EBSS Chat Club #2-Its Kabir's Turn - Page 40

Originally posted by: Eternized_Blues

Ananya🤗

How are you doing?

Okay may be I was not clear, I am not team Kabir or team Pooja. I am team EBSS and I felt the pace was good but the pettiness on both parties is making the show stagnant. I expect better from both of them.

Pooja does need therapy, I have always maintained that to which I mean she needs to let go of the pain and hurt now that she had achieved her revenge and not that she needs to turn into a good girl. As far as Junior Mittals are concerned Pooja is serving what was served to her. Everyone thought her father was guilty, wrongly so but they did, and they treated Pooja and Rani horribly. The girls should have been removed from that situation and they were not. So if Pooja is making Junior Mittals suffer cos society did that to them so she thinks okay.

Kabir is idealistic to a fault. His ideals mean that he will stand by his family and I think that is his right.I mean when it counted knowing full well that Pooja wanted to kill his father he saved her on that cliff. Senior Mittals on the other hand should apologize to Pooja rather than curse her. He was a special agent for crying out loud he needs to start acting like it.

Its the petty games that are getting to me. They did do Pooja some justice with the whole manipulation of workers. Lets see what next episodes have in store for us.

Hey Amnu,😀

I'm good you?

No, no my reply was in general, to all the posts, not to you.

Yeah, it is petty tussle. I'm going episode by episode now, because the show has become erratic.

I hope the writing is more consistent.

Originally posted by: Lolita30

Definitely the 20years of trauma, no one has said something else but junior Mittals are not responsible for what she lived, they are also victims of circumstances, and they were used in her quest for revenge, two wrongs don't make a right, just because others in life had more pain than us it doesn't make us forget our own feelings and pain albeit way lesser than others, otherwise we would find people forgetting their own pain and going to save others who face more pain than them

And do we expect Kabir and others to send their family to jail to give justice to Pooja, Kabir tried to be as much fair as he could and actually was ready to send PK to jail, others are guilty by omission but we can't expect him to do that given the circumstances, yaar even in common law there is what is called spousal testimonial privilege (also called spousal incompetency and spousal immunity) which protects the individual holding the privilege from being called to testify in proceedings relating to his/her spouse, and here we want the junior Mittals to send their family to jail when they knew PK was the main culprit and others were weak and selfish to stand to him

Here I'm not discussing who is right or who is wrong, who is fair and who is not (though I mentionned that bit about Kabir) but the main muda is just the way Pooja is understandable from where she stands even junior Mittals are understandable from where they stand though they didn't face the same pain as her

Anyways I rest my case here LOL, I was trying to bring a different perspective from what others brought, it is easier to speak for someone who had something obviously tragic like Pooja and understand where she comes from but way less difficult to see things from the perspective of someone who wasn't as much wronged as her but was wronged anyways

I honestly have seen this in other shows as well where when the female has a troubled past, every action of her is still not taken as harshly as the hero's one taken because she has the free pass of her painful past, her trauma, her pain, her damaged sould but does that make others feelings of less importance

No one will disagree that Pooja was wronged. But I am sure, nobody, at least anyone who loves their family will go and put them in the jail for some wrong doing that they are suddenly told about. In fact it's human to protect your family in spite of them being wrong. Even though mahan tulsi parvati didn't spare their family, the junior mittals cannot be expected to throw the seniors in jail.

Just like you mentioned in some other post, two wrongs don't make a right. That's why I wasn't expecting kabir to behave like Pooja. My gripe is that the only character who I was thinking was rationale is being portrayed as impulsive and reacting to the shit Pooja is throwing at him. She's blinded by her revenge, which will no wonder bring her down. But what was kabir's strong conviction to engage with her?

Pooja is not behaving well, but so isn't kabir.

Originally posted by: SRKisLove

Hey Amnu,😀

I'm good you?

No, no my reply was in general, to all the posts, not to you.

Yeah, it is petty tussle. I'm going episode by episode now, because the show has become erratic.

I hope the writing is more consistent.

Consistent. That is the word I swear!

