When will Sandhya find her Sooraj?? - Page 4

Naina what a post u truly are the eyes of this forum ...

This masterpiece thread deserved to be on the front page. I wish it will be read by as many people as posssible.

Brilliant piece of writing Naina Di, and you have summed up everything which is the current need of the hour 👏 👏

With regard to the issue that why doesn't every Sandhya find a proper Suraj, the issues are many, ranging from ego problems to perverted mind 🥱 We men never rest easy when we see a woman walking ahead of us and beating us in academics & workplace, well this is the issue with the majority of men, and regarding crimes, well it is happening irrespective of males & females, but now it is more towards women, agree with many here that respect to a woman should be taught right from childhood and there should be no discrimination/favor granted for a boy or girl child, but unfortunately discrimination is yet to go and situations aren't that rosy at the moment, hopefully it will change for the better in upcoming days.

Nice to read a thought-provoking post & awesome replies of everyone around here. ⭐️ ⭐️ 👏
Agree with Uma Ji's points 👏

@ All -- each one of you have made this post all the more meaningful by your apt comments and concerns and raising more questions. Thank you all for being so responsive to this topic.Gives a hope that all is not lost 😊

Originally posted by: -SamiR-

A very inspirational and brilliant piece of writing MissCooleyes! 👏

The one thing I would like to say is that for me, perhaps the most important point you made was when you said "But this hybridism in the society needs to vanish. Not slowly but as soon as possible." It's this sense of urgency which we must have! We simply cannot afford to wait. We waited until our capital became the city with the highest rate of rape in India, we can't afford to wait until our country becomes the place with the highest rate of violence against women in the world (apparently, we are not that far off)! I am happy to see that the sense of urgency has set in Delhi (as evident by the protests). This urgency however, should not have a linear, but rather exponential growth!

Now, you may say, chill out Samir! Change will happen when it happens. NO! Change will happen when YOU make it happen! This is simply a law of the universe! And why should we chill?! People have spilled their blood to give us freedom; the least we can do is raise our blood pressure to maintain that same freedom! And mind you, the onus is not just on women's/human rights groups! I'm talking about every man and women in our society. Yes, both sexes, even women! (MissCooleyes, you have already highlighted this point in your post, but I felt it to be important enough to be reiterated). The point being, we should all have a sense of urgency to change things! We can't wait for history to take its course; we are not going towards history ... we are going towards the future! Start at home, change things, go local, expand,... just don't wait!

Now, don't think that I can't relate to the issue, because I'm not living in India. This problem is not an Indian problem; it's a global problem. Even in our community, a vigorous 'white ribbon campaign' took place last month. (basically, wearing a white ribbon signifies your pledge to 'never commit, condone or remain silent about violence against women and girls'. And this campaign is mainly targeted toward men).

To be honest, my initial reaction to this thread was to end my post with just writing the first line. It took a lot from me to say what I have said beyond that line. Thus, I urge you to take what I've said seriously as well.

Originally posted by: ShahSantosh143

What a Brillian and Deep Thought

Originally posted by: ami_dabh

Naina bakudi..🤗.. This is the masterpiece - what a sheer brilliance of writing.(I'm sure the way you're - you really meant each word/line you've written.)👏.⭐️.👏.

Nice reply by everyone.⭐️.

@Ghajini Amma:- You've put my thoughts on CHANGE so well.👍🏼 I always believe "Be the change - if you wish to change the world." It's baseless if you demand to change the mindset of people when you're incapable to change yourself.😕.

I'd like to add one point here - As we all are aware about the fact that we're moving towards destruction so in the upcoming years things will get worsen than what we're experiencing/seeing at present. It will be better if we make ourselves mentally strong enough to face it n accept it..

It's very difficult to change mindset of every individual - it doesn't matter how people behave with us, what really counts how we respond to them.

Regarding worse situation of women - I believe somewhere we're responsible for that as well..

Thank you Ami bakudi 😊 The point is to not make peace thinking that things will only go bad.. Each one of our thoughts definitely affects the society. After all, society is what we make it.😊 It's excatly like how a the living culture of a home depends on the people living in it.

Originally posted by: sweetycutie

What an amazing piece of work Naina ji..!!!👏👏👏

I am completely amazed..!! you are excellent dear..!!!👍🏼⭐️⭐️

I completely agree with each and every word of you!!!👍🏼

Originally posted by: wish.naren

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Superb thoughts Naina Di... 😳⭐️⭐️

In fact an excellent and necessary idea to be spread among the Indian Subcontinet for which all of them follow similar customs, we have friends of neighboring country here and they do have similar situations there, Nepal ya Sri Lanka...!!😊

And as mentioned above by friends, I think we all ought to be a CHANGE else nothing will happen!!😳

And Actually I wanted to post a new year resolution post titled "be a Sandhya" but didn't get tame,🥱

So glad to have a post of similar thought, Naina Di...!!!😳😳

In fact Indians need to change their small to large habits to develop a better society! 😕

I dunno how many of you follow such things, like keeping the traffic rules, not throwing things down the train or vehicle etc... I even earn a lot of grumpy faces since I tell many not to do so, starting from family to unknown fellow travelers...!!😕

Originally posted by: neetusidhu

wow what an amazing topic and how wonderfully you have portrayed the misfortune of women and how they are treated in indian society...its sad how in our society us women are not treated as human but entities...