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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: priya_remix

I agree totall! The CV's had such beautiful two characters with them Pooki and Kalpi! Both daughters of different mothers but motherly love shared by one and only Kamla!

Pooki is innocent but where is it written that innocent=dumb?

Kalpi seems to toned down or shoud I say tamed down especially after the police station incident as I have never seen her raise her voice after that! Wow talk about jet age and 21st century women!!!

Neither Pooki nor Kalpi needs to take any crap from anyone! Both are victims here and will continue to be lifelong if they do not stand up for themselves. Pooki has done it already now its Kalpi's turn!


Thanx Priya.. This is exactly what I wanted to say!! These two girls need to stand up for their rights!! Pakhi should walk out of this loveless marriage and Kalpi should start her own venture without her ayi's interference.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: veeranu

I feel sorry for Kalpi becoz she was left at the mandap by Raghav.. Its nt easy to face reality after the man u r gonna marry leaves u at the mandap and runs away and enter hours later, bringing a girl along with him saying he married her..

And coming to Pakhi, she is brainless.. She has to use sum brains.. She could have atleast informed Kamla before running away like a school girl to marry him.. Is this the respect she has for Kamla ? AM damn sure tht if Kalpi was in Pakhi's palce, she would have atleast informed Kamla before taking this drastic step...


I too felt sorry for Kalpi on wedding day.. She was ditched by someone whom she loved whole heartedly.. But what she did after it was unexpected!! I want my strong Kalpi back.. I want Raghav to feel what she is feeling.. DEJECTED and ALONE. Right now Rags have everything.. Her mother, wife, girlfriend, respect everything but what Kalpi has?? She lost her respect, her father, her confidence, her job, her love and been tagged as other woman in marriage.

Let me not start on Pakhi.. She is a stupid!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: bips

bang on post. I just don't get how kalpi can forgive the guy who essentially turned her into the other woman. she should have slapped raghav and walked off ages ago. and said tata to her mother as well. I mean common what rubbish is this - I love you, I'll secretly marry you but I won't get a divorce and I won't give you and public rights of a wife .

we might root for raghav and kalpi. but for a lot of older audience kalpi is the home wrecker. bec she is knowingly getting involved with a married man. lots of marriages are bad, doesn't mean a third person has any right to get in the middle of it. and I blame raghav for this. completely. how have they destroyed his character.

on another note , tumhari pakhi is kind of so so. don't forget pakhi there forgave her husband a lot. in fact when she found out abt his betrayal, she did this stupid challenge with Tanya. W*F. how convenient to have the evil Tanya to blame. no anger with the nonsense anshuman put her through. he got off completely Scot free in that case.


Exactly my thoughts on Kalpi's forgiveness!!

i do not know much about Tumhari Paakhi as not watching it from start.. i just watched last few episodes when Pakhi went to Delhi. I liked her with Anuja and no forgiving nonsense!! Just caught few episodes and liked it..
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I wouldn't like to talk abt poo as u already said enough abt her so i'll concentrate on imp.point Kalpana.

Whoevr said Kalpi is wrecher that person is fool.
On which basis she is home wrecher...??

If sum1 is home wrecher is that Kamala,Gauri & Raghav.

These 3 r the culprits.

Kamala : For forceing her one beti to nibhao forced relation & other beti to forget her love for his poo baby's happiness

Gauri : She just care for her revenge that's all. No care of her son's happiness & trying to bind him in unwanted relation.

Raghav : the 32 yrs old man still scared of his momma 😆 unable to stand for his love & chasing kalpi everywhr for insulting her more infront of sociaty

Kalpi have to take a stand for herself,for her rights,she can't be a puppet of sum1's hands.
Widout her fault every1 is using her for their own use.. Raghav,Pakhi,Kamala,Vittal,neetu every1 😭😭
Wake up kalpi wake up girl.. U ain't born to tolerate all this. U have ur own life,u r a girl of 21st century.. Fight hard gain wht's ur's rightfully.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: SmileySoniKudi

I wouldn't like to talk abt poo as u already said enough abt her so i'll concentrate on imp.point Kalpana.

