Mera beta Vs Tera beta. - Page 2

As much as we say tera/mera beta, a grown man is responsible for his decisions and actions.

We may all have flawed human beings for parents but if a mature brain and hyped up education ( aka Oxford Law School) have not been able to make any inroads that is then the fault of the individual not his parents.

Shravan did not put his lawyer brains to any use through the whole process. Pehle he did not want to get married and then when he did Nirmala/ Ramnath's condition and finally Adi were all obstacles in his path.

Still how hard is it to have a conversation /a text message or an email? But again this is a story and I will not apply logic to it😆

chicksoup, sanfan - a very perceptive post👏 and well flushes out analysis, especially when the topics seem to always centre Shravan and Sumon

Originally posted by: edkv99

As much as we say tera/mera beta, a grown man is responsible for his decisions and actions.

We may all have flawed human beings for parents but if a mature brain and hyped up education ( aka Oxford Law School) have not been able to make any inroads that is then the fault of the individual not his parents.

Shravan did not put his lawyer brains to any use through the whole process. Pehle he did not want to get married and then when he did Nirmala/ Ramnath's condition and finally Adi were all obstacles in his path.

Still how hard is it to have a conversation /a text message or an email? But again this is a story and I will not apply logic to it😆

Broken family kids a lot of times grow up as emotionally unstable personality. When Nirmala left, ram should have kept him close not send him five thousand miles away where who knows what type of mental state he was in.

Shravan is sensible in other issues but when it comes to love and trust he falters. I can't blame this on Shravan completely.

Originally posted by: --Amulya--

The title Mera Vs Tera reminded me of a bit from a song in Mr.India...

You've played with those two words well.. Now Rammy must atleast feel that Niru is winning over him by snatcching Sumo from his son and trying to destroy his life...

Originally posted by: MrDarcyfan

Good one Chick. Yes it's a contest for Ramnath now. Nirmala knows Shravan is essentially not like Ramnath at all. He is so stupid as to think his son is like him! If he was, he would not be in the state that he is now. 99% of what is happening now is that pathetic man's doing.

If Nirmala had ANY idea of ShraMan's "other than friendship" equation, this would not be happening right now. Ramnath knows and that is exactly why this is happening!

I cant wait for Ramnath to be kicked in the gut. He deserves it for how selfish and petty he has been! Mostly towards a guy as sensitive and emotional as Shravan. He has NO idea what his son is really like. The intensity, passion and pureness of his love. He has NEVER loved anyone like that, and neither is he capable of doing so!

Chick,

Originally posted by: spshastr

but alas nirmala would not know

Aditya would screw things up and Shra will fix it and Ramu will win this round of Tera versus mera😭

Originally posted by: puba

At the end of the day...the truth is...Shravan is Nirmala's beta...and Adi is someone she took care of when his father passed away! Shravan was very close to his mother during his formative years while Adi was nowhere in the picture. By the time Nirmala left Shravan, when he was 16-17 years old, she had instilled in him the values she wanted to...and those are still intact...just been masked by Ramnath's warped mindset that cages Shravan today.

Nirmala has wronged Shravan at many levels, but cannot be compared to Ramnath! Now that I think about it, she left Shravan when he was almost 18 years old, in other words, he was almost an adult. Regardless of what his father might have showed or told him, as a son, wouldn't he want to get some answers from his mother...and tried to contact her...even if his father told him to stay away from her?? Of course the same goes with Nirmala...being a "no show" mother for 10 years...reflects horribly on her character.

So tera beta mera beta my foot! Ramnath you are doomed...please prepare to pack your bags and flee as fast as you can!

Originally posted by: orion23

Chick!

Take hugs 🤗

This was marvellous!

I loved your thought!

Come to think of it, it could come down to this eventually 😃

Originally posted by: sanfan

Yes Chick...that was indeed a very telling conversation...I loved your post..

Tera beta v/s mera beta...but essentially...The beta I hope we are talking of is Shravan...here...Not Adi so I loved your wordplay. seen from my perspective. Although I loved the reference for both reasons

There are sides to pick on this topic. Has tera beta (Shravan, the one she nurtured until 18 years) done as well as mera Beta (Shravan, the one Nir left to Ram's care 10 years ago). Frankly I will be scared to choose a side...😊

So, when Ram asks about tera beta...the real underlying reference is to the one she nurtured until 18 years. So will that surface when the moment of truth surfaces?

or Will the Mera beta, whom Nir left to Ram's care and was brought up by Ram that will come to the fore?

The Tera beta and Mera beta merge into one another at one point. The boy who was nurtured until 18 years ago by Nirmala with her values was exposed to the Ram, whose values Nirmala apparently detests. So, Nirmala took the decision to entrust" Mera" beta to Ram whose transformation we see today in all its flaming hues...

So, while we may want to pick sides, it is important to remember that as parents, these both failed their child. We can argue on the extent depending on how this narrative plays out.