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Piu Chatterjee

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Posted: 11 years ago

#41

Ok m just copy pasting from what I wrote in another thread coz I always see people talking about hair cut and saree issue
My problem has never been with women in serials being clad in a saree..Saree is an official dress I do wear it too...to each his own ...a person is free to wear whatever he feels like but my problem is with the glorification of Saree clad women by demeaning others who do not wear it...
Every job has its own demands,its dress code and code of conduct...
lawyers wear black coat because its the decorum of their uniform..
doctors wear white coats so that protects them from soiling inner clothings also taki thoda ganda ho toh pata chal jayein and infection does not spread..They even tie their hair so that a single baal does not fall on wounds..We cut out nails with no nail polish for hygiene reasons..
Similarly with IPS comes responsibilities and demands too..
HAIR CUTTING IS REQUIRED BECAUSE WHEN A REAL LIFE FIGHT OCCURS..IT IS VERY EASY TO OVERPOWER THE ENEMY BY FORCEFULLY GRIPPING HER LONG HAIR.THE SHORTER THE HAIR LESSER ARE THE CHANCES OF BEING OVERPOWERED...Why do you think army men keep their hair trimmed so that wo kisi bhi enemy k grip mein na aye..Police is not a joke...Sirf mock race lagana hi police giri nahi hoti..
Why are they making it an issue associating it with FEMINISM...BIG DEAL...JOB MILTI HAI TOH USKA DECORUM MAINTAIN KARNA HOTA HAI ...Code of conduct and grooming follow karna padta hai...FEMINISM IS NOT ASSOCIATED WITH THE LENGTH OF YOUR HAIR...Sandy is not working for a cosmetic brand or hair salon or a saree shop ..she is an IPS Officer for which she needs to follow rules of conduct..
I hate how they are portraying it as if its a war bw ADARSH BHARATIYA NARI AND HER LONG HAIR SABHYATA and how the IPS is supposed to be twisted to suit her feminism😕

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koolsadhu1000

@koolsadhu1000

Stunner

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Posted: 11 years ago

#42

I don't think Zakir and Singh's impatience is unfounded and wrong at all . They should honestly stop the Aaa sad music in the background and showing Sandhya's sad stricken eyes when blunt truth is said .

For instance the hair thing . A big debate took place between Sandhya and Singh on how to preserve feminity and yet equate a man . Keep it aside for a moment and think practically

its n IPS training , not a debate forum , do whatever AFTER your training is done .

IPS officers r posted in places like the ravines of Chambal in UP , if long beautiful tresses come off and get stuck or entangled in thorns or bushes ur GONE . Coz the dacoits will shoot u . What will u manage , ur hair or ur gun ?

Best is to braid long hair super tightly and tie it in a bun or cut it . It should NOT be a hindrance . Singh noticed that it was an irritating hindrance , it was not even braided , What challenges r being given to seniors so soon in a training after dismal performances , any face to even speak up ? Is this believable ?

Another thing . First rule of IPS or army training is the implicit obedience of orders ...they train u to lump even orders not liked by u ...it is a mental discipline that such units follow as protocol . Why is it being shown that the only implicit obedience is to follow Bhabo's orders and its ok to argue with Singh ? Says who ? Implicit obedience has to be given to Singh , Bhabho's preferences about how a beendni should look , what she should wear etc can come later .

Uptill now what has been shown is poor performance and arguments with seniors , the latter has not gone down well with me as a viewer , i was shocked .

Then constantly remembering Bhabho's face and her lectures about winning trophy ...is this a joke ? Is winning a trophy a saas order that a bahu has to fulfil virtuously ? What incredible bull ! Telling Singh about saas , who the hell cares and on the field they r training u imagining its a ravine where u r trapped , who has time for these debates and bullpucky rubbish ?

Zakir has to ensure his squad wins ! Singh has to ensure the officers r well trained and fit for their postings when they go out ! Why will they listen to emotional drivel and debates ...do whatever u personally believe in after the training !

And why is Bhabo's face flashed even in the training with her pressurizing expectations ?

The IPS service is not for saas 's expectations but for the safety of public . If it demands short hair for a brief period , by all means do it . If it demands mental discipline of implicit obedience of senior , learn it .

Long ago there was a serial called Udaan by Kavita Choudhary on this very dream . No boastful debates were there nor fulfilling expectations of anyone , but a firm personal resolve to make it with lots of silent observations and learning from those observations .

DABH dsappoints sorely coz they r even turning the training into a saas bahu saga . Was looking forward so much to seeing it , now am merely shocked .

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Incense

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Sparkler

Posted: 11 years ago

#43

Originally posted by: nneeiill

@ blue wat are u kidding me ?😲 wats so straneous in tht task i have done some of the task infact much more difficult thn this and have broken many male candidates records and i wasnt the best the best was way ahead thn me 😳 dont we have any sportsperson in this forum 😕 y do u underestimate woman ? life of a woman is much more difficult than this havent we seen woman carrying sacks pulling the water from the rope no woman is fragile it all depends on the will power !

Edited by arti07 - 11 years ago

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EXOL

@EXOL

Trailblazer

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Posted: 11 years ago

#44

exactly arti it is so pity if DABH is giving an impression that its not fit for females...such a let down

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EXOL

@EXOL

Trailblazer

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Posted: 11 years ago

#45

forget physcial strength sandhya as of now is not even displaying mental strength..ab uske liye bhi stamina chahiye kya ???

and one day despite of all this she will miraculously get phy and mental strength and emerge as winner...and all will go gaga about it and TRP's will soar high up not coz sandhya became a best cadet but for fulfillinh her MIL's orders...