Whoevr said Kalpi is wrecher that person is fool.
On which basis she is home wrecher...??

If sum1 is home wrecher is that Kamala,Gauri & Raghav.

These 3 r the culprits.

Kamala : For forceing her one beti to nibhao forced relation & other beti to forget her love for his poo baby's happiness

Gauri : She just care for her revenge that's all. No care of her son's happiness & trying to bind him in unwanted relation.

Raghav : the 32 yrs old man still scared of his momma 😆 unable to stand for his love & chasing kalpi everywhr for insulting her more infront of sociaty

Kalpi have to take a stand for herself,for her rights,she can't be a puppet of sum1's hands.
Widout her fault every1 is using her for their own use.. Raghav,Pakhi,Kamala,Vittal,neetu every1 😭😭
Wake up kalpi wake up girl.. U ain't born to tolerate all this. U have ur own life,u r a girl of 21st century.. Fight hard gain wht's ur's rightfully.


U r our soni.. Soni luvsRT wlai.. hai na?? U changed ur username??

Do not want to talk about EMA moms.. Thy r the most unrealistic selfish moms of the tellyworld. I have seen bad step mothers in show but moms of EMA are worse than them. From vitthal's mother to Kamla, gauri and Neetu.

And Raghav the man is lost now.. The person we are seeing now is Raghav the mamma's boy!! wish he dies after RaKhi SR or grows a spine!!
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: fairylover


@Bold : Yes and Raghav is the only one who humiliated her by leaving her alone on her wedding day.. How can she forgive him??

I agree that Kalpi has her own charm.. She was the fighter from the start.. She was never confuse... She was the one who wanted her ayi to be with her and all of a sudden she is her ayi's puppet. She agrees to everything her ayi says..

Kalpi was the one who has all the power to atop her ayi from doing wrongs... I do not care about that holi marriage but if Kalpi believes in it so can't she stop her ayi from washing it?/ The Kalpi I knew from the begining would have stopped her ayi at any cost.. Her ayi emotionally blackmailed her that if u will stop me than I will die.. Can't she say the same dialog that if u will wash it than I will die!!

Sorry but this is not the Kalpi whom i used to love.. Raghav's love made her weak so I was expecting his cheating would made her strong.. She will emerge out as a fighter but now she is becoming her ayi's shadow only. i hate this..

i agree wat u mentioned @bold ...

the kalpi we know from first is introvert..she cant express her views to any one not even to her baba

kalpi always fights for her rights with her aaii,it may be with cheating case at college,results fiasco..
in ema does it ever happens kalpi stands against her aai...i couldn't found out single episode were she stands for her rights...for kalpi it always her aai aai..always being a puppet to her aai..suppose if she stands also kamala make sure to curb it..

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Posted: 11 years ago
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Did anyone watch episode where rags asks her to meet him at park and she puts the shaft of nit meeting her for 1 year . She told him until u r completing yrbrevengevabdbu r still paks hubby we cannot meet it is not right u r hurting paks. So she basically said u r a married man don't meet me til u r single. Sony can't hate her she said the right words.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: sunyy

Did anyone watch episode where rags asks her to meet him at park and she puts the shaft of nit meeting her for 1 year . She told him until u r completing yrbrevengevabdbu r still paks hubby we cannot meet it is not right u r hurting paks. So she basically said u r a married man don't meet me til u r single. Sony can't hate her she said the right words.


Still she met him when he came to meet her at bench.. In fact hid him from her mother behind that tanker or whatever.. dnt know exactly as only read WU. If she had told that to him than she stoop stand firm on her words.. Why she always let him so the things the way he wants?? Hate is a strong word and I should not have used that.. but m really not liking this weak Kalpi.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I wont indulge on any discussion on Pakhi because she does not float my boat, nor do I intend to allow her to do that: so excuse that part!

Now let me come to Kalpana! I disliked her on two instances only: one where that constable humiliated her but she was ready to forgive on Kamla's insistence and second when that molester molested her but she readily turned a blind eye to it.


