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Posted: 11 years ago
#11
all I know is... I started DABH when I saw how Sandy refused to cry and had a whole lot of physical courage as well.
i didn't complain about her running fressy. 🤣
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Posted: 11 years ago
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i agree wit rama ka

u could nt agree, if sandhya win altime as a lead

she is coming frm joint family, she has to hav home sick

and weakness its happen if u r nt connect any physical activities

its bettes if they r showing the success or improvement sandhya step by step

over all i like it

sorry its my pov
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: thala

i dont think so

this is a family show and you cant expect only training and training for the whole 20 mins
trp aunties need to be saitisfied only then they can keep the show on top

these training and action stuffs are enjoyed mostly by men
so they need to include family stuff inbetween

sandy herself said in an episode that being a DIL is equally important for her
can you deny that sandy is not a wife , DIL or SIL when she is in traiining
do all the relations end if she pursue IPS

certaininly not
the show is depicting on the balance between family and IPS
the cvs are going in the right way

whats there in showing sandy emerging winner from day one
you will feel bored of it

something of this sort will make the audience sit up and watch what will happen next

sirji and zak are shown demotivating sandy only to provoke her inner strength
she herself said that hair cut wont make her a better IPS but she needs to tap the potential in her
and that is what the cvs are doing

failure is the stepping stone of success
the moment you are in TA you cant get the trophy
you need to struggle

and the trophy becomes memorable only if she strives hard for it
not by just coming and winning with ease

the show is doing good and the cvs are giving a family touch to the show even in TA

kudos cvs



nice take thala...instead of discussing the same negative thing again and again better think the other side also...

didnt we predict this earlier that it's going to be similar like WTC?...weak sandy at first then only emerge as a victor at the end...we know this would happen isnt it...

showing a strong Sandy from the beginning would be good, but the track would have ended by now coz nothing to show...

and what's wrong if sandy thinks about her hubby and keeps her hair long for him? he is the reason she is in the TA now, if a simple gesture like this make him happy, why not? he has done a bigger sacrifice for her...and being a hardcore surya fan, I want their interaction to continue via phone, skype or whatever, if not seriously it will be incomplete...

this show is about a hubby supporting a wife to fulfill her dream and how she manages both her dream and family (esp hubby & MIL) Cvs are sticking to the plot...only we are expecting too much...like always 😆

not that I'm supporting weak representation of sandy...but I know sooner or later they will show her victorious...hope that would be inspiring ⭐️




Edited by niruba - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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I never told Zak and Ms Singh are completely wrong. They are grey and as a person just like Sandhya they also have something that needs to be improved on.
Zakir has quite a few good qualities which I admire in him and I am really curous to see this character unfold as it has lot of potential. I do not want him to be made a negative chara to glorify Sandhya.
Coming to training, I am liking the competition as that is what it makes thrilling and edge of the seat thriller, but I want that thrill not RP. I dont know about other woman but given an option about saas -bahu and action, I will anyday choose action if it is done well.
My complaint of Sandhya is not her physical fitness or the fact that she didnt cut her hair, but the fact that I am missing fire in her eyes. I need to see that badly.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: niruba




nice take thala...instead of discussing the same negative thing again and again better think the other side also...

didnt we predict this earlier that it's going to be similar like WTC?...weak sandy at first then only emerge as a victor at the end...we know this would happen isnt it...

showing a strong Sandy from the beginning would be good, but the track would have ended by now coz nothing to show...

and what's wrong if sandy thinks about her hubby and keeps her hair long for him? he is the reason she is in the TA now, if a simple gesture like this make him happy, why not? he has done a bigger sacrifice for her...and being a hardcore surya fan, I want their interaction to continue via phone, skype or whatever, if not seriously it will be incomplete...

this show is about a hubby supporting a wife to fulfill her dream and how she manages both her dream and family (esp hubby & MIL) Cvs are sticking to the plot...only we are expecting too much...like always😆

not that I'm supporting weak representation of sandy...but I know sooner or later they will show her victorious...hope that would be inspiring⭐️



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Agree with u
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Agree with Thala and KD.
yeah ofcourse this is similar to WTC track and after some episodes we may get back our bold and confident Sandy
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: niruba



nice take thala...instead of discussing the same negative thing again and again better think the other side also...

didnt we predict this earlier that it's going to be similar like WTC?...weak sandy at first then only emerge as a victor at the end...we know this would happen isnt it...

showing a strong Sandy from the beginning would be good, but the track would have ended by now coz nothing to show...

and what's wrong if sandy thinks about her hubby and keeps her hair long for him? he is the reason she is in the TA now, if a simple gesture like this make him happy, why not? he has done a bigger sacrifice for her...and being a hardcore surya fan, I want their interaction to continue via phone, skype or whatever, if not seriously it will be incomplete...

this show is about a hubby supporting a wife to fulfill her dream and how she manages both her dream and family (esp hubby & MIL) Cvs are sticking to the plot...only we are expecting too much...like always 😆

not that I'm supporting weak representation of sandy...but I know sooner or later they will show her victorious...hope that would be inspiring ⭐️





Because of just talking negative OR Positive no body get any thing.my only intention is just because of TRP or just to show family drama they are not suppose to give wrong message to people & people should not get wrong message. if u r hubby sacrificed because of you,love u ,care u means u can show same kind of love care to your husband but not the cost of your Carrier.

Sandhya's husband did lot of sacrificed for her carrier means she should become like what her carrier deserves.not like their also she give simply lectures.which is not usable in practical world.if she become this much emotional means she cant get success in her carrier in future while solving important case also she thinks abt her so called family every time and end of the day her husband dream will also vanish.

just for not following rules only sandhya wont get any potential (Hair cut issue ) some times if she want to become successful means she has to come out from all her emotions.


if she wants to balance between family and IPS means thats good but even what your carrier demands u should become like that also.and your should justify IPS .

i knw after few days sandhya will win because she is lead but wrong message will definitely reach people thats for sure


Edited by minalpink100 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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dear TM

if you notice zak says he has to improve his prev record which means he has already done those tasks earlier ( i dont know how are where he did it , i find it as a blooper, he is also new to the training, and he is explaining the other 7 cadets the procedure)LOL

coming to sandy, the cvs gave the dialogue that if she would have got this offer before marriage the situation would be diff how true

now she is a complete woman roman is able to do but sandy not because roma is a spinster and sandy a married woman

it makes a lot of difference

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Posted: 11 years ago
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I agree that she should come out of her emotion but I dont quite get you...are you saying she should just concentrate on career forgetting husband and all? im not clear...

i think people are seeing sandy as a machine...when she is at training she must forget family and vice versa...that's not possible...and i think if they show sandy as IPS officer focusing on work leaving family behind as you have defined above, not many will encourage their daughters to become one or get married to them...wouldnt that be a wrong message too?

If i'm wrong then I think IPS is just not a woman's job and bhabo is right...
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Posted: 11 years ago
#20
agree with your every word kd

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