Make That Daal Yours... Because You Are Special

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Hello my lovelies..

I know most of you have already gushed over yesterday's episode but I wanted to ramble again. You see, Manma Emotion Jaage Re😆

Let's begin with my ramble (btw, its really is a ramble...)

A telephonic conversation between our angry, smexy lawyer and the sweet girl next door. He wants to know the reason behind the lie and Miss Tiwari is under the impression he has come to know about his mother. ..Sonny boy, your anger makes you articulate dialogues which do not sound right. I know you want her at your beck and call but boy, you could have framed it differently.🥱

But two things... "Reason my foot" never sounded so much the better... it was hot, hot, hot (wasn't there a song on this?). Also, on second thoughts, Qutub Minar you just need to find any excuse to see her. Right na... why may I ask? Tell me, tell me... Okay, don't tell me.. we the EDKV forum members will find it out (many of us have already found the answers... you think you are the only smart guy?😉).

Sumo makes an entry.. it's a conference room. So, he is going to be all professional. Not possible, I tell you hottie. Sumo gauges the situation or rather his anger (she doesn't want to take any chances😃) and sits at the far end of the boardroom table.

I cannot discuss properly.. need fresh air. Those smouldering eyes of this man waiting for her to speak ... what was he doing here? ❤️Controlling his anger or really trying to assess how much of a madcap she is. Whatever, but I want to ask Miss Tiwari how did she manage to stay in control?😛

Sumo being Sumo rambled off thinking he has come to know about his mother. She went on and lawyer was exasperated about what the hell she was talking? He told her about the daal and dha se dhurander's greed. Sumo slightly relieved, moves forward (it seemed like she was walking on a chessboard to me) and sits beside him. Sumo tells that "his masterchef" ( I didn't coin this term, it was Shrav's himself😉) couldn't blurt out the truth because of the way he enjoyed his meal the other day with Pushkar. And that the daal had a connection with him, it was a recipe she had learnt from his mother. Flashback scenes and the hardening of emotions on our lawyer's face. He turns his chair around and Sumo still unsure of his anger and hurt tries to explain that she did it for him, for his happiness. She made a request to Shravan to do anything, say anything but don't be hurt. This line and the way Sumo was moving across the room to reach out, to let it sink all in gradually within him. . . was total love. How cute did "sorry bola na" sounded?🤗

And I also admired her for speaking out, for being that trigger to let his repressed thoughts flow again into his conscious waking moments. Also, loved it that Shravan allowed her to speak, to move and to discuss it with him. The conference room where everybody could share their thoughts, every voice could be heard. Sumo's voice and Shravan's anger/hurt brought on the same page and resolved. A dialogue between two people who were in love and yet were not bound by any known societal frameworks .

They were both making moves for each other and towards each other.❤️

He finally says he is not angry with her and he is angry with himself because he remembers the taste of the daal. He gets up (he is moving now) and says he is impressed with her maturity, her caring nature. Sumo likewise, says she is impressed as well.

Now, comes three questions and three answers. Shravan hypothetically asks her if his anger and the intensity of it keeps on increasing what would she have done? It's the last answer which said it all. She will try to find him if he is angry and if unable to she will wait . . . as she has waited for these many years. How simple and how romantic it was... Does anyone need to know why this show is titled Ek Duje Ke Vaaste? The passion and the intensity of this scene was... super. Look at both of their eyes.. and Namik Paul, your eyes speak so much (again digressing, my supervisor was so right😕). The way he allowed Sumo's words to wash over his whole being...

I was and am simply dancing right now. The simplicity of this scene simply amazes me... look how they have moved on ... from across the other side of the table to being immersed in each other's eyes or souls...From being professional to beyond intimate. Super direction👏

I am so reminded of John Donne's famous poem A Valediction : Forbidden Mourning on lovers and they being compared to ends of a compass (geometry wala)... just quoting a few lines

Our two souls therefore, which are one,

. . .

If they be two, they are two so

As stiff twin compasses are two;

Thy soul, the fixed foot, makes no show

To move, but doth, if the other do.

And though it in the center sit,

Yet when the other far doth roam,

It leans and hearkens after it,


This eyelock scene is for me is one of the beautiful moments in the show (probably after the swing scene)... there was no words required for both to feel each other. This is love.

