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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: fresco.



You actually did haha, on fb


oh ok that was about how she ran a 1600 m race ...


and I did post here on IF that she didn't need to run so hard in the first 100 m of a 1600 m race, and then hold her shin and collapse. She should have held her side then 😆... why does Sandy's pain holds cause me such confusion!! haaye! are her bones in different places?
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Now the point is, Sandy has decided to do this for the sake of Bhabo's trophy challenge. So once the decision is made, it should be a firm commitment. She's now battling her own feelings vs this decision to do IPS for others sake. I'm not going to question WHY she's doing it...only HOW she approaches it, which is what the TM has also tried to highlight. IPS training doesn't allow a lot of time for internal battles with the will. Have to just get on with it.
Maybe a few days in the sick bay with this mystery illness will give Sandy time to rethink and rejig her approach.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: nneeiill



ppl who aspire to be IPS they are usually NCC cadets etc during their school timing...so zak can have such background for sure...

"The National Cadet Corps (Hindi: ) is the Indian military cadet corps with its Headquarters at New Delhi. It is open to school and college students on voluntary basis. National Cadet Corps is a Tri-Services Organization, comprising the Army, Navy and Air Force, engaged in grooming the youth of the country into disciplined and patriotic citizens. The National Cadet Corps in India is a voluntary organization which recruits cadets from high schools, colleges and Universities all over India. The Cadets are given basic military training in small arms and parades. The officers and cadets have no liability for active military service once they complete their course but are given preference over normal candidates during selections based on the achievements in the corps.

So true neilu . .Not everyone goes to the academy like a blank page . . .those who are truelly aspire mostly try to go there well prepared . .whatever zak told them ws very basic informations .
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Before coming to Training Academy Sandhya shared her feelings with Suraj about how she feels its difficult for her to cope with this seperation and although becoming an IPS officer was her dream but the situation she is in now is making her confused.When she has a loving and caring husband like Suraj she is bound to feel this way.Sandhya's dream is Suraj's dream now , so obviously Suraj has to be there to support her everytime.
After seeing the strenuous sessions of training I have come to a conclusion that this is not fit for females..Males are physically stronger , their body type is different too so ofcourse its easier for them.Many guys have this habit of carrying heavy weights in the gym ..If a female wants to go for such training she will have to maintain very high stamina , some girls are into sports since childhood it can be easier for them too maybe.
For a girl like Sandhya who hasnt been physically that active being a housewife where even household work was divided among all the ladies of the house , its practically and logically very difficult for her to be so well prepared in the first place, being perfect is out of question.
The portryal of Sandhya struggling to to be able to do what other cadets are doing is very realistic.Also if shes not feeling well and might be pregnant ... If Zakir expects her to break records now then I would say its very silly of him to think so, his character is that of an extremist which im not liking at all.
The promo of training academy which was initially out hinted towards difficulties Sandhya will go through and Suraj will support her.

Regarding Sandhya's decision of wearing a saree or not getting hair cut because of Suraj , its totally her choice.Being in IPS doesnt mean you have to forget your family or change ur likes and dislikes.. Im sure audience will get bored if they see only training for 22 mins , Rathi family and most importantly Suraj too has to be in focus..CV's have kept a balance of everything that is why show is getting such high ratings, personally Im liking the realistic touch of this track and Sandhya will emerge as a winner in the end


Edited by Sonali_11 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Sandy looks like she has been forced to join IPS or it's a kind of punishment for her, not a dream that she's been living on all these years. Her identity and personality have been crushed and destroyed by Rathi parivaar and especially Bhabo. She is a broken girl now, lost and unsure of herself.
For me DABH is not an inspirational tale. This is a tragedy of a young woman whose dreams, identity and personality have been shattered by her in-laws. She is lost and broken, confused, she doesn't know who she is anymore. She OPPOSES IPS rules, so fiercely that she doesn't really want to be there anymore. In the name of what? Bhabo, her torturer, who has brainwashed her and destroyed her.
Please don't call Roma a spinster, because this is old-fashioned and somewhat offensive. Roma is a young, ordinary, confident woman. Certainly more normal than Sandy.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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sonali i applause this part
The portryal of Sandhya struggling to to be able to do what other cadets are doing is very realistic.Also if shes not feeling well and might be pregnant ... If Zakir expects her to break records now then I would say its very silly of him to think so, his character is that of an extremist which im not liking at all.
The promo of training academy which was initially out hinted towards difficulties Sandhya will go through and Suraj will support her.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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@Sonali-11...Well said👍🏼
Wearing saree and not getting hair cut is ones personal choice. Nothing wrong in that but I would love to see a much more determined/passionate sandy.
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: LoLali

