The only and biggest weakness of Durga/Nitya

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642126

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Posted: 10 years ago

Her dialogues reflect it.

"Main". "Meri ladaai". Goenkas "mujhe" dukh dene ke liye kisi bhi hadh tak jaa sakte hain.

No my dear!

They are not just targetting you or your loved ones.

They are doing it for themselves. Shaurya did everything for his pleasure, his revenge. And Sakshi and Rajnath are doing this for their defense.

Durga's taking their ways personally is preventing her from seeing larger picture and preventing her from understanding as a whole what Goenkas and their ilk are upto.

It also prevents her from taking adequate care of her close ones. Either she gets careless or unnecessarily guilty in being careful.

Look at it as their fault, their and society's fault which you have to attack. Don't look at it as personal wound or failure.

Otherwise Durga will forever be a bunch of nerves and emotional wreck.

And that emotional clouding will always affect her mission as well as self worth.

The day she starts fighting for cause than fighting over individual wounds, that is when she will win as well as find inner balance.

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natville25

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Posted: 10 years ago

Earlier it was shaurya who was the mein mein bakra and now Durga is doing it . Sure , she is taking it personally and not seeing the big picture at all . i call it her self-ego .

Self-ego is good if used in a positive way but durga's ego is not in a good way at all . It is having negative impact and that's the reason why she is not able to save her close ones . She is forever sunken in revenge and personal vendetta.

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Dolly-heart

@Dolly-heart

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Posted: 10 years ago

Durga's biggest problem has always been her over emotional reaction to her getting

what she came to do in the first place.

Durga came back to avenge her sister and the wrong done to her family.

Here is where you leave all emotions aside and have a clear and strong purpose

to do what is needed no matter what.

Her underestimating Shaurya , Rajnath and Shakshi was another big mistake.

One does not enter into such a snake pit and not have a good escape route and defence

ready to counterattack.

Durga should have the same fire in her to get Shaurya that the Goenka's had to save their rotten son Shaurya , and in that she failed miserably.

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@avyarima

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Posted: 10 years ago

you are so right
But this is only because Durga/ Nitya is a normal ...next-door type girl...not an evil creature like the Goankas. She has the thinking of a normal human being. just because she is just trying to avenge and punish these devils... doesn't make her think like them or act like them.
Normally it only takes a devil to understand the ways of another devil.

Her mistakes and stupidity only shows her as a normal heroin not a supernatural being...thats why i cant bash her

that why Durga and Akash are together...they understand each other...not evil just fighting evil.

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642126

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Posted: 10 years ago

Durga behaves as if Goenkas are specifically after her for an agenda.

That makes her more angry and also self pitying. This in turn disturbs her emotion more and takes away sense.

Battles are fuelled by anger but fought with strategy. Strategy needs tact.

Durga's anger is not channelised properly.

And I am sorry but when she says mere saath, then she puts aside others, ignores them.

In Mahabharat Lord Krishna exhorts Arjuna to think above just himself. And focus on higher cause.

Durga I guess has still not learnt that lesson.

I didn't like such dialogues. Writer is making it a personal squabble. Will Dev also later join only for personal vendetta to avenge father's death?

Writer has to uphold higher cause!

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642126

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: avyarima
you are so right
But this is only because Durga/ Nitya is a normal ...next-door type girl...not an evil creature like the Goankas. She has the thinking of a normal human being. just because she is just trying to avenge and punish these devils... doesn't make her think like them or act like them.
Normally it only takes a devil to understand the ways of another devil.

Her mistakes and stupidity only shows her as a normal heroin not a supernatural being...thats why i cant bash her

that why Durga and Akash are together...they understand each other...not evil just fighting evil.

Sorry but it is not about good or evil.

Rather she is being selfish here.

She is fighting against evil. And not just because someone hurt her.

Infact her statement of me me me is like evil ones only.

Also there is no bashing but criticism.

Durga is not normal. Normal people do not take such steps as she did.

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@Manavi_kesari

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Posted: 10 years ago

nitya is emotional type n d reason for avenging goenkas is also born out of emotions hurt tat her dearest sis payal got brutally punished n her family was destroyed with out their fault n it's emotional for a family type girl nitya. as sakshi weakness is shaurya n for nitya weakness is family. in this case it's difficult to be not emotional. it's personal for nitya urf durga only which in a way indirectly will be higher cause of destroying geonkas which is good for society.