Btw, Shravan, our angry baba do remember these answers of Sumo... we have heard her answers but, your answers are still left. Or, your answers are already known to us...Okay, it has made all of you romantic.. wait, there still more. Sumo asks whether she would continue to send the daal to him. He refuses to even see the daal (how did he know that most of the forum members likewise feel the same?😆). Sumo leaves, but is called back by Lambuji.. She who is standing under an umbrella and he outside under the sun. Shravan mouths one line here... mujhe bhi chao de do. Can anything be poetic as this line?

Provide me that shade from the excruciating rays of the sun, provide me the shade from the dryness of the winter, to finally, you are the shade that I look forward to in my life (this was unsaid.. I added it because this is what it meant😉).

Shade.. comfort, respite, love, your mere presence, a home away from the din and clamour of life (I am reminded also of that scene when Sumo hugged him when he heard about his father's plane crash).

That umbrella was a home, was a world, was a meaning which was so different from that of his parents. Did his parents ever make a move to listen to each other.. they even failed to do it for their

child. I don't want to write more on this... but, one wishes to ask his parents why were they so cruel to this child of theirs?

Shra said you are different from other women because you are special (Sumo darling.. bol dalna

chahiye tha na..that you are in love with him. On second thoughts, glad you didn't we have to see more

romance between you two. Dil Hai Ki Maanta Hi Nahin😉).

And because you are special, Shravan said make that recipe yours. Make it different. Sumo style. . .Underlined more so when he said itna caring mat hona (something to that effect. Missed out on the

dialogues often.. you see I was only watching these two)

Make that recipe yours.. this is what I wanted to hear.. the letter which was penned years ago is not

the end of their narrative and also, not the beginning... there is no end to that narrative because love

has no framework, no rules. . . there is no standard language in love, neither a dialect... you simply

create it like they did by making those moves...Daal made as their own, their own story different from

Shravan's parents.

Red mentioned it in her last post.. it takes two to tango. These two have been tangoing with each other

since these last ten years (naughty, naughty.. and they themselves haven't understood it...adorable

duffers😆). This is what a tango is.. you complement each other's moves completely. And boy did they do that yesterday. Taking the time out to see each other's viewpoints and understanding it slowly and gradually. I have no words... just want to see them together again and again. Completely in love.❤️

And did I hear Sumo say that he is not arrogant but simply a child... Sumo, he is a child with you

because you manage to bring that child which he has repressed over the years. That child who finds

happiness in her cute antics and come what may doesn't want to let go of this side of hers. The child

who was all love and sorry is in love with her. Shravan you said that she is darpok. But that she is

because, she doesnt want to annoy you or hurt you. Because you see, you are her love.

Love means providing a shade.❤️

There were two other scenes.. Pushkar and Preeti. I liked Preeti for the first time, loved her simplicity

and her honesty.

Pushku.. 60,000/- loss, not fair.😆

I wish Shravan says to Pushkar and his family that it was Sumo who had made that daal. It would be great. In turn, Pushku also wins his bet probably a la, 60 thousand loss can be compensated.😃

Nirmala I am not going to speak of... not interested

One more scene, Shravan getting to know of the truth from Dhurander also recovers his money. He is not a fool. Thank you Dhurander for the laughs but more so for being at the receiving end of Shravan's slaps. We love to see him angry.. ab gussa chaye kisi pe bhi phode. Come again Dhurandar for the slaps.

Hottie in action... fangirling on😳

Namik was superlative yesterday.. his eyes, man I was dead (no I want to be alive.. .have to see more of his speaking for and looking out for Sumo. His intense eyes). Nikita was earnest and sincere, very soft like but as Shravan put it... itna bhi caring mat ho. Sumo dear, Sumo style pe khud pado. On whom, you say? Gawd... on Qutub Minar. Really.. how much do we have to make you understand.😉


I shall stop my ramble...

Hopefully you all like it

Waiting for your responses. 😃

Sorry about the formatting.. something went off


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Posted: 9 years ago
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Excellent Indrani! 👏
I loved the symbolism in yesterday's episode. The distance between them decreasing and the proximity increasing..beautiful and I loved the setting...a conference room where everybody has to let everybody talk an voice their opinion...
Shraman are really good at letting each other talk and each of them take turns listening. I believe this is an important part of a relationship, something Nirmala and Ramnath never though about. Conversation between partners not only builds trust but also understanding.
I think Shraman's convo yesterday resonated foreshadowing, where Shravan asks what she will do if he himself disappears? and Sumo replies by saying that she will look for him...maybe this is something that might happen when the truth comes out and only Sumo can handle Shravan.