Originally posted by: Lolita30

Definitely the 20years of trauma, no one has said something else but junior Mittals are not responsible for what she lived, they are also victims of circumstances, and they were used in her quest for revenge, two wrongs don't make a right, just because others in life had more pain than us it doesn't make us forget our own feelings and pain albeit way lesser than others, otherwise we would find people forgetting their own pain and going to save others who face more pain than them

And do we expect Kabir and others to send their family to jail to give justice to Pooja, Kabir tried to be as much fair as he could and actually was ready to send PK to jail, others are guilty by omission but we can't expect him to do that given the circumstances, yaar even in common law there is what is called spousal testimonial privilege (also called spousal incompetency and spousal immunity) which protects the individual holding the privilege from being called to testify in proceedings relating to his/her spouse, and here we want the junior Mittals to send their family to jail when they knew PK was the main culprit and others were weak and selfish to stand to him

Here I'm not discussing who is right or who is wrong, who is fair and who is not (though I mentionned that bit about Kabir) but the main muda is just the way Pooja is understandable from where she stands even junior Mittals are understandable from where they stand though they didn't face the same pain as her

Anyways I rest my case here LOL, I was trying to bring a different perspective from what others brought, it is easier to speak for someone who had something obviously tragic like Pooja and understand where she comes from but way more difficult to see things from the perspective of someone who wasn't as much wronged as her but was wronged anyways

I honestly have seen this in other shows as well where when the female has a troubled past, every action of her is still not taken as harshly as the hero's one taken because she has the free pass of her painful past, her trauma, her pain, her damaged sould but does that make others feelings of less importance

Who is giving Pooja a free pass? Barring 5-10 people the entire forum is anti-Pooja/Jahnnvi for 100 reasons.

Like I said, this is why l will refrain from taking about the show here. 😂

Originally posted by: SRKisLove

Who is giving Pooja a free pass? Barring 5-10 people the entire forum is anti-Pooja/Jahnnvi for 100 reasons.

Like I said, this is why l will refrain from taking about the show here. 😂

Why? U have all the right to express what u feel and think 😊

The way I felt it from tweets and even from the forum is that people understand Pooja more, given the fact that she had a tragic past, and anyone in her place would be marked for life especially as u said if they don't get therapy, but I felt since what she lived was tragic and traumatic in an obvious way people judged others feelings a bit harshly and had more expectations from them and were not as much understanding to their feelings as they were to Pooja's

Originally posted by: SRKisLove

Who is giving Pooja a free pass? Barring 5-10 people the entire forum is anti-Pooja/Jahnnvi for 100 reasons.

Like I said, this is why l will refrain from taking about the show here. 😂

Is it really true? 😲I dont visit the forum much! I mean she is normal human with some good and some bad characteristics as opposed to those self sacrificing ITV Bahus. I mean the show is called Ek Bhram Sarvagun Sampanna for a reason, the title kind of gives it away.

Its the MWM that is a SP Bahu people.

Originally posted by: Eternized_Blues

Is it really true? 😲I dont visit the forum much! I mean she is normal human with some good and some bad characteristics as opposed to those self sacrificing ITV Bahus. I mean the show is called Ek Bhram Sarvagun Sampanna for a reason, the title kind of gives it away.

Its the MWM that is a SP Bahu people.

Lol Amnu, every day there is some post bashing her.

Anyways let's not talk about it here

Originally posted by: Lolita30

Why? U have all the right to express what u feel and think 😊

The way I felt it from tweets and even from the forum is that people understand Pooja more, given the fact that she had a tragic past, and anyone in her place would be marked for life especially as u said if they don't get therapy, but I felt since what she lived was tragic and traumatic in an obvious way people judged others feelings a bit harshly and had more expectations from them and were not as much understanding to their feelings as they were to Pooja's

Some people in the forum don't watch it overall as a show , but as a personal crusade of their favourite actor. That is the reason that Pooja is the woe is me character. And everyone else is evil. That's why you feel that majority do not understand the rest of the characters.

Originally posted by: SRKisLove

Lol Amnu, every day there is some post bashing her.

Anyways let's not talk about it here

Yes lets just mutually admire MWM

https://tellywoodtrash.tumblr.com/post/186193340779/ebss-100719-lb

Just for laughs. Yesterdays blog post by Tellywoodtrash.😂