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Posted: 10 years ago
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When we are talking about a relationship, then there is no ONlY baldev or ONlY veera. I think it is immature to ask for divorce
It is also time for Baldev to understand what Veera has done, just like how Veera should understand what Baldev has gone through

It takes time to have a solid relationship. Such Muskiile in life makes your relationship strong. Running away from difficulties or setting someone free is not the solution..

People think once you fall in love, you 100 percent understand the person you love. That happens only in Shshrukh Khan movie. The reality is, it is easy to fall in love, but difficult to maintain the relationship. That is what is shown in Veera,

I am finding Veera's evolution from an obsessive sister to an understanding wife quite good.


Frankly, i never liked Veera per se, but if I were veera, I would just sign the paper and leave. Everybody makes mistakes and veera too made mistakes. But she is not even given a chance to ask for forgiveness. When the other person is so blinded with hate and distrust, then it is no use being in that relationship.

Again, not a veera fan..! Always been baldev fan...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Agree with you. I'm glad with baldev decision of getting divorce. Baldev has done so much for that ungrateful ss family and veera.. Only because of veera baldev had to fold his hand infront loser rotlu veerji.. Because of veera he beared every insult from ranvi and ss family..veera is padi likhi gawar who only knows how hurt baldev and play with his feelings.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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great post divyasn 👏
m happy for ballu đŸ„ł
first tym he thinks for himself.. 👏
jalne wale jale menu ki 😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Just want to say something,i think its the need. I am a veera fan(but nt blind fan and i proved it),i am obviously not a baldev fan also(just liked the unique character has came on indian tv serial,thats it) we all knw baldev was always a spoilt brat,he never respected his own father(thou' he was been respected due to his father only,otherwise he's nothing,accept it.) baldev who used to believe his beeji blindly,hated ranvi,as well as veera.When veera was away from pind,till this all years,baldev was 'awara' 'gunda' 'dadagiri'overall a rowdy man.His image was built in pind's mind.Even in his father's mind also.Bt nobody thinked even once what lies behind this 'mannerless' man.If veera hadn't came in his life,he shudn't had changed(truth is always bitter).Then veera entered after a long gap of 15 yrs.When he met veera,he found someone,who can give him an eye to eye,the one who has a guts to do things against him.Then slowly when he get to know abt her truth,his inside cute man came out.Slowly he started to think,what is wrong,what is right. Balwant says him that this is wrong,but why he never explained. But veera,showed all mistakes right to his face,helped him realized the things,his mistakes. Baldev changed into soft man is due to veera only. And people are ignoring all these and keeps bashing her. I agree that veera has taken him granted,totally agree,for her no use family's sake,just that she's indebted to them. I m honestly speaking,i never liked ss family. Whether sampooran or selfish ratan. Veera took baldev granted for her family nt for herself,so she shud nt be considered as 'selfish'. Selfish girls are the one like gunjan(really srry guys) who are ready to put their own self respect for stake,that are called mean. Gunjan was ready to marry with jagjeet why just her wishes will get fulfiled nt that she really loves him,who was ready to sleep with a stranger. Such girls are called 'selfish' nt the ones who care for her family. I m noticing these and today it break me up to speak this which was running from some days in mind. I never seen here criticizing baldev for his deeds. Always veera veera veera! None of baldev fan criticized him except some. For a while just forget this track,and think. After dangal mishap,when baldev went to party and saw veera did he even think once,before doubting her? She went to machaan to meet him,did he even bother to meet her? What veera did at home when he was jailed for first time,did he even know that thing? Why anybody is not seeing this things of baldev's distrust on veera! Only u are seeing veera's distrust! I never seen here criticizing baldev for his deeds,except some. Atleast i the mad fan of veera(used to be once idol for me) had critized her when he spoke that hurting words for him at wedding night. Thank god i m nt that biased one. If baldev can get one chance to improve,then veera shud also get that. See veera has done mistake,and she's slowly accepting that. She's also trying to do something in whatever way possible,we must give her the chance. Agar log baldev jaise insaan ko uske kuch achhe karmo ki vajah se usko pichle gunaho ko maaf kar sakta hai,toh veera ko kyu nahi? Just honestly give me the answer honestly,i m nt comparing, - "we all know how bansuri is so mean even to her own children,we r seeing her,tell me frankly,suppose if baldev had gone insane due to bansuri,and she tried to help him,slowly realized her mistake,then what your opinion would be?" i knw many will say m blind fan of veera and I've many answers to you,but i don't feel any need to explain.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I am just wondering how ppl here would have reacted if Veera demanded the divorce! 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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what i dont understand is all the people bashing veera or baldev enjoy the serial or are only concerned about their favorite character. and go full on to only support for that character be it baldev, veera or ranvi. ? then i think you all are watching the wrong show, you mean to be watching Big Boss on colours.😃
the show is not about the characters but the plot. if veera didnt believe in baldev, which i still maintain that deep down she knew the was not the killer, other wise she would not have married him at all, she would have listened to her veerji and broken all ties with him. and left him to suffer the consequences of his action of killing Nihal.