Yesterday's episode was pleasant😳
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Wine Shots - PEDESTAL ...

THANK YOU Indrani for this post ... i am gonna draw a lot from here ... as it recaps the episode ... So am gonna ask you to please let me do the wine shots here today ... Finally get u lazy ones to open the thread so am gonna take full advantage ...

Let me start this post with a humble sorry to the writer ..for calling his writing simple ... as i watched yesterdays episode .. i had a realisation ... for the first time in my indian telly viewing time .. have i watched a STORY which is layered ... not SCREENPLAY ..
The story is layered ... ( 2 layers ) ... while the screenplay is extremely simple ...


So let me start with explaining this first ... whats a layered Story ... the first layer in this story is the story of Shravan & Suman ... the obvious love story ...the next layer or the deep hidden submerged layer is the story of Ramnath & Nirmala ... ok confused .. u dint sign up for their love story right ..hence this one is the implied story here ... just pause here a bit & let the title ring in ur mind --- Mil Jaate Hai jo Bane ek duje Ke vaaste ...

Now lets go to the story ... ( don't worry this aint gonna be about Ram & Nirnala) ... 10 years back ... that day 2 couples broke apart ... both due to a simple misunderstanding ...one in a very committed relation .. while the other wanting to forge that committed relation ...

Cut to 10 years back ...

The other couple who was in a committed relation .. are still apart ... while the one who was not in a committed relation are hesitantly slowly stepping close to each other ... ever wonder why this sublime of an episode was dished to us .. right after the whole Nirmala & Ramnath story was dished out to us ... well its coz of this ... that one couple SPLIT COZ OF EGO ... & till date their EGO .. does not let them come close to each other ...y

While the other day we saw where Ramnath had erred in this relation .. last night we saw why Nirmala had erred in this relation ... hisaab barabar ...

If your still confused hold on .. lemme explain yesterdays scene for u ...

An angry out of control Shravan calls Suman ... he screams at her .. he berates her .. & he downright demands an explanation from her .. sounds similar ... Hadn't Ramnath done the exact same thing ..not on phone but directly to Nirmala ...

Here as well ... Suman did not do anything wrong she just withheld info . she was not doing any thing deliberately to undermine him or hurt him just the contrary infact .. she did not want to hurt him ...

There as welll .. Nirmala was not doing a thing wrong .. she was working hard to support her family .. she wanted a brighter future for her family .. she did not want her husband to feel let down for not being able to provide for their son & family .. hence she stepped up the plate ...

But there is one BIG DIFFERENCE ... there in the older couple .. EGO PLAYED PART she refused to explain this to her husband in a manner that he would be receptive to .. nor did she constantly struggle to bring home the point .. while Sumo did exactly that .. she made him sit & listen to her . she made him realise what she was doing she was doing for him .. she made him out to the be centre of her universe ...

So while u saw one scene .. another one played in the back drop .. what shud've happened 10 years back .. hence u have Shravan asking Suman those questions ... he was privy to the fights ... he knew the arguments .. & he knew how EGO'S could ruin a family ...

He also knew SUMO ... the girl who would never unbend enuf to do this ... he recognised Suman yesterday ... & he tried once more to ask her ...( without the letter this time) KYUN? Why would u do so much for me ...

Ugh .. tit for tat dude .. she friend zoned him right back ...


Okay enuf about the old fuddy duddies .. lets go to the couple who atleast seems to have it together ..


Now if u have been reading me regularly ...u have read my thots on this love affair very lucidly ... they r in love whether they have the GUTS TO accept that or not ...


Lets recreate the important nuances of this scene once again ...

She says . ... She says Sorry ..
Then she says ... the dal was special for u & it rekindled a memory in u ..
Then she says ... this dal recipe was given to me by ur mother ... hence i withheld info from u ...

Pause pls ... she makes him understand ... i know what has the power to hurt u ... & i am sensitive to your feelings ... she beautifully tells him ... retain the good .. forget the bad ...there were good moments ... & what he needed to focus on was the good ...

Then she tells him ... - I am really sorry .. i did not intend to hurt u ...
Then she says ... infact the one thing i can't see is you hurt ...
Then she says ... if u r hurt now ... then all this elaborate charade i undertook was all for naught .. cause i wanted to prevent u from hurt .. but ur still hurting ...

