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Deebz

@Deebz

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

from this mad house and Don't look back! Suraj, please let her go, don't you go running to catch the bus this time if you really love her.

This is not my typical romantic post. I am really upset today.For once I am glad SurYa relationship did not progress. It is easier this way to make a clean break. I am not liking the direction dabh is headed in. Bhabo's ego trip maybe the trp trump card but it is raising my temperature. This woman who places herself somewhere next to God in this household is playing foul. FYI Bhabo, Sandhya did not get Emily pregnant! They were just friends. 😕 It was your no good son who would be rotting in jail had it not been for Sandhya. Oh so you are disappointed your son did not heed your wishes and bring home another marwari beendni you could rule over? Now you have to learn to taunt in English? What an inconvenience! It was not Sandhya who wanted to get them married. She was happy to believe Mohit and stay in the background when he was denying the relationship.

Since when bad behavior has become excusable, that too for an adult in her mid 40's? What about the victim? Does she deserve that treatment when she has been nothing but a golden hearted, loving person of integrity? She is all of 21 years. What has she been put thru all these months of her marriage? Is she made of plastic? Does she not get wounded? Oh sure, her husband puts some ointment on her wounds. But do the scars go away? How long can a person go on? Till there is not a single place in her heart and soul that has not been damaged?

If spoilers have to be believed, Bhabo's behavior is going to be Emily's complete downfall also. But Emily is not without spunk. I hope she packs her bags with Sandhya and they go room together. Earn a living, go to evening school and most importantly live!

I am sorry if I have hurt the sentiments of Bhabo lovers. But this is too much for me to take being a mother of a 21 year old daughter myself.

Edited by Deebz - 12 years ago

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@..Anusha..

Sparkler

Posted: 12 years ago

😲 oh dear! Okay I won't watch then. I'm in a good space at the moment and don't need this aggravation. Thanks for warning me Deebz.

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UMDU

@UMDU

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

Deebz, no matter how much you feel frustrated, angry, furious, it is Sandhya who has chosen to stay. She was thrown out 2 times during Education discovery track and SV2 track, she still chose to come back. During the Jewellery track the choice was hers, she could have walked away, she did not. She is intelligent and her brother was fully willing to take her responsibility she did not think of moving out. The CVs want to show the change from within not a rebel Sandhya who walked away. To show that, resistance to change through mental torture of Sandhya has to be shown. Sandhya I said earlier also should have kept away from this mess. Let Bhabo handle it. Talk to Emily's parents, thrash Mohit, do whatever she wants but the attitude of Sandhya should have been of keeping away. If the legal pressure from Emily's parents had worked on Bhabo she would not be so defiant. Sandhya jumped into the fray and got caught. Bhabo now had some body to make a scapegoat of and Sandhya offered herself willingly. So Sandhya ne apne hi pear main kulhadi mari. It does not pay to be golden hearted in this kalyug. Sandhya is only paying the price for that. More over unless they show all this how will they make a heroine out of Sandhya. After all all this supposed to be a part of pre IPS training. So become shant, take a deep breath, relax as this saas bahu drama is not going to get over any time soon.

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Deebz

@Deebz

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

Paddy, you won't like where this is headed. Sandhya will now be held responsible for anything that happens with Mohit and Emily. I expected this but it is too much. I am tired of Suraj's tacit support also. He is the only one who can bring about a change. He has gentle way of doing it. But he is so far keeping mum with his mum. Bhabasa tries but is brushed aside by Bhabo.

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..Anusha..

@..Anusha..

Sparkler

Posted: 12 years ago

But Uma, after all the recent happenings, shouldn't Bhabo be shown to be a bit restrained in her usual torture tactics? Not a total turn around...but some slight mellowing. Or maybe she reacts doubly menacingly after every Sandy good deed/triumph. So she basically hates Sandy. Ok. So be it.

Deebz, yes I have to agree with you. Sandy better leave, at least in our imaginations, she better leave. Suraj isn't doing enough to shield/support her. And Bhabo ... well the less said the better.

and I've been looking at the spoiler threads ... whaaat! Emily is going to be slow roasted by Mohit AND Bhabo. Well at least Sandy has a fellow victim. What a mess.

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Deebz

@Deebz

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

Uma, She was brought up with certain values. She respects tradition and elders. She was also grateful to Suraj for his support and was young and confused. She was orphaned and did not completely trust her brother.

