In serials, name-ji is the norm w/ most lead couples, while in some, the bahus just plainly address hubbies by name (e.g. Sandhya in RS addressed both Yuvraj, and later her 2nd husband Neeraj, by name, w/o even the -ji. In Jyoti and PKCM, the -ji was kept, as is in BBGC, while in RBO again, the -ji was dropped. The mileages vary).
In real life, wives just address hubbies by name, it's no big deal. Mine does. But I'd be surprised if any of our parents generation had that practice.
LJR
I disagree w/ something else you've written in some other threads of how this is worse than KHMK or JSK. So far, DBSK hasn't gone anywhere to the extent that KHMK has, and if you recall, ASR in the Uttarkand completely botched it when showing KL childhood - not just swarna kamal but everything b4 that. In JSK, they showed Vasudev as a part time psycho, and in KHMK, they made up whatever they felt like to show the Kauravas in a good light. The Tulabharam incident is not even well documented to complain that it's being distorted - maybe SP would have done well not to have shown it in the first place.
But I do agree that Rukmini needs to be back. If there are problems w/ Priya, get a good actress - there are plenty in MSDK who would do a good job there - and put her back in her proper role.