Pause pls ... she apologises she was wrong in lying ... but whats more she apologies not for the mundane lie .. she apologises for what the lie meant to him .. how the lie hurt him ...then she makes him understand that what i did i did for u ... she says .. she was brave enuf to face his wrought if she had to prevent him from getting hurt ... what she basically tells him ... she would go to any lengths .. fight with anyone to see that he Shravan did not get Hurt ...

Now just pause here for a moment ... go back to the FB when he anoints her Sumo ...she fought that lady for him ... there was no need .. but she did not want to see him embarrassed or hurt ... & he called her Sumo from then on ...

Today ... Sumo & Suman became ONE ...they actually came back to the spot they started from ...they came back to the place where this love story started from ...
Now the interesting thing is .. Shravan then to thought she did not have any love kinda feelings for him & he still thinks the same ( albeit shoved by Sumo into thinking that) & Sumo well .. Sumo loves ... & this is the way she shows her love .. SHE CARES ... SHE NURTURES ...

That day he anointed her SUMO is the day he put her on a PEDESTAL ... pedestal where no other woman even his mother could match up ... ..
Lets go back to the Urvashi saga ...
he says i want a woman who will stick wit me thru thick or thin ... for whom me & my happiness would mean everything .one who would not desert me ... ( he says all this while looking at SUMAN)

Most of us thought this was about his mother ...but today the writer confirmed it to us ... this was about Sumo ... the girl .. who would not desert him ... the girl who would put him above all else ... for whom he would mean everything ... is it any wonder this fellow has not MOVED ON ... & now u understand why the mention of moved on keeps cropping up ...

The only person who could move Sumo from the pedestal was SUMAN & she did that last night ...

But ofcourse the lawyer in him & had to be sure .. no case is won without cross examining .. so he badgers the poor victim ...

He says ... what if i was really angry with u
He says .. what if i was so angry with u that i sent u away
He says .. what if i was so angry with u that i went away ...

The answer to that was .. i would apologise & wait ... i would not give up on you .. i will stand by u ...

The pedestal had been crowned once again ...

So he comes out & tells her ... u could not be like any other woman ... you r someone i use as a measure .. ur someone right up there ... your someone who stands tall on my PEDESTAL ... Ur SPECIAL ...


welcome to the love story of Shravan & Suman .. the love story that started a few years back .. today will come closer as they unite lovers in their path way ... coz ... this was one love which stood the test of time .. they were the benchmark for lovers ...

Thats it from me .. anymore & i would give away the screen play of the next track ... THE last bit was simply sublime .. maybe will take that up in my next wine shot ..i am sure it will crop up as a reference in some other shot .. so pls bare with me .. for the moment just go with the flow .. the romance in an umbrella .. but since its our very own hatke serial .. it was no rainy stormy day .. but a hot scorching sun ... well do u think it was the maker telling .. guys this ride is gonna be 'hot" one 😳

Sorry Indrani for such a long post .. but kya karen worse case of verbal diahorrea ...
Edited by redwine1 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Indrani finally u r back...i was missing ur post. Though i read ur views in wineshots but still missed u 😊
Coming to the post
Word!!!
. Sumo leaves, but is called back by Lambuji.. She who is standing under an umbrella and he
outside under the sun. Shravan mouths one line here... mujhe bhi chao de do. Can anything be poetic
as this line? Provide me that shade from the excruciating rays of the sun, provide me the shade from
the dryness of the winter, to finally, you are the shade that I look forward to in my life (this was unsaid..
I added it because this is what it meant). Shade.. comfort, respite, love, your mere presence, a home
away from the din and clamour of life (I am reminded also of that scene when Sumo hugged him when
he heard about his father's plane crash).
That umbrella was a home, was a world, was a meaning which was so different from that of his
parents. Did his parents ever make a move to listen to each other.. they even failed to do it for their
child. I don't want to write more on this... but, one wishes to ask his parents why were they so cruel to
this child of theirs?