But as far as Ra..Khi's relationship is concerned, Kalpana has been more than supportive to Pakhi in the sense that she has given Ra..Khi one year to work on their relationship albeit under the pretense that I will wait for you. She is very well acquainted with what her mother is doing behind her back: ie supporting Pakhi and giving her tips on winning Raghav, and she know her mother will 99.9% succeed. So she is no fool. Her only quest in life is to satisfy her mother, she has never gone against Kamla nor intends to. This has been Kalpana from Day 1! She did not stand her ground when her gifted pen was snatched away from her; she did not stand her ground when her mother willingly gave all her love to Pakhi; she did not stand her ground when her mother opted to pick Pakhi's happiness over hers. Nope she did not, nor will ever because for her, she is willing to be used as a pawn to ensure Kamla feels great. WHY? Well, because that dus saal baad promo expressly told us, I live my life only for you aai, in the hope you become mera aur mera hi! Maybe thats selfish then?


Kalpana has told Raghav where to stick it, yes she said she will wait for him, but she has every intention of living life to the fullest in that one year with her family achieving her parents' dream, knowing deep down her and Raghav are essentially finished. She is not the one going out there finding Raghav, nah! He is the one finding her everytime, and then going home and playing happy family. He is the one in the quest of tarnishing her reputation. If Kalpana truly wanted to be a homewrecker, she would have jumped on Raghav the moment he put that sindoor on her, and say right then, lets go, am willing to sleep on your bed, you keep avenging Pakhi, I wont care, but we have to be together. She can say this dialogue anytime and Raghav will happily take her, but she didn't nor will ever because she does care for Pakhi's feelings, she knows hurting Pakhi will hurt her Aai and thats a risk she is not willing to take.


Yesterday, she had no interest in Raghav, she was cold towards him! That speaks volume. She hid him because she did not want to be subjected to more physical abuse by her parents, not because she wanted to romance him on the side, in order to affect Ra..Khi's shaadi. She has given them one year to live and fall in love, and tomoz when Rags tells her I dont want you back, she will happily obliged and move away, thats Kalpana Vithal Jhadav for you. Kill her, abuse her, insult her: but at the end her heart is bigger than the ocean: she forgives but she does not forget. She forgave Raghav simply because he helped her fill in her insecurities, he made her his world, something she had always wanted but never acquired in her life. And for someone like Kalpana who has had a battered childhood thanks to her mother, to be made to feel that special by him prior to what he did to her, is not something a girl can easily forget. Its human behaviour unfortunately.


(Oh and btw TP mein Pakhi was just as shameless, she blamed Tanya only and not Anshuman for her husband plotting against her 24/7! We shouldnt overlook all the facts just because she left her husband for calling her an adulteress. She reaped what she sow by forgiving him the first time😆😆)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I am sorry but I cannot sympathise with Poo. I simply can't. I tried but was unable to find any sympathy for her. The dialogues given to her yesterday should have come long back. When she says that if I wanted, my parents won't have been thrown out of this house. I wanted Raghav to say, "Really". Where is that Raghav who had answers to every question and a one day old wife or a month old wife does not have any such rights on her husband, if the marriage is not consummated or it is known that you have been cheated. She is never shown alone with her thoughts, trying to make sense of whta is happening around her. It looks as if they are in a hurry to finish the show.
In fact both the girls were cheated. But CVs did not focus on it and tried giving a totally different angle to the whole thing. This track is very unrealistic.
Coming to Kalpi, I simply can't hate this girl, she is madly in love and when in love all rhyme and reason flies out of the window. Anyone who has experienced the kind of love Kalpi and Raghav have will know what I am talking about. They are soulmates they understand each others pain and sorrow. I wanted her to slap Raghav and she did, I wanted her to resign and she did. I wanted her to tell him that he had hurt her the most and if you look at the sindoor incident, after their first hug when she pushes him away her eyes says it all. There is no need for words, she communicates with him in the way they are used too. These guys are so gud that even if they are not speaking there eyes convey it all.Yes she should be given more crispier dialogues and she should not follow her Aai blindly, but I have a feeling that this girl will come back and come back with a bang.

Edited by artisaggi - 11 years ago

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