@TM & @likarsh -I feel like you guys mostly said what I wanted to, so I won't write too much
Just wanted to say that despite Urmi crying ALOT in the recent episode, I feel like it's totally understandable in her position. I agree that Samrat might not be a bad person per se, but he's really unyielding but more so highly out of touch with understanding other people on an emphatic and emotional level. he just doesn't have that "people" quality, and even if he "lost" his personable self somewhere - it shouldn't be out on anyone else's shoulders to bring back that character. It would be a totally different scenario if Urmi knew what Samrat was like BEFORE marriage and took the responsibility of being a life partner with the patience and determination to help change him. She is more of an unwitting member in the plot. As for her crying, I am kind of glad that she didn't have those embarrassing and ugly sobs - that would have been overdoing it. but I think all girls can agree that they've teared up when they've been given or are facing a MAJOR disappointment. At this moment in time, Urmi is realizing that Samrat will be a far more complicated person than she first thought, because all her interactions with him are not being smoothed over by other people (her family, Ishaan etc) because they can't be around SamUr 24/7 to monitor all these interactions. On top of it, I can imagine her confusion because the highly kind and loving sentiments that she was receiving from Samrat (truly, Ishaan) does not match up with his behavior that she's experienced recently. In fact, I feel like it's Ishaan's words as well as her mother's in favor of Samrat that lead her to have these thoughts on what her interactions with Samrat will be like in reality (at the Sangeet, Suhag Raat)... from what she was given, those ideal and honeymoon scenarios are true probabilities.
I think Urmi is going to have an even harder time dealing with her situation with Samrat because in that household she is given a prime example of a kind and loving couple (her bro-in-law and sister-in-law), and then every time she's down either Ishaan will try to up her mood (maybe even her father-in-law) OR her Saas would rub it in her face.