For me rags did no wrong!! - Page 3

Originally posted by: Yellowdiamond

Raghav didn't take Paaki to flaunt her! She flaunt herself so that Kalpi will see both of them together, Paaki still has hope that she will win raghav!! Kamal is misleading
Paaki knowing the truth about raghav and Kalpi! She knows they love eachother!! Raghav always told the truth to Kalpi and Kamla! It's Paaki who's encouraging raghav saying she have to ale excuse all the time! Why did he remove her hand from holding her then? Why did he question her about the sindoor and friend if he didn't care about Kalpi?! Wen it comes to telling the truth raghav have done it! Unlike Kamla, she know the truth but yet lies to Paaki just to encourage her in false love!! Raghav is not overlooking gauris feelings in fact he is doing all this to Paaki because of his mom! He wants to keep her happy and by doing that he is also taken away from his love!!
I do appreciate your opinion and don't consider it as bashing! Clearly we have different opinions!!

Originally posted by: _innocent_

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">He allowed her to flaunt him right? She was not holding a gun to his head nor coerced him in any other shape or form! He did it happily with a smile on his face (watch yesterday's episode for a btter understand of this description)</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">He questioned her about the sindoor but he did not stop her from wearing it? Pakhi told him she did not want the world to question her about her relationship, so he happily obliged to be flaunted as her legal husband! Where does that leave Kalpana in the eyes of the world? As nothing more than a homewrecker, so if he truly felt Kalpana's pain, he would never have allowed Pakhi to have proceeded in these activities. For me, he is yet to understand the depth of the pain he has caused her thus why his I, me and myself attitude is not being liked by people.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Making Pakhi happy is EXACTLY doing what Gauri DOES NOT want him to be doing. That is termed as overlooking his mother's feelings. Where is the revenge he promised Gauri? Making the enemy's daughter happy, is no revenge Gauri was seeking.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Kamla and Raghav have both been big manipulators in this show and Pakhi too has joined the wagon. Raghav has always used emotional blackmail on Kalpana and succeeded. Kamla has always ensured Kalpana remembers that she has to repay her for having carried her in her womb for 9 months and PAKHI well no comments for her as she was a born selfish brat. Pakhi believes the positive attitude Raghav is showing towards her means he will not leave her, and come on Raghav has not mentioned his love for Kalpana again after that wedding night, instead he extended the hand of friendship, the first stage of anyrelationshipbetween a husband and wife: so its only going to add to her delusions and there I cannot blame her per se.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Indeed Dianne, and healthy disagreements are what make the world go round!😳</font>

Originally posted by: Yellowdiamond

Kalpi is in pain because of her mother! Only her mother!!

Originally posted by: erikalui

I agree with the fact that Raghav did not inform Kalpi before the marriage but the CVs have shown Raghav's character in a way that he always takes decisions quickly. When he came to know about his mother's suffering and dad's death, his mind stopped working and it was only revenge he was thinking about. If he had informed Kalpi that he is not getting married to her, Kamla would definitely interfere and Raghav would not be able to marry Pakhi as well. That moment was first his revenge and nothing else.

Regarding friendship between Rakhi: Raghav did not have any other way to stop Pakhi from leaving the house as there would be no reason for her to stay with him under one roof. Pakhi can just leave if she knows she is being ill treated and hurt all the time and Raghav nor Gauri can force her to stay with them. Friendship was the only option because of which she is staying in that house. Raghav wants her to stay in that house so that he can take revenge on the Kapoors as Pakhi is their weakness and he is doing this because of Gauri.

I know the revenge thing is not making sense but this is what I could get from the episodes I have seen until now.

Originally posted by: _innocent_

Raghav had no right to ditch a girl at the altar, he did a big crime right there. You claim it was done for his mother! OK! But why did he then proceed to taking his new wife to flaunt her in front of Kalpana? Why did he tell her he still loves her, as if it was her consolidation award. We all have a gala time bashing Pakhi because she is irritating but Raghav has been the real culprit throughout this love triangle. He has always given her the wrong signal, and yet he plays his victim card really well.Heck!!! He is no better than Kamla. Kamla is doing all of this for Pakhi right? Well then just like Raghav is not to blame for ruining 3 people's lives for his mother, then we can argue that Kamla is not to blame for always standing by Pakhi and ruining Kalpana's chances of happiness, after all she did raise her? I am using Pakhi here and not Kalpana because both Kamla and Raghav have left no stones unturned to ensure Kalpana is ruined beyond repair for their own selfish reasons.

If Raghav truly married Pakhi for revenge in Gauri's name, why is he overlooking Gauri's feelings and intentions and ensuring Pakhi is happy every day and is telling the world, yes am her proud husband? Surely that is not obeying his mother's feelings right? So thats where I argue his reasons of majboori are utter bullshit.

If tomorrow Gauri tells him to go and murder Kalpana, are we still going to claim he did it because he was coerced, hence he is still an innocent victim?

I blame Raghav alone for this mess, and now Kamla is playing on this to ensure her Pakhi baby gets what she wants whilst Kalpana suffer! Raghav is making sure the world refer to Kalpana as the mistress by allowing Pakhi to claim him as hers in front of the world whilst he smiles and nods like a moron in agreement.

(Didnt intend to offend, sorry if I was too blunt, although I did try to be slightly diplomatic😆)

Originally posted by: priya_remix

I beg to differ! Raghav's fault is that he chose revenge over love! His fault is to abadon Kalpi at the last moment! You think Kalpi would not have adjusted before their engagement!? His fault is he let his senses rule him!