yes she married baldev in a hurry, and maybe that was the wrong thing to do. but what were the chances that if she didn't marry him, ranvi would have given his statement in the police station and baldev would have remained in jail till the trial was over. ranvi would not have aloud veera to meet or talk to baldev or his friends. baldev would not be given a chance to prove his innocence, and neither would veera have a chance to investigate what the real truth was. but then she wouldn't because she would believe that baldev did kill nihal.

so baldev goes to jail, veera moves on and probably marry her veerji choice rajveer, who would have gotten away with the perfect murder, till a time veera accidently stumbles on the truth and finds out that baldev was really innocent and the real killer is rajveer her husband.

well of course all the fans will bash her saying she deservs it for not believing baldev and letting him go to jail, which she would richly deserve.

now what ? so veera being veera decides the reveal the truth and brings out rajveer true face, and he get caught and goes to jail, or to escape he kills veera so end or serial.

if he does go to jail, then what? veera cant go back to baldev for obviously reason, and he too would not want her back.

but then that would be the end of baldev's character. the serial name is"VEERA" that would mean that if baldev and veera cant be together, then baldev has to move to another place with his family. and baldev out of serial. to bad for only baldev fans😭

veera continues her life as single woman, they introduce new character opp her, handsome, smart, engineer or doctor. and things are all hunky dory again. with some twists here and there new jodi of veera and new guy.

BUT NO BALDEV!😭😭

I DONT GET THE POINT OF BASHING THE CHARACTERS, VEERA BALDEV ARE A PAIR, AND I LOVE VEEBA. BOTH WILL MAKE MISTAKES, BUT THEY WILL ALSO SOLVE THEM IN TIME. VEERA DIDNT SHOW COMPLETE TRUST ON BALDEV, AND BALDEV BELIEVED SHE WAS BEING UNFAITHFUL TO HIM.

BOTH VICTIMS OF CIRCUMSTANCES. VEERA ONLY DID NOT BELIEVE THAT HER BROTHER WAS LYING ABOUT WHAT HE SAW, BUT DEEP DOWN SHE DIDN'T REALLY BELIEVE THAT BALDEV WAS A KILLER EITHER.

BALDEV SAW VEERA MEETING RAJVEER AND BELIEVED SHE WAS HAVING AN AFFAIR WITH HIM AND WANTED TO GO TO JAIL. SO HE TOOK A GUN AND PLAYED RUSSIAN ROULETTE WITH THEIR LIVES.

