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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Paddy:- What to do? Why people forget that this is just a drama and we shouldn't compared with real life.

Anyway, I better stop my advisory here. Lemme go and romance with my study.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Actually my Christian friends married in lovely white sarees. A gown was not all that common.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Uma, Bhabho had no choice but to get Emily accepted. She was pushing for it. What option did she really have? Were Emily and the baby going to go away quietly? She got Sandy to do all her work and now is making her the scape goat. That is doubly wile.

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Posted: 12 years ago
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Good post Deebz.
It's no secret that I like Bhabo...😆 But there is a limit to everything. And there is no way I will justify her wrong behavior.
I expected her to behave more wisely than she is. I mean...she agreed to have this wedding if Maasa and the clan accepted...so she should swallow her pride and accept Emily now.
Like UMDU Ji...I too felt that Sandhya shouldn't have stepped into the Momli mess...that she should have left it up to the parents to solve. I also felt that it took accountability off of Mohit's shoulders and put it ionto Sandhya's.
But here's the bottom line. This entire mess was created by Mohit and Emily...not Sandhya. And if Sandhya has accomplished the feat of convincing the Rathi clan for the marriage...then Bhabo needs to grow up a little, and appreciate Sandhya. After all she did save Mohit and the family from falling from grace. And isn't that of ultimate importance to Bhabo?
I'm also disappointed that Bhabo, a woman who has in the past seen through Meena's "oil chidakna in the fire" tactics, has now easily fallen prey to them, just because Sandhya managed to do what she had considered impossible.
It's not a matter of logic, or difference of opinions as to what is right or wrong anymore...it's a matter of an unbending ego...and that's just not justified.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: PadBear

Can I just add, 'Christian' doesn't automatically mean, dancing a waltz at weddings and wearing short skirts ... this Christian = Western thing has to stop! And Christian also seems to mean completely devoid of brains.

Excellent point Anusha. Christian doesn't automatically = western.
Watching the wedding episode today...I was like come on...I've never attended a Hindu wedding...but I've picked up quite a bit of knowledge about ceremonies and stuff from just watching Indian serials and movies 😆.
Emily's family looked so lost...heck... even I could have taught them a few things 😲
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: ummesulaiman

Excellent point Anusha. Christian doesn't automatically = western.
Watching the wedding episode today...I was like come on...I've never attended a Hindu wedding...but I've picked up quite a bit of knowledge about ceremonies and stuff from just watching Indian serials and movies 😆.
Emily's family looked so lost...heck... even I could have taught them a few things 😲


😆 really? they are clueless? haan. but judging by other posts here today...everyone is maha confused with this wedding to end all weddings.

Deebz. Yes we wear a white sari and veil. And some insist on doing ballroom dancing at the reception...when I'm a guest, I just want to dive under the table and hide. Needless to say, my own wedding had no dancing. 😳
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: Deebz

Uma, Bhabho had no choice but to get Emily accepted. She was pushing for it. What option did she really have? Were Emily and the baby going to go away quietly? She got Sandy to do all her work and now is making her the scape goat. That is doubly wile.



That is what I have written in my first comment Deebz read it, that Bhabo got a scapegoat in Sandhya and Sandhya fell into the trap. Now for every mistake that Emily makes Sandhya will be blamed. Had she kept out, Bhabo being unable to handle the legal pressure of Emily's parents would have cursed Mohit. Blamed him for all her woes. Eventually under pressure she would have accepted Emily.Instead of that what is happening is Sandhya gets all the blame without the mess being her fault as she presented herself to be sacrificed in the altar instead of Mohit. It was a tactical error from her side. I maintain goodness does not always pay. Sandhya needs some lessons in being politically shrewd. I am not supporting Bhabo, Deebz, I am only analysing the way her mind works. Suraj is unlikely to openly support her. Emily will be attacked from both sides. Sandhya will have to partly bear the brunt of those attacks.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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I agree with your reasoning Uma. Sandy has fallen into a trap. It says in our Christian scriptures - 'Be wise as serpents and as harmless as doves.' Wisdom is required when handling twisted logic and motives. Not an easy thing to do by any means.
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Posted: 12 years ago
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OMG my bhabho is criticised here🤢😆
No matter that i'm a bhabho lover read all ur comments & tried to understand ur povs.😃
I'm with Umaji's comments.
Anusha ji thanks for ur info abt christians😛. These cv's made fun of both the religions
Deebz amma (shocked to learn that u r a mom of a girl at my age😲)

I would like to add some points here other than umaji's.
I may sound weird but this is what i have feel.😉

Running away from any relationship (be it friends, hus-wife, mother-daughter, bro sis) is not a good sign. Today u may not like that person ut the same person may help u out. Hating one for the simple fact that they have different ideology is not at all good😊.

Here BhaSan have two different ideologies. If I were Sandy with such MIL & hubby i would still do what sandy does & will never blame bhabho nor suraj. 😛
About meena adding feul to the fire - Bhabho didn't reply to her. She is concerned abt SurYa 's future. JUST WAIT &WATCH. THERE WILL BE A SCENE ON THE WEDDING NIGHT WHERE BHABHO'S INSECURITIES WILL BE SHOWN.😉
About emily i have no words to describe her idiotic behaviour. She knows abt rathis dressing code. Then how can she wear such a short dress all out of a sudden (i have not seen her wearing such a short dress before)😲 She must have continued with legal proceedings why is she begging mohit always

BHABHO IS NOT THE ONLY PERSON TO BEHAVE LIKE THIS. SANDY DOES THIS B4 TO SURAJ (REMEMBER THOSE INITIAL DAYS WHERE SHE VENTED OUT ALL HER FRUSTRATIONS TO SURAJ) WHAT WAS HIS MISTAKE. IT WAS HIS BROTHER WHO MADE ALL THIS MESS. WHEN U PPL CAN ACCEPT SANDY WHY NOT BHABHO. I'M NOT ASKING U PPL TO LOVE MOHIT KINDA PERSON. BHABHO DOES NOT PLAY FOUL ANYWHERE. SHE IS GOOD HEARTED BUT THE ONLY DRAWBACK IS THAT SHE HAS A OLD IDEOLOGY & MINDSET. SHE LOVES SURYA THE MOST.😃

I CAN NEVER HATE A MOTHER LIKE BHABHO FOR THE REASON THAT SHE HAS A BACKWARD THINKING😛

I want to reiterate that if u want to change something u must face all the so called humiliations. Success will be yours.😃 SORRY FOR THIS ANNOYING POS FOR THOSE WHO DON'T LIKE BHABHO & HER LOVERS LIKE ME.😊
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Posted: 12 years ago
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@Shobhna:- It's not about love or hate Bhabho and her backward thinking.

Here we're discussing about her behavior towards emily's family which is totally inhuman. She is a mother of one daughter. Don't she has sense how to behave with bride's family although she belongs to different religion? Can't she understand or feel how emily and her parents are gonna feel by this humiliation?

She called herself 'sayaani' so where all her 'Sayaani-sam' gone? We all know she is capable enough to shut the mouth of Daisa n her toli..

Come out from illusion world. It's not easy to become a clone of Sandhya in real life.

Don't get me wrong here but sometimes by reading your comments I doubt whether you're girl or boy?😆.

Edited:- I watched the episode. I really hope dilip break up his engagement with chavi n insult Bhabho..
Edited by -Amlu- - 12 years ago

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