Originally posted by: Amy142
I am very upset that they are turning the likeable kabir into a school boy ,wrt food swap. Like you mentioned, he needs to come up with something solid. I am unable to root for either of them right now.
If Pooja can't respect the food she has been craving for as a child and had no qualms in spoiling it even if to put forward a point then I honestly don't know what to say, there are many ways to look into things it's not only black or white
It's like saying that to make someone feel my pain I have to make them feel the same, so if someone assaults me tomorrow and I want to explain how much it pained me, I should assault the person whom I try to explain my pain to just because they weren't enough empathetic to understand my pain
I'm not fond of these games from both sides, I get annoyed but he had a point, she disrespected his food, he took hers and shared it with others, to make a point as well but at least he didn't spoil it
If we look at it clearly, he hardly resorts to any petty trick unless she really provokes and humiliates him, pettiness was never his style, for now he has no assets or other means to achieve his goals apart from his patience and eventually waiting for her till she gets tired of those tricks, something like the war of attrition, but meanwhile as a human being, he can't take all the humiliations without explaining that her waars are actually her stooping low
Another thing which I found screaming double standards is how she was angry with Kabir for rejecting Pooja and bringing tears to her eyes, if we go by that logic then Kabir should be hell furious for what she has turned Dhruv into
We all understand that Pooja had a painful past, she lost her father and went into lots of hardships and trauma, no one can deny that but the fact that she experienced all this should be a reason for her to understand others as well, as they say even a dushmani should have some osools, u have all the right to hate them, no one is asking u to love them but at least don't make it like it's all justified just because of the painful past, junior Mittals are not responsible for it, they genuinely loved her, what they lived with her was true, they considered her as their own, so them being hurt for her pretense is logical because we talk about feelings even if their mind tries to understand the reasons behind what she did, they can't wipe the feeling of betrayal they had from a person they genuinely loved
Edited by Lolita30 - 6 years ago