Stop Hating on Shravan - He's JUSTIFIED.

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Posted: 9 years ago
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People hating on Shravan for humiliating Sumo, get a life man. If only you knew how it feels to be used or rejected/ heart broken and still no closure for 10 years, maybe you'd understand how Shravan is justified in his anger/ hurt. They werent little kids back then they were graduating high school, thats not "kids" thats old enough to have a brain not to treat ppl like shit. Sumo only used Shravan and cared about her reputation more than him. She took him for granted for so long. Now that he's showing her how she treated him, he's bad? Come ON. It's called treating people the way they treat you to show them your worth. He's HURT for god's sake, more than some people clearly can't see. Sumo needed this reality check. How can you blame him? She deserves to feel how he felt ALL THOSE YEARS. How much she hurt him. This is nothing compared to how much hurt he went through. Let the makers do justice to the show and think before you hate. Of course they'll make up later on, but expect some conflict in the show. Also, he doesn't hate her...he's hurt, there's a difference. He still loves her, but he doesnt know how Sumo really feels now, so he's not at fault for misunderstanding, its what he's seen all these years. He will come to know of everything eventually but till then stop hating on him and enjoy the show! Can't wait for the next episode!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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exactly my thoughts 👍🏼
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Posted: 9 years ago
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I can't hate both of them.. I think they have to understand what they did to both of them was wrong.. Soon shravan will realize how he means to his sumo.. Then it's treat to watch how they mend their relationship.. Become friends again and fall in love.. Shraman rocks!! Can't wait to watch this week' s episodes.. I hate weekends!!
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I agree with you , my heart goes out to shravan he was such a sweet boy and getting his feelings hurt by Suman is not ok . He was always like her punching bag , the way she would talk to him and be embarrassed to be his friend at school,she just thought to much of herself . I know she changed and matured but still old wounds dont heal fast and clearly shravan is really hurt .I really didn't mind seeing shravan getting even with her at the party ,it just makes the story more interesting. I was expecting something way worst but it wasnt even that bad, he was just showing her the mirror .Now i feel bad for both of them ,but just a tiny more for sharvan 😆 Im really excited to see how the story unfolds.Thanks for you post 😊
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Originally posted by: sriarshi

I can't hate both of them.. I think they have to understand what they did to both of them was wrong.. Soon shravan will realize how he means to his sumo.. Then it's treat to watch how they mend their relationship.. Become friends again and fall in love.. Shraman rocks!! Can't wait to watch this week' s episodes.. I hate weekends!!


Exactly! Its how they will mend their relationship that is interesting😳 people are jumping the gun too fast, this is a real genuine reaction from anyone who is this hurt! and yes me too!😆
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I agree with you , my heart goes out to shravan he was such a sweet boy and getting his feelings hurt by Suman is not ok . He was always like her punching bag , the way she would talk to him and be embarrassed to be his friend at school,she just thought to much of herself . I know she changed and matured but still old wounds dont heal fast and clearly shravan is really hurt .I really didn't mind seeing shravan getting even with her at the party ,it just makes the story more interesting. I was expecting something way worst but it wasnt even that bad, he was just showing her the mirror .Now i feel bad for both of them ,but just a tiny more for sharvan 😆 Im really excited to see how the story unfolds.Thanks for you post 😊


Exactlyy!! Young Shravan was soo sweet and innocent! Poor baby got hurt so much by Sumo! even though he truly loved and cared for her! and exactly, she did change now but Shravan doesnt know that! He still has the same view of her because of what he's seen for the past 10 years. Suman herself is still masking her feelings always, how's he supposed to know? He still loves her but just anger/ hurt has come in his way right now and it's justified for all he's been through. Thanks for saying it, old wounds really don't heal overnight! People are being so illogical and hating on the guy when what he did at the party wasn't even half as bad as all she put him through in the past. One sorry won't heal the relationship😆 She will need to work harder to mend it😳 and that's the interesting part! How their relationship grows from here! Ahh I can't wait! I even loved the kids Shraman😆
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Hey girl! Haha, can totally see you feel passionate about this topic! Don't worry I think most of us aren't hating on Shravan and can sort of understand where he's coming from. None of us support the way he did it, but I think most of us can see why.

I think what most people forget is what Suman had to deal with for one day, Shravan had to deal with for his entire life (that is, the entire duration of his friendship with Suman). He was always put back "in his place" as the geek who can't be seen with "the queen bee," denied the right of being a friend when they were in public, quasi-stood up at prom, and some of the bits and pieces of the flashback hint at some sort of past public humiliation for him as well.

Bachpana is not an excuse to make someone feel that horrible about themself. Unintentional the hurt may be, and even if on the surface young-Shravan acted like he was fine with the way she treated him, I don't think it takes a genius to figure out that treating someone that way probably somewhere does hurt them.

I'm saying this because I'm also in 12th grade right now, and maybe that's why I don't really seem to understand/completely see how Suman's behavior in the past is forgivable/can be written off as "bachpana." I think at this age, mujhe sahi/galat ka fark ache se nazar aata hai.