So true neilu . .Not everyone goes to the academy like a blank page . . .those who are truelly aspire mostly try to go there well prepared . .whatever zak told them ws very basic informations .

exactly neilu he must be from NCC or scouts they teaches this basic skills and to be a IPS u have to be extremist becoz u are placed in extreme situation u are not asked to fry samosas u have to run behind the criminal u have to face terriorist u have to fight the evils of society u have to be extremist u cant get away with the mediocore performance it is not wat a job expect from you ! i dont understand y didnt sandhya took NCC training in her school it was her childhood dream to become an IPS so y she is not aware of all these activities 😕 forget it she cant even run properly cv wat do u want to show us !
Edited by arti07 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sonali_11

Before coming to Training Academy Sandhya shared her feelings with Suraj about how she feels its difficult for her to cope with this seperation and although becoming an IPS officer was her dream but the situation she is in now is making her confused.When she has a loving and caring husband like Suraj she is bound to feel this way.Sandhya's dream is Suraj's dream now , so obviously Suraj has to be there to support her everytime.
After seeing the strenuous sessions of training I have come to a conclusion that this is not fit for females..Males are physically stronger , their body type is different too so ofcourse its easier for them.Many guys have this habit of carrying heavy weights in the gym ..If a female wants to go for such training she will have to maintain very high stamina , some girls are into sports since childhood it can be easier for them too maybe.
For a girl like Sandhya who hasnt been physically that active being a housewife where even household work was divided among all the ladies of the house , its practically and logically very difficult for her to be so well prepared in the first place, being perfect is out of question.
The portryal of Sandhya struggling to to be able to do what other cadets are doing is very realistic.Also if shes not feeling well and might be pregnant ... If Zakir expects her to break records now then I would say its very silly of him to think so, his character is that of an extremist which im not liking at all.
The promo of training academy which was initially out hinted towards difficulties Sandhya will go through and Suraj will support her.

Regarding Sandhya's decision of wearing a saree or not getting hair cut because of Suraj , its totally her choice.Being in IPS doesnt mean you have to forget your family or change ur likes and dislikes.. Im sure audience will get bored if they see only training for 22 mins , Rathi family and most importantly Suraj too has to be in focus..CV's have kept a balance of everything that is why show is getting such high ratings, personally Im liking the realistic touch of this track and Sandhya will emerge as a winner in the end



very well said... 👏 👏
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Posted: 11 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sonali_11

Before coming to Training Academy Sandhya shared her feelings with Suraj about how she feels its difficult for her to cope with this seperation and although becoming an IPS officer was her dream but the situation she is in now is making her confused.When she has a loving and caring husband like Suraj she is bound to feel this way.Sandhya's dream is Suraj's dream now , so obviously Suraj has to be there to support her everytime.
After seeing the strenuous sessions of training I have come to a conclusion that this is not fit for females..Males are physically stronger , their body type is different too so ofcourse its easier for them.Many guys have this habit of carrying heavy weights in the gym ..If a female wants to go for such training she will have to maintain very high stamina , some girls are into sports since childhood it can be easier for them too maybe.
For a girl like Sandhya who hasnt been physically that active being a housewife where even household work was divided among all the ladies of the house , its practically and logically very difficult for her to be so well prepared in the first place, being perfect is out of question.
The portryal of Sandhya struggling to to be able to do what other cadets are doing is very realistic.Also if shes not feeling well and might be pregnant ... If Zakir expects her to break records now then I would say its very silly of him to think so, his character is that of an extremist which im not liking at all.
The promo of training academy which was initially out hinted towards difficulties Sandhya will go through and Suraj will support her.

Regarding Sandhya's decision of wearing a saree or not getting hair cut because of Suraj , its totally her choice.Being in IPS doesnt mean you have to forget your family or change ur likes and dislikes.. Im sure audience will get bored if they see only training for 22 mins , Rathi family and most importantly Suraj too has to be in focus..CV's have kept a balance of everything that is why show is getting such high ratings, personally Im liking the realistic touch of this track and Sandhya will emerge as a winner in the end




see this is what i was fearing...the way they are showing the whole training...no woman would want to become IPS officer hahahaha...so DABH has already done the damage by conveying the wrong message...what a shame on the part of CV's...🥱


and for everyone's information whatever was shown was the easiest of the tasks...and already all r thinking as if sandhya was asked to climb Mt.Everest...instead of criticizing the cv's we r saying IPS is not suitable for females...which is like exact opposite of the theme of the show...if this is what the viewers are getting from this track then i must say bigs thumbs down DABH team...👎🏼


Edited by nneeiill - 11 years ago

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