Originally posted by: ssnehaaa
@Dracarystrio @Ruhi86
Thanks for the story n relevant points that u both stated. I completely agree that they should have shown shorvori happy married life n should have bought a guy for Teni instead of dilchasp threesome. But i hv few doubts-
1.Shorvoristaged her death n went away for Parth Reno to marry n Parth married Teni with His consent,not forced. So y blame Teni for being the other woman? Isn't she the onlywife legally?
2. Parth after marrying Teni , sees Shorvori is alive n brings her back. Why? When Teni is his wife, y bring Shorvori back? Shorvori tried hiding her identity which means she didn't want to go back bcz unlike Party she had the brains that a man can HV only one wife. So why blame Shorvori for going back, or Teni for being the other woman .Whether a bar dancer or sweeper , every woman deserves respect and when Parth has married teni , then she is also a bhanushali member.
3. Have no idea regarding Rashmi getting less screenspace than Jasmin. If it's true, then sad
4. Regarding falling in love with a married man is unethical, I don't agree. Did Teni plan n plot to fall in love with Parth n seperate Sidmi? Love can happen with anyone. Married, unmarried Or Dark fair , same castedifferent caste .
5. I really feel sad to see They are showing Ipshita is just like her mom Reno. For God sake. She is Shorovori's n parth's baby. Ipshita is NOT teni's child. Yes she can be step mom considering she is Parth's second wife but Atleast give shorvori credit for being Ipshita '' momme
6. I would blame Parth for this threesome mess and Not Teni thoughall 3 are responsible but after getting back Shorvori he shud hv taken divorce with one and wedded other. Having two wives is no solution lAnd can't believe the Bhanushali family supported threesomel
Yes Parth is the most stupid and shameless one here. He was throughout confused (after Sid's exit) and he wanted both the women in his life. It was Teni's idea to live in a threesome and stupid Shorwari agreed, so all three are to be blamed here.
Parth emotionally blackmailed Shorwari to come back knowing he will be a confused husband all along. About Teni being a Bhanushali, that marraige was illegal and they knew it the moment they saw Shorwari, as per Hindu marraige act. But stupid makers made it seem so Pure and surreal. Also, they used God's name to justify this saying God is with them. Normal viewers like us can't digest such tracks.
Coming to Shorwari, yes she has been stupid all along. Her decisions were based on her stupid emotions which proved wrong for her. But why Teni is blamed is not for falling in love with a married man, but for wanting to be his second wife. Which is pure disgusting. I will give u an example which I have given in my previous posts, I used to watch a Turkish series and it was based on extra marital affair of a married woman. It was a great show as they portrayed her emotions, guilt, helplessness, vulnerability all so well that we audience fell in love with her and cried for her in each scene. Till end we wanted her to leave her husband (who loved her madly) and reunite with her lover. One more reason was the actress portrayed the role of a rich spoiled wife and a vulnerable lover so powerfully that her pain seemed real. We literally suffered when she suffered due to her realistic acting and amazing storyline. Just go to imdb or any YouTube video of the show Aski Memnu and see the comments in favour of the actress and her how loved her character of Bihter was. It means love after marraige isn't unacceptable if it is shown in a realistic and mature way. The show is considered the best show in Turkey and the actress have fans in many parts of the world due to this show. Even in conservative societies like Pakistan it broke all the TRP records.
The difference was, she was never seen justifying her deeds, she resisted her feelings to the point it became irresistible and tried hard to end it many times. She was shown having immense guilt and pain and unlike dsdt she never flaunted such things as something to be proud of. She never wanted to have a threesome relationship. In Dsdt, these things were shown as if they are normal. She wanted to leave her husband and tried many times but failed and this led to her emotional breakdown. In dsdt certain illogical things were considered normal and family was literally dancing with joy. When first wife is sleeping in another room, making out with second(illegal) was considered normal. Dancing in parties with both the wives was considered normal. Going out for honeymoon leaving first wife behind (who helped packing) was considered normal and no one raised concern.
Now tell me which sane loving wife will tolerate this, answer is no one. That's what make us loathe dsdt, plus given the expressions of Teni and Parth and given how much the actual Parth loved his wife this whole love story look forced, and it's hard to connect.
Edited by ruhi86 - 7 years ago