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shruthiravi

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Posted: 10 years ago

@Anu I have been discussing about MB earlier also. To continue with that if you look at MB even after getting BG from Krishna Arjun starts fighting but still we see him not into the war completely or still not able to take the above personal.

The turning point of the whole story is 14th day of the battle where Krishna grants victory to Arjuna but before that humbles him.

On 14th day Arjuna like Durga is also on suicide mission just because Abhi died. When Arjuna takes the oath he will commit suicide he doesn't think how it will affect his near and dear ones, how it will affect the morale of the Pandava Army if he fails, how it will affect the whole process of Dharma. He doesn't understand whole Pandava army will be demoralized if he is not there.

Krishna allows Arjuna to fight, fight like anything on 14th day. Kaurava army only had one thing to do. Guard Jayadratha till sunset so that they get biggest victory as anyways Arjuna will commit suicide. So the whole army is concentrated at one point. Save Jayadrath till sunset.

Arjuna realizes his folly as the evening draws closer and he is nowhere near Jayadratha. But he has to complete his oath. It is a humbled Arjuna who walks towards the pyre to the jeering of the Kaurava army. Only at that point he realizes what big mistake he made in taking the oath. He gives up and Jayadrath walks towards him from otherside and when he is direct line of fire of Arjuna in most vulnearable form Krishna reveals the truth in front of the world. The disc goes, the sun shines and before everyone reacts Jayadratha is done and dusted with.

For me this has been the most beautiful moment of MB war. The point where God shows he is always for dharma, knows how to humble his devotee , help him/ her in such a way that he/ she is always protected. It was also the point where Arjun's blind trust on Krishna gets delivered in front of the world. Why Arjuna was right in choosing a weapon less Krishna over his army

I am damn sure such a point is going to come in EHT also when our lady dear Durga feels nothing can be done. I am sure Goddess Durga will bring her to that point and from there only she will be able to reach her final destination. Most probably that nadir would be the point she is gonna accept her true identity Nithya

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pallavi25

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Posted: 10 years ago

Durga's ladai is personal so its natural she will say Meri ladai, mujhey dukh deney ke liye.

Her revenge IS personal, shes not fighting for social justice or for a cause!

It was HER family that was destroyed, HER parents who were killed, HER sister who was raped, humiliated and institutionalized.

Shaurya raped Payal to punish Nitya...it was personal!

Sakshi and Rajnath bought out witnesses, made Bagchis vanish, caused Nitya's parents' death! It was very much personal.

Ever since Nitya returned as Durga, Sakshi has been trying to harm her or Payal. She has sent goons to torment Payal and reversed her recovery. That was very much personal.

She had sent goons to kill Akash and Durga. She tried to kill Divya and Bagchi Baba...all personal attacks on Durga or Durga's allies.

So yes, Durga isnt lying or being egoistic when shes saying My battle, It IS HER battle, all the way!

She has to vanquish the Goenkas to punish them for what they have done to her family, for what they did to Dayal.

Shes not doing it for the good of society, but for justice for her own family.

Only thing is she has to convert her words into action which shes doing again... with the return of Akash and death of Dayal, shes back in action!

In the interim period, she was badly diverted by Dev's stupidity and wasted a lot of time and energy, planning to get him out of jail.

But now shes back to her battle post.

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shruthiravi

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Posted: 10 years ago

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@Pallavi that is the problem. Once it becomes personal it is not justice , it is revenge. You did this to me so I will do this to you. And Revenge you cannot protect your near and dear ones. Because " For every action there is equal and opposite reaction" so if you put someone down there, you will lose someone here also in the same manner.

Wheels of justice may be slow, but it does deliver. The way she is fighting the battle in the first place will not give Payal's lost honour which according to me is very very important.

It is not the war of Nithya lost her parents, her baba etc etc.. the most important thing is to bring in front of the world the fact that Payal was raped.

The veil has to lift from Sunshine and she has to burn bright in front of the world. Revenge according to me cannot give that which Durga is doing at present, only keeping the larger issue , only by working for justice, only by collaborating with like minded people who has been deprived by Goenka's the justice can be delivered.

And in that aspect I completely agree to Anu that taking the battle personal is Durga's biggest problem and weakness.

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