And if after all that Suman did, she was still "completely unaware" about hurting Shravan, then she was consciously being insensitive/choosing to look the other way when it comes to making that realization. And that realization was pushed off till it completely got lost in her memory, leading her to see her mistakes in the past as not a big deal ("itni bhi badi baat nahi thi"). She was fortunate enough to be able to cling onto the happy memories of their friendship, Shravan wasn't.

I don't have any ill feelings for the Suman of today because I absolutely love her, the only thing I just really want her to see is that admist being hurt about the tamaasha at the party, she takes into account how much she hurt Shravan (to the point where it caused such an extreme reaction from him) and reflects on that.


Just my two cents.

-Kriti ❤️
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Originally posted by: .SankaDevi.

Hey girl! Haha, can totally see you feel passionate about this topic! Don't worry I think most of us aren't hating on Shravan and can sort of understand where he's coming from. None of us support the way he did it, but I think most of us can see why.


I think what most people forget is what Suman had to deal with for one day, Shravan had to deal with for his entire life (that is, the entire duration of his friendship with Suman). He was always put back "in his place" as the geek who can't be seen with "the queen bee," denied the right of being a friend when they were in public, quasi-stood up at prom, and some of the bits and pieces of the flashback hint at some sort of past public humiliation for him as well.

Bachpana is not an excuse to make someone feel that horrible about themself. Unintentional the hurt may be, and even if on the surface young-Shravan acted like he was fine with the way he treated her, I don't think it takes a genius to figure out that treating someone that way probably somewhere does hurt them.

I'm saying this because I'm also in 12th grade right now, and maybe that's why I don't really seem to understand/completely see how Suman's behavior in the past is forgivable/can be written off as "bachpana." I think at this age, mujhe sahi/galat ka fark ache se nazar aata hai.

And if after all that Suman did, she was still "completely unaware" about hurting Shravan, then she was consciously being insensitive/choosing to look the other way when it comes to making that realization. And that realization was pushed off till it completely got lost in her memory, leading her the past they shared as not a big deal ("itni bhi badi baat nahi thi"). She was fortunate enough to be able to cling onto the happy memories of their friendship, Shravan wasn't.

I don't have any ill feelings for the Suman of today because I absolutely love her, the only thing I just really want her to see is that admist being hurt about the tamaasha at the party, she takes into account how much she hurt Shravan (to the point where it caused such an extreme reaction from him) and reflects on that.


Just my two cents.

-Kriti ❤️


Exactly!! You spoke my mind honestly😆😃
Suman still hasn't fully matured tbh😆 I see more maturity in Shravan right now. But that's another story. I completely agree with what you said about her realizing! She doesn't realize the DEPTH of hurt she gave Shravan, and that's what she needs to realize. I really hope that after this humiliation she doesnt act stupid and start being more angry with Shravan, this should make her see what pain she put him through EVERY DAY like you said. This is just one day for Suman and that's exactly why I can't stand when I see stupid comments like "Shravan shouldn't have been so rude" I don't think he was rude, I think he needed to stand up for himself, for his self-worth for once because he never did in the past and that's why she kept walking all over him. Right now I dont think she deserves his friendship, what she's done is not even close to being forgivable until she truly whole heartedly tries to make up for it. She hasnt even been trying. And when she said "Itni badi bhi baat nahi thi" I got soo angry lol! She is so completely unaware of the extent of pain she's given Shravan in the past. She is the one I think who needs to grow up and realize her mistakes. I really hope the makers do justice and not turn this into another typical hate love story that goes some other way. I hope they show Suman's redemption really well before their real love story starts or as it goes.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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i dont think anyone hate shravan for what he did. you can say i m angry on him. lol.
sumo needed a to realise what she did to shravan 10 years back and how deeply he is effected. how wrong she was. i think what shravan did is justified except that public confortatn part. that could be avoided.
teenage is not an excuse. but what happnd in teenage is forgotten by most of them. the fights in teenage will become a joke when we turn adults. thats what we call as maturity. but yeah shravan might be hurt to that depth that he is still in teenage. i think he was humilated publically aftr that love letter thing nd that lead to this public confortatn of sumo. but i found that wrong. he made her look like a girl who run after publicity. its different from teenage. this can effect her and her family in very wrng way. he know how much it hurts. still? they could hav that in private. or infrnot of her close frnd. not everyone. i think shravan will realise it soon.
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Originally posted by: Lyla.Khan


Exactly! Its how they will mend their relationship that is interesting😳 people are jumping the gun too fast, this is a real genuine reaction from anyone who is this hurt! and yes me too!😆



hm...once shravan knows his sumo changed ..he means lot to her..then shravan definitely feels sorry for her.. he can't forgive him self what he did for his sumo... i think it will take some time how story unfolds...so don't want to judge who is correct who is wrong...

sumo have feelings for shravan ..but she never expressed infront of him as of now..so he is thinking she is same not changed st all.. so thats why he is behaving like this... i think shravan's main moto is not insulting sumo..his main moto is to make understand sumo that he valued her so much and their friendship...

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