you are throwing around in a discussion about fictional characters and throwing in someone's face?

And this isn't even about Baldev and Veera to me right now because I've always bashed Veera when she's done something bad and supported Baldev. But it's just the fact that how can you carelessly say to someone over a discussion about fictional characters that they're a victim of abuse just because you don't like their opinion?

I'm offended and it wasn't even directed towards me and no before you say anything I am not a victim of abuse and that's not why I'm saying all this and waving my flag. It just stuns me how people can be so insensitive.

Also, I kind of have the same reaction (much worse) when I see someone telling another person to kill themselves or telling them they deserve to get cancer or be raped especially when it's over an argument over fictional shows or bands or whatever. And I'm not saying you've done either of these things but it just is appalling how people can be so cruel and insensitive nowadays especially over the smallest of things.

Those are fictional characters you are discussing BUT these are real people you are talking to.

And yes I know someone's bound to ask why I'm butting in but I'm just offended that just because of your opinion you can so easily be labelled as a victim of domestic abuse on here. Clearly some people on here don't know what some of those people who suffer domestic abuse go through, clearly they don't understand how real of an issue it is because if they did they wouldn't be so carelessly throwing words like that around and trying to use it to get one over on someone in a discussion about a fictional show with fictional characters.

Edited by MariaS395 - 10 years ago

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LoveIzMusic

@LoveIzMusic

Navigator

Posted: 10 years ago

#35

I also agree that baldev made the right decision. Hopefully he is doing it out of respect for himself and not because he loves Veera

Edited by LoveIzMusic - 10 years ago

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notacrimetolove

@notacrimetolove

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#36

I for one think Baldev is making the right decision but he should have made it sooner but oh well better late than never. I think it's safe to say VeeBa are going to end up together no matter how unhealthy they've portrayed their relationship to be because they're the shows lead pairing. It doesn't matter what I or anyone thinks because they're bound to be endgame so I can only hope that they do try to somewhat redeem them and make it somewhat realistic and acceptable that they end up together which means sorting out all their issues properly over time and also Veera acknowledging her veerji problem and learning to see his wrongs as wrongs and let go of her veerji jaap.

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KambakthIshq

@KambakthIshq

Sparkler

+ 4

Posted: 10 years ago

#37

@divyasn... I know it's none of my business to intrude in your discussions. But, the domestic violence comment you made is Very shameful indeed!!

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Mandy

@MrDarcyfan

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 10 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: KambakthIshq
@divyasn... I know it's none of my business to intrude in your discussions. But, the domestic violence comment you made is Very shameful indeed!!

Thank you to you and to the other member here who has supported me! I am just stunned at the way I have been attacked! It was totally uncalled for, in reponse to the comment I made! It was so abusive actually! I may not be a victim of domestic abuse, but I have definitely been a victim of verbal abuse on this forum!

Edited by MrDarcyfan - 10 years ago

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SailorMoonStar

@SailorMoonStar

Dazzler

Posted: 10 years ago

#39

Gosh all these Veera bhakhts are getting so hyper 🥱.

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Mandy

@MrDarcyfan

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 10 years ago

#40

Originally posted by: SailorMoonStar
Gosh all these Veera bhakhts are getting so hyper 🥱.

You try being called a victim of domestic abuse coz you felt sorry for a character that got pushed around, and see how you like it! Some people on this forum think they can speak to people in any cheap way they like just to win an argument! Give that a thought!

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