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Incense

@Incense

Sparkler

Posted: 11 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: nneeiill
exactly arti it is so pity if DABH is giving an impression that its not fit for females...such a let down

not at all infact they have set an example with women like roma and singh havent we saw roma excelling in the boxing task and she was excellent in this task singh must be great IPS naa thts y TA has hired her ...arent they woman ? 😕 or this applies to only sandy according to me its her shortcoming no excuse for tht if i dont play piano well i wont blame piano naa i should have practiced 😳

Edited by arti07 - 11 years ago

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Incense

@Incense

Sparkler

Posted: 11 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: koolsadhu1000
I don't think Zakir and Singh's impatience is unfounded and wrong at all . They should honestly stop the Aaa sad music in the background and showing Sandhya's sad stricken eyes when blunt truth is said .

For instance the hair thing . A big debate took place between Sandhya and Singh on how to preserve feminity and yet equate a man . Keep it aside for a moment and think practically

its n IPS training , not a debate forum , do whatever AFTER your training is done .

IPS officers r posted in places like the ravines of Chambal in UP , if long beautiful tresses come off and get stuck or entangled in thorns or bushes ur GONE . Coz the dacoits will shoot u . What will u manage , ur hair or ur gun ?

Best is to braid long hair super tightly and tie it in a bun or cut it . It should NOT be a hindrance . Singh noticed that it was an irritating hindrance , it was not even braided , What challenges r being given to seniors so soon in a training after dismal performances , any face to even speak up ? Is this believable ?

Another thing . First rule of IPS or army training is the implicit obedience of orders ...they train u to lump even orders not liked by u ...it is a mental discipline that such units follow as protocol . Why is it being shown that the only implicit obedience is to follow Bhabo's orders and its ok to argue with Singh ? Says who ? Implicit obedience has to be given to Singh , Bhabho's preferences about how a beendni should look , what she should wear etc can come later .

Uptill now what has been shown is poor performance and arguments with seniors , the latter has not gone down well with me as a viewer , i was shocked .

Then constantly remembering Bhabho's face and her lectures about winning trophy ...is this a joke ? Is winning a trophy a saas order that a bahu has to fulfil virtuously ? What incredible bull ! Telling Singh about saas , who the hell cares and on the field they r training u imagining its a ravine where u r trapped , who has time for these debates and bullpucky rubbish ?

Zakir has to ensure his squad wins ! Singh has to ensure the officers r well trained and fit for their postings when they go out ! Why will they listen to emotional drivel and debates ...do whatever u personally believe in after the training !

And why is Bhabo's face flashed even in the training with her pressurizing expectations ?

The IPS service is not for saas 's expectations but for the safety of public . If it demands short hair for a brief period , by all means do it . If it demands mental discipline of implicit obedience of senior , learn it .

Long ago there was a serial called Udaan by Kavita Choudhary on this very dream . No boastful debates were there nor fulfilling expectations of anyone , but a firm personal resolve to make it with lots of silent observations and learning from those observations .

DABH dsappoints sorely coz they r even turning the training into a saas bahu saga . Was looking forward so much to seeing it , now am merely shocked .

wow couldnt agree more👏 terrific post ! 👏

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divyasn

@divyasn

Dazzler

Posted: 11 years ago

#48

Sandhya lost the task because her hair got tangled rt ? she should be the first one to think of getting the hair cut , leave everything it is easier to manage. Or is her dream is less important than her hair which will anyways grow with time

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EXOL

@EXOL

Trailblazer

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Posted: 11 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: thala
now she is a complete woman roman is able to do but sandy not because roma is a spinster and sandy a married woman
it makes a lot of difference

what kind of logic n reasoning is that????...spinster..seriously ????

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minalpink100

@minalpink100

Voyager

Posted: 11 years ago

#50

Originally posted by: niruba
I agree that she should come out of her emotion but I dont quite get you...are you saying she should just concentrate on career forgetting husband and all? im not clear...

i think people are seeing sandy as a machine...when she is at training she must forget family and vice versa...that's not possible...and i think if they show sandy as IPS officer focusing on work leaving family behind as you have defined above, not many will encourage their daughters to become one or get married to them...wouldnt that be a wrong message too?

If i'm wrong then I think IPS is just not a woman's job and bhabo is right...

Here no body is telling just for IPS she should forget her husband and all but only thing is according to situation person have to act.now she is in training means for that she should prepare and what her carrier demands she has to prepare like that

here also she keep on thinking's so many things and become so much emotional means things are not going to work out.

so many Female IPS are there in india they are not like in their duty time also every time emotionally they thinks about their family only. so They are very determined and what IPS demands they became like dat .then only they got lot of success. it doesnot means they became machine and forgot their husbands family not at all. for this reason only people cant say IPS is not woman job

if you are in home u stay as usual.but in carrier matter what it demands u have to change like that.every time u cant give bakwas lectures to every body . thats not even practical.serial people are showing sandhya is lead even she great bharatiya nari .just while showing she is great bharatiya nari they are going to give wrong message to people .

Because IPS needs great determined persons not great bharatiya nari's & emotional fools.

Edited by minalpink100 - 11 years ago