Originally posted by: ogive_nab
i know about that track but that time Manvi wanted patching up Jevika with Dr.manan as she never lost her sis..n when she understood her sis loves Viren immediately she sorted out all ..but here J didn't try to understand does her sis like Virat or not!!! She saw M said she will keep distance frm Virat but she didn't.she went to Virat giving water..feather all these why not J thinks twice about Virman's relation.??? n where is problem in Virat to make Manvi's life partner??
I am sorry to say that your reasoning is very hypocritical. Basically the argument you are using against Jeevika is the exact same argument you are using to defend Manvi. You are saying Jeevika is not understanding Manvi's feelings but at the same time you are saying what Manvi did was acceptable and she understood Jeevika's feelings. Manvi did not understand Jeevika's true feelings until much later. Manvi tried hooking up Jeevika with Manan without understanding Jeevika's feelings. Jeevika was simply infatuated by Manan she did not love him and Manvi assumed that to be love without really asking properly. During wedding preps, Jeevika had directly told Manvi to stop trying to break her marriage with Viren but Manvi still had not accepted Viren until later when she realized that Viren is indeed the right person for her sister and that Jeevika actually loves Viren not Manan. The same thing will happen with Virman and Jeevika. When Jeevika finally realizes that Virat is serious about Manvi and that Manvi loves him back then she will step back and support them. Right now Manvi does not love him, she just cares about him deeply. There are many other factors too and many people have already pointed them out.
Same goes for Jeevika but difference is she actually asked Manvi directly about her feelings and Manvi continuously denied them. Yes Jeevika went about it the wrong way. The way Jeevika broached the Virat topic and the way she jumped on Manvi was wrong she should have brought it up slowly but Swamini put a lot of pressure on Jeevika too. I would like to see all the people who are against Jeevika react in such situations in real life and see what you guys do. I can bet my life that everyone would react the way Jeevika did because this is human nature, don't believe me? Consult a textbook then.
Anyways, people always use such reasoning to defend their favourites and put down the other characters. I would really like everyone to take an unbiased look. Why point fingers at Jeevika now when you guys did not question Manvi's behaviour in the past? You guys assume Jeevika does not love Manvi as much as Manvi's loves Jeevika because Manvi has always been very openly expressive about her feelings while Jeevika is more subtle, people show love differently but that does not mean one loves less than the other. I am a Virman fan and I love Manvi over Jeevika yet I am able to see why Jeevika's is behaving the way she is. I see where everyone is coming from but please try to remember the behaviour exhibited by Manvi in the past. All characters have both negative and positive traits to their personalities, no character is perfect, no human is perfect. Jeevika is not the only one doing questionable things, Virat has been wrong in the past, Viren has been wrong, Manvi has been wrong on more than one occasion. Human nature is just flawed.
Edited by canuck-umz - 13 years ago
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