Is Pakhi a victim and Kalpi a home wrecker???

Hello guys.. I know all of us support Kalpi and do not care about Pakhi.. but I have seen few aunties who feels Pakhi as victim and Kalpi as home wrecker.. So I am just sharing my views on this topic..

Is Pakhi a victim??

Yes... She was a victim... A guy trapped her in a fake love relationship.. He made her believe that he loves her and wants to marry her.. But his real motto was to avenge his father's murder. She trusted him so much that she married him just the way he wanted her.. She was stupid in doing so..But was it her fault?? NO!! It was her innocence, stupidity and a blind faith on the guy.. The guy she was infatuated with.. Yes that wasn't love for her but only infatuation.

Than why do we not feel sympathetic for her??

Coz she is at fault...Her fault is to choose to be victim for life.. she was a modern girl from high society.. used to earn a good money and was independent than why she wants to be a sati savitri woman.. who wears such bright sarrees with lots of sindoor and bangles.. What all she does is cooking and waiting for her hubby. The hubby who loves someone else and she knows it very well.. Who has made her clear that this relationship doesn't exist for her and she is only an enemy's daughter.. She tries to mend her relationship with her mil who doesn't leave an opportunity to insult her. She is an independent woman who can walk out of this relationship.. She has chose this victim card for herself and that's why m not feeling sympathetic to her.

Coming to Kalpi.. Is she a home wrecker??

Before giving my opinion on this question.. I would like to give definition of home wrecker from wiki..

"When "homewrecker" is used to describe a person, it is applied to someone who breaks up a pre-existing relationship by having an affair with one of its partners."

Pre-existing relationship : Does any relationship exists in Raghav-Pakhi's marriage?? They are legally married but are they really hubby and wife?? Does they love each other?? Is Kalpi trying to break their relationship?? Answer is no.. Kalpi loves Raghav but she is not a home wrecker.. In fct she has told Raghav to not meet for 1 year. It is Raghav who is constantly trying to meet Kalpi.. So in real sense Raghav is his own home wrecker. He is trying to break he non-existing relationship with Pakhi.

Than why I am hating Kalpi as well??

Coz she is really an other woman in marriage.. No matter whether RaKhi have relation among them but they are legally wedded partners... Kalpi has no rights on Raghav.. Sindoor holi marriage doesn't exist in this world.. She is not trying to keep relationship with Raghav but she is not vocal enough to stop Raghav. She has let Raghav fill her partition and even hugged him. She is letting her mother rule her life.. She isn't the same Kalpi who used to fight for her own rights. She is similar to Gopi vahu of Saathiya or any other dumb lead of typical serials.. Forgave the guy who humiliated her so much.. Forgave her mother who was always partial to her.. Forgave the man who molested her.. Now she is a "Mahanta ki murat"

I so wish her to be like Paakh of tumhari Paakhi.. A strong woman who walked out of her relationship when tagged as characterless.. Who is modern in every sense.. from dressing to thoughts.. who has guts to tell her husband to not follow her. I so wish Kalpi to strictly tell Raghav to not meet her as he is a married man!!

Regards

Vish

i agree with you .. u r absolutely correct she must become like paakhi from tumhari paakhi...will love to see her like that...😊

I agree with you dear and you described the situation perfectly!!! Great post I must say!

well i agree.

paaki needs to come out of this victim card mode and live her life the way she is and the way we like her to be ...nobody is liking her in bahu avatar as saree looks horrible on her and she looks like a man wearing saree around ...plus when she cries she looks like godzilla . I want to state hear that please dont consider it a name calling .i am just stating my views.

as for kalpi she needs to come out of kamla shadow the big kamla is so big that our thin kalpi looks like a little mouse in her presensec. Vithal and Kamla r brainwashing kalpi and r not letting her think her own way.

Right now kalpi is caught between her love for raghav and her love for parents. Both raghav and parents r blackmailing her and girl is stuck .

Raghav is the one i pity even more. He cannot live without kalpi but he cannot divorce paaki too. What will u expect from such a man. A man with a lunatic mother and depressive past has no choice of his own .

Only solution i see is paaki breathing fresh air and going for job and releasing raghav of everyday pain she gives him by her 32 teeth face .

Kalpi working hard and stands by her own

and one fine day gauri gets enlightenment and asks raghav to bring his real bahu kalpi home and let go of paaki free .

actually i feel sorry for kalpi

I agree totall! The CV's had such beautiful two characters with them Pooki and Kalpi! Both daughters of different mothers but motherly love shared by one and only Kamla!

I feel sorry for Kalpi becoz she was left at the mandap by Raghav.. Its nt easy to face reality after the man u r gonna marry leaves u at the mandap and runs away and enter hours later, bringing a girl along with him saying he married her..

bang on post. I just don't get how kalpi can forgive the guy who essentially turned her into the other woman. she should have slapped raghav and walked off ages ago. and said tata to her mother as well. I mean common what rubbish is this - I love you, I'll secretly marry you but I won't get a divorce and I won't give you and public rights of a wife .

we might root for raghav and kalpi. but for a lot of older audience kalpi is the home wrecker. bec she is knowingly getting involved with a married man. lots of marriages are bad, doesn't mean a third person has any right to get in the middle of it. and I blame raghav for this. completely. how have they destroyed his character.

on another note , tumhari pakhi is kind of so so. don't forget pakhi there forgave her husband a lot. in fact when she found out abt his betrayal, she did this stupid challenge with Tanya. W*F. how convenient to have the evil Tanya to blame. no anger with the nonsense anshuman put her through. he got off completely Scot free in that case.

Originally posted by: ShanUlas

well i agree.

paaki needs to come out of this victim card mode and live her life the way she is and the way we like her to be ...nobody is liking her in bahu avatar as saree looks horrible on her and she looks like a man wearing saree around ...plus when she cries she looks like godzilla . I want to state hear that please dont consider it a name calling .i am just stating my views.

as for kalpi she needs to come out of kamla shadow the big kamla is so big that our thin kalpi looks like a little mouse in her presensec. Vithal and Kamla r brainwashing kalpi and r not letting her think her own way.

Right now kalpi is caught between her love for raghav and her love for parents. Both raghav and parents r blackmailing her and girl is stuck .

Raghav is the one i pity even more. He cannot live without kalpi but he cannot divorce paaki too. What will u expect from such a man. A man with a lunatic mother and depressive past has no choice of his own .

Only solution i see is paaki breathing fresh air and going for job and releasing raghav of everyday pain she gives him by her 32 teeth face .

Kalpi working hard and stands by her own

and one fine day gauri gets enlightenment and asks raghav to bring his real bahu kalpi home and let go of paaki free .

Originally posted by: y.sravani

actually i feel sorry for kalpi

she is not a home-wrecker..the love for her aai and the love she is getting from raghav made her weak...after that one year deal,she made all attempts to forget raghav for her aai-baba dreams..

.wen ever she came across raghav also,she remained the same to him...

just wondering how this girl behaving sane afterall she is surrounded by insane people??

coming to sindoor-holi marraige ,she never expects raghav forcibely throw sindoor on her head and he claimed it as marraige in front of god, he emotionally blackmailed her...how cum she not forgive him?? he is the one she already got married in her heart...

actually kalpi has her own charm in this serial,so i dont want to compare her with any other serial actor