I won't agree that she jumped in the fray. I believe she was truly trying to help the family without compromising her principles. Bhabho should be grateful to her that her son's marriage was accepted by all and he was not humiliated. Poor Emily's parents were today but not Mohit so far. It is only Bhabo who is standing in the way of everyone's happiness. What is she doing listening to all the venom that is coming out of Meena's mouth?

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.Ami.

@.Ami.

Sparkler

Posted: 12 years ago

Oh teri! My decision was so right to not watch the episode.😳.

Bechari meri chulbuli amma became a hyper.. .

Don't boil your blood too much just for the one fictional show. It's not worth it..

This is the reason why I want Sandhya to top in the class.. It'll be another slap on bhabho's face.. I used to like Bhabho's character because of the excellent acting of Neeluji.. Otherwise I never wish to have such a mother/MIL in the life. I wonder which mother on this earth can carry such a stone-hearted heart when she has such a loving son and DIL?. I started to feel annoying from Bhabho since CV's show her disrespect Emily's Parents.. I feel so irritated when anyone disrespect someone just because they're from different religions.

I agree bride side family always expected to be remain polite and good in front of groom's family but HELLO we're living in 21st century. Both ends need to be treated equally. It's so disgusting to watch all this on television in the name of so called rituals/traditions.

Aur han, for a time being I enjoyed different thread from your end. I'm with you to make my Sandy baby run out of from insane world of RM.

Sigh! Finally, I went out my frustration! 😆!

Take my sincere advise:- Stop watching DABH or watch only good episodes. SoorYa tel pine gaye! 😳

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UMDU

@UMDU

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

Anusha, Bhabo did warm up to Sandhya after WTC. Before she could do that fully, the IPS shocker was revealed to her. She again went back to the resistance mode and became insecure. Now she is facing three dilemmas

1. A Christian bahu in the household

2.Sandhya gradually moving towards her IPS goal meaning a total wash out of her son's marital life in her eyes.

3.Sandhya's continuous victory, not a single pot breaking is a clear indication of authority slipping away from Bhabo's hands. Slowly the family members and people in the neighbourhood moving to Sandhya camp. No where in the world will you see people giving up authority easily. Bhabo is no different

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UMDU

@UMDU

Dazzler

Posted: 12 years ago

Originally posted by: Deebz
Uma, She was brought up with certain values. She respects tradition and elders. She was also grateful to Suraj for his support and was young and confused. She was orphaned and did not completely trust her brother.

I won't agree that she jumped in the fray. I believe she was truly trying to help the family without compromising her principles. Bhabho should be grateful to her that her son's marriage was accepted by all and he was not humiliated. Poor Emily's parents were today but not Mohit so far. It is only Bhabo who is standing in the way of everyone's happiness. What is she doing listening to all the venom that is coming out of Meena's mouth?

That is exactly the point Deebz it does not pay to be good or help out in kalyug. Look at Meena, she gets away with murder without being punished. Bhabo does not accept a Christian Bahu...period. Whether Maasa and company accept or reject does not matter. Hearts of hearts she will take a long time to accept. She was confident Maasa would never accept. It would have been like that but for the fire accident. Sandhya made it possible. So Bhabo is hurt in two ways one the matka does not get broken and Sandhya is steadily moving towards IPS and second she could not use Maasa as an excuse to stop the marriage because of Sandhya's victory. Bhabo is already hurt and insecure, Meena adds fuel to the fire.That is why I maintain Sandhya should have kept away from all this. Let Bhabo handle it on her own.

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..Anusha..

@..Anusha..

Sparkler

Posted: 12 years ago

#10

oohohoohoho ... I sound like Superman Samah now 😕

so Deebz is about to kill off SurYa romance for good.

Uma is quietly and calmly listing the logical progression of Bhabo's thought processes.

Ami is advising everyone.

You know, I love this forum. It's far more entertaining than the show.

Can I just add, 'Christian' doesn't automatically mean, dancing a waltz at weddings and wearing short skirts ... this Christian = Western thing has to stop! And Christian also seems to mean completely devoid of brains. ... I think I'm a bit smarter than Emily yo. 😕 But I'll let you all be the judge of that. Not good to blow my own trump and all that 😳

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