These lines are so beautiful...loved them ❤️
Yesterday's episode showed that both of them have now started to take small-2 steps in their journey of love. I really liked calm n composed sumo and shravan inspite of his short temper gave her time to explain herself.
Awww that umbrella scene was ...i wont say anything coz u have brilliantly described this scene.
Only few lines from a song for these lovebirds
meri duniya hai tujhme kahin, tere bin main kya kuch bhi nhi
Becoz shravan's world revolves around sumo and likewise 😊
Edited by sapphire3 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: AshaNegiFan

Excellent Indrani! 👏

I loved the symbolism in yesterday's episode. The distance between them decreasing and the proximity increasing..beautiful and I loved the setting...a conference room where everybody has to let everybody talk an voice their opinion...
Absolutely , a conference room supposed to be an arena of professionalism and here, turns out to be centre of intimate conversation. Proximity increasing, step by step.. step by step their problems being resolved... simple and so understated😛
Shraman are really good at letting each other talk and each of them take turns listening. I believe this is an important part of a relationship, something Nirmala and Ramnath never though about. Conversation between partners not only builds trust but also understanding.
His parents never knew how to talk.. they were so enmeshed in their own world. Look at these two, both of them have not had a proper family.. but look at the way these two responded. Brilliant👏
I think Shraman's convo yesterday resonated foreshadowing, where Shravan asks what she will do if he himself disappears? and Sumo replies by saying that she will look for him...maybe this is something that might happen when the truth comes out and only Sumo can handle Shravan.
Yes, it was an indication of the future track... lets see how the makers pan it out

Yesterday's episode was pleasant😳

It was very pleasant... giving us few tips on how to make any relationship work
Thank you so much for liking my ramble😳
Whats your name?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I loved the way you symbolised everything 😃
A question: Do you write poems? If not then you should start. You would excel in it.

I agree with everything you said regarding Shravan and I guess whatever I wanted to say is already written by you.

About the Preeti thing, I do not like her. She irritates me to great levels 🤢

And yess Namik eyes speaks a million emotions. His can and it does create havocs in our hearts/minds ☺️

There should be one episode/IV where we get to see Shravan/Namik talking through his eyes and Sumo/Nikita understanding him

Also love the way Nikita at times gives a simplicity to Sumo (which is definitely a rare side)

I loved your post. Way to goo❤️
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: sapphire3

Indrani finally u r back...i was missing ur post. Though i read ur views in wineshots but still missed u 😊
Coming to the post
Word!!!

Thank you Sapphire🤗.. yesterday's episode was beautiful.. no words absolutely😳
These lines are so beautiful...loved them ❤️

Thank you, thank you so much😳
Yesterday's episode showed that both of them have now started to take small-2 steps in their journey of love. I really liked calm n composed sumo and shravan inspite of his short temper gave her time to explain herself.
Yes, he is really a cool guy... give him time and he will understand. The idfference between his parents were starkly underlined
Awww that umbrella scene was ...i wont say anything coz u have brilliantly described this scene.
Only few lines from a song for these lovebirds
meri duniya hai tujhme kahin, tere bin main kya kuch bhi nhi
Becoz shravan's world revolves around sumo and likewise 😊

Exactly.. love that song...it was so mesmerizingly beautiful. How did Indian Television improve so much?😉
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: MittuArsha

I loved the way you symbolised everything 😃

A question: Do you write poems? If not then you should start. You would excel in it.
I write poetry... but they are real bad😆

I agree with everything you said regarding Shravan and I guess whatever I wanted to say is already written by you.

About the Preeti thing, I do not like her. She irritates me to great levels 🤢
She irritates me as well... but yesterday, was the only scene I liked her. Had to mention it. She was honest... I liked that.

And yess Namik eyes speaks a million emotions. His can and it does create havocs in our hearts/minds ☺️

There should be one episode/IV where we get to see Shravan/Namik talking through his eyes and Sumo/Nikita understanding him
I wish ... I am game for it.😉

Also love the way Nikita at times gives a simplicity to Sumo (which is definitely a rare side)
Yesterday, her sincerity shone in her simplicity. She knew he was angry and see the way she handled it. Way to go...And Shravan gave her that space to negotiate to articulate that dialogue. Simply outstanding

I loved your post. Way to goo❤️

Thank you so much Mittu... lovely name🤗
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: indranigupta


<font color="#3300ff">Exactly.. love that song...it was so mesmerizingly beautiful. How did Indian Television improve so much?😉</font>



Hey still in shramanland , i forgot to thank u for the pm...thanks dear ❤️
My mom has already declared me insane coz my face had lit like 200 watt bulb after watching the episode 🤣
P.s.- sapphire is my username. I am priyam btw 😊
Edited by sapphire3 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: indranigupta

Thank you so much Mittu... lovely name🤗


Thank You but my name is Mitali 😆 All my close ones call me Mittu you all can too🤗 You should show some samples to us. BTW english literature mein to full marks write?😉

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