Do u think Vitthal is a good father

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I want to see wht u guys say. Then I will give my opinion. Do u think Vitthal is a good father?

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Posted: 11 years ago
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The fact is no one is completely good or bad in this serial everyone has a some or the other fault in this serial which is true in real life too vitthal sees and understands the pain kalpi is going through and helps her through it which a parent should do but not talking about it to kamala not making her see the pain she is giving to kalpi unintentionally makes him somewhat a bad husband n father
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yes he is...😊.Ye bhi koi puchney rki baath hey.Mein tho kahugi Vithal is the one of the best fater in the telly world.and i'm sure he loves kalpi more than Kamala.An kamala se zyda vithal Kalpi ki parwa karthi hey.Jabhi Klpi k zaroorath padi Vithal hamesha usski sath tha.And woh vithal hi hey jisne hamesha Kalpi ki pain notice kiya.Aur usse chear karthey rahtey hey.He is the best😊
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: gina24

The fact is no one is completely good or bad in this serial everyone has a some or the other fault in this serial which is true in real life too vitthal sees and understands the pain kalpi is going through and helps her through it which a parent should do but not talking about it to kamala not making her see the pain she is giving to kalpi unintentionally makes him somewhat a bad husband n father



This is quite close to my response. Some people say tht Vitthal is the best father anyone can have, so I was quite interested to see other ppls response because I didn't agree tht Vitthal is the best father ever. He is mostly good, but ofcourse he has some flaws too. He understands Kalpi and loves her a lot. He always is there for her or atleast tries his best to be there for her. Even more then Kamla. But then, he knows clearly tht Kalpu is in pain because of Kamla. He doesn't say anything to her. Not tht he has to be all angry, but atleast he should tell her nicely. He thinks whtever Kamla does is right. Thts why he never speaks up. It gets me all angry. He's a Jhoru ka gulam(henpecked husband)
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@Samarth300: i agree with you in one point that sometimesvittahl act like a jhoru ka ghulam but it doesn't means that he never takes stand against Kamala. Remember Kalpi ki birthday par jab Kamala wapas aayi tab Vithal ne usse saaf saaf kahatha ki ' aaj tu ne phir se wahi kaam kiya jo tujhe nahi karana chahiyethaL and ye bhi ki 'agar kalpi ne 12 o clock se pahele cake nahi cut kiya tho woh usse kabhi maaf nahi karengey. And in that pen wali issue i thinks its Vitthal who made realised kamal that she is doing wrong with Kalpi.So i will say ki jab jab zarrorath padi vitthal kamal ki against khada huwatha.leap ki baad ke 1 st episode mein jab kamala ne kaha ki Kalpi bahuth badal gayi hey tab Vitthal ne usse kaha tha ki its b'coz kamala kalpi aaj aisi hey.I think aur bhi bahuth saari scenes hogey jaha Vitthal ne Kamal ke against bola ho but mujhe sirf itni scenes hi patha hey kyunki i just started watching this show after 11 dec. so usske pahele kya huwa tha ye mujhe exact patha nahi hey.mujhe bas thoda thoda hi patha hey.But i'm sure ki aise scenes hogey ...i think jisne show ko pahale din se follow kiya woh mujhse zyada kah sakthey hey iss ke baaremein.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I think he is a great father. He may make mistakes, but who doesn't? Try to find a perfect parent. I know he tells Kamla how Kalpi feels, I've seen it. But He also tries to smooth out the situation, by making sure his daughter does not hate her own mother.
If Vitthal was to rag on the same thing over and over again to Kamla, all it will do will cause problems. He loves Kamla for who she is, and accepts her faults as well. That's how you make a relationship work. If I'm not mistaken, Vitthal talked to Kamla about being gone. I could be wrong on that part... but when he made the comment of "How could Kalpi eat when her mom is gone", I felt as though there was an underlying connotation to that. That's how I would discipline my spouse in front of others...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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In my opinion he is a great father
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i think he is the best father anyone can hav...he gave kalpi both mother and father's love...there was little problem tht he was jobless but he managed home without any grudges and do everything he can do for his princess...the other thing is he loves kamla too much...so if kamla or kalpi could do anything its only frm his support...he is best...
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Posted: 11 years ago
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This is actually a pretty difficult question to answer...On one side Vittal shows a great concern for his daughter, supports her and tries his level best to cheer his daughter up when he knows Kalma once again has done wrong with his princess. But with that said he never once STANDS UP for his daughter in front of his wife. When he sees and feels what Kalpi has gone through all these years due to Pakhi and Kalmas bonding he should have stood up for his daughters rights and tell Kalma what she does and has done is wrong. Someone needs to tell Kalma off and that person only should be Vittal. We have seen at times Vittal saying something to Kalma but in a very weak form. Its like he doesn't have the courage in speaking up for his daughter and when you lack courage as a father, you are ultimately a bad one at the end.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Yes, Vitthal is a good dad. In most serials, fathers are portrayed to be either too pampering or rather very strict towards their kids. here its refreshing to see a father who support his daughter, understand her pain, is like a solid support to her, pamper her too and love her unconditionally... a child who has lived in the hope her mom will give her full attention but it was Vitthal who devoted his time and attentions to her. truly when he say My princess, looks like he mean it...so, yes, he is a good father.

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