BOTH MADE MISTAKES, VEERA WAS ONLY DOING THE SAME THING THAT BALDEV WAS TRYING TO PROVE HIM INNOCENT. ONLY THEY SHOULD HAVE DONE IT TOGETHER.

this divorce is only a new plot to carry the serial forward, the few months it has before it goes of air, veera will manow baldev, and tell him a million times that what is did was only for him. if he doesn't listen she may decide to leave, baldev will come to his senses realising he still loves her. and get her back. the end everybody lives happily every after😛👏👏. except up who will miss seeing veeba everyday.😭😭


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: TeriGalliyan

Agree with you. I'm glad with baldev decision of getting divorce. Baldev has done so much for that ungrateful ss family and veera.. Only because of veera baldev had to fold his hand infront loser rotlu veerji.. Because of veera he beared every insult from ranvi and ss family..veera is padi likhi gawar who only knows how hurt baldev and play with his feelings.



err i hope you understand if veera baldev are no longer together, then baldev's character will end. the cv will like make him leave the pind, or die in road accident. there will be entry of new guy. so no baldev
serial name is "Ek Veer ki Ardaas- Veera"

like they say be careful what you wish for, you might just get it, and may not like it at all😆😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

I am not a Veera fan. Not everyone who is not biased against one character is a "Fan!" of that character. I am a fan of the show, and then I was a fan of Baldev / Vishal! Some of us like to look at BOTH sides of the equation. Not just one!



So don't be so small minded as to state that all the people who have a problem with the way Baldev has acted time to time are all Veera fans! But the people who just blindly support Baldev no matter WHAT he does are actually blind Baldev fans!


When Veera and Baldev married, I was LIVID with Veera when she told him her "veerji cant be wrong" and all that BS! I thought she was a total gone case! I bashed her and she DESERVED it! But then some people here started to say she deserves to be thrown out of the house, she deserves to be publicly humiliated, she deserves to be forced to dance in Dhaba's etc etc. THAT is where I drew the line.


I totally understand that Baldev is angry with her. He feels betrayed. He is JUSTIFIED in it. But that dosent mean that ALL acts undertaken by him and ALL behavior should be excused! Personally I have NO issue with Baldev seeking a divorce. I think it is a very good decision! Their relationship is VERY dysfunctional and toxic. I don't think it should continue!


So please before accusing every person with a BALANCED view point of being "Veera fans" get your facts straight! Not everyone has just ONE opinion on this forum! That Baldev is always right! Veera may even be always wrong, but that STILL dosent make Baldev always right!

I agree iwth each and every word you said.
I am not a Veera fan at all, instead I always found her obsession towards Ranvi qite over-the-top, but this still is not making Baldev's actions right or justified. But, I was constantly accused of being a "blind" Veera fan.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: TeriGalliyan

Agree with you. I'm glad with baldev decision of getting divorce. Baldev has done so much for that ungrateful ss family and veera.. Only because of veera baldev had to fold his hand infront loser rotlu veerji.. Because of veera he beared every insult from ranvi and ss family..veera is padi likhi gawar who only knows how hurt baldev and play with his feelings.


Yes, I know that you are a Baldev fan, but can you tell me if Baldev will be happy without Veera?
(I can rifghtfully assume from his actions that he truly loves Veera, so it will very difficult for him to forget her.)

Alsl, I know that Veera needs a redemption but her redemption does not come from begging to Baldev. (That would only be correct if Baldev had not tortured her in return and was a fab husband, which he clearly was not.)
Her redemption will come when she realizes her mistakes and promises never to repeat them. She must trust her husband and never follow anyone blindly. She should realize that her Veerji is not always right and that she should correct him when he isn't.
At the same time, Baldev must also now redeem himself. (He must also apologize to Veera, and only Veera, for everything he has done to her. You may choose or not choose ot agree with me,but h has not given respect to his wife.)

Sorry if I sounded rude. I'm just trying to explain my POV.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Bars

I am just wondering how ppl here would have reacted if Veera demanded the divorce! 😆

Well, if I was Baldev from before his marriage and before the CVs decided to butcher his character; I would say the following -
Toh kya hua agar Veera ne tujhe chod diay, Blaldev. Mein hoom na! Mein usse ziyada padhi likhi hoom, foreing cittizen hoom, khana bhi thik thak bana leti hoom, aur tumhe bahut khush rakhungi!
Aur bonus ke liye, mujhe apne Veerji ka koi obsession bhi nahi hai.

But, right now, (after this whole track) I would say to Veera if she decides to Divorce him:
Do a wife's duty by saving him, because at the botom of your heart you know he is innocent. And, then you can do whatever you so desire.

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