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I don't know the extent to which you are familiar with the story, but I'll help as much as I can -
Shorvari got fake news about her brain tumor, she staged her fall out with Parth, thinking that Parth will be miserable if he comes to know about her illness, Shorvari died, Ipshita was born and Parth married Teni and Shorvari witnessed their wedding but did nothing to stop it... Parth Teni went for honeymoon and Parth saw Shorvari, knowing that she's alive Parth and Teni consummated their wedding, After it they met Shorvari in the temple, she denied that she's Shorvari, Parth blackmailed her saying he'll commit suicide if she won't go back with him, then they brought Shorvari back to create the so called "Dilchasp Rishta"... So Parth decided to stay with both of them and sleep with them in alternate months, everything blew when society got to know about it, then they decided that Shorvari will live as Parth's wife, but Parth missed Teni in his bedroom, Shorvari was hurt, she asked Parth to choose one between her and Teni, Teni heard them talking and ran out in a tussle she slipped and lost her memory, she went back to her chawl days, then she was appointed as Ipshita's nanny, she left the Bhanushali house and leap took place...


I don't hate Teni or Jasmin but I do feel that Shorvari's character was wronged to accommodate more screen space for Jasmin, Even though Shorvari is obviously more popular character than Teni, an example of which you have stated that even though Ipshita is Shorvari's daughter, makers keep showing that she is Teni's daughter... Apparently Shorvari is dead and before her death Parth almost slapped her then told her that he's in love with Teni... I can understand that people do fall out of love, nothing is permanent but why kill Shorvari? Just to show that she was never happy and only Teni can live happily or no woman can live happily if they don't have a Parth in their lives?

Makers could have easily shown Parth-Shorvari together ever grateful to Teni for giving them biggest happiness of their lives, Parth and Shorvari's characters could have ended then and there, a new journey for Teni alone (If they wanted Jasmin as a solo lead) with Iqbal or anyone else, there are thousands of possibilities, sadly for makers happy ending for Shorvari meant taking happiness away from their beloved Teni, so they ended her character.

Falling for a married man is unethical, You don't go near a married man enough to fall in love with him, it's not like you can't control it, loving a married man shows that you are envious of everything that woman has and you want it for yourself.

1. She fell in love with Parth and not only that started day dreaming about having a threesome relationship. I remember a dialogue of Teni in a clip that if Bajirav can have two wives why can't Parth. This itself is insane as its against law and human nature.

2. Shorwari was shown to suffer all while just because she was infertile as any infertile woman has no right to live happily.

3. It has shown that a woman can't live happily without a man in her life and she has no identity.

4. Makers made fun of surrogacy. They made it like a surrogate is doing ultimate sacrifice and parents need to take care of her for whole life for this ehsan. This has been repeated numerous times in the series that Teni has done so much for the family. In reality it is not like that. Karan Johar and Chritiano Ronaldo had kids from surrogacy, many couples do this too, one I know personally. No one is obliged to marry them or keep them in their house. In fact it is done in complete secrecy, and mother has no right on tee child legally. Tracks like this will make people ignorant and fearful.

5. It shows loving two women at a time and staying with both is fine and they even used God to justified that, saying that God has given them the blessing. This is not something feminist fought for.

6. Last point is, makers did gross injustice to main leads of the show, they twisted their roles badly to glorify one character and it made them leave the show. This isn't professionalism.

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Originally posted by: rajh

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Originally posted by: ssnehaaa

@Dracarystrio @Ruhi86

Thanks for the story n relevant points that u both stated. I completely agree that they should have shown shorvori happy married life n should have bought a guy for Teni instead of dilchasp threesome. But i hv few doubts-

1.Shorvoristaged her death n went away for Parth Reno to marry n Parth married Teni with His consent,not forced. So y blame Teni for being the other woman? Isn't she the onlywife legally?

2. Parth after marrying Teni , sees Shorvori is alive n brings her back. Why? When Teni is his wife, y bring Shorvori back? Shorvori tried hiding her identity which means she didn't want to go back bcz unlike Party she had the brains that a man can HV only one wife. So why blame Shorvori for going back, or Teni for being the other woman .Whether a bar dancer or sweeper , every woman deserves respect and when Parth has married teni , then she is also a bhanushali member.

3. Have no idea regarding Rashmi getting less screenspace than Jasmin. If it's true, then sad

4. Regarding falling in love with a married man is unethical, I don't agree. Did Teni plan n plot to fall in love with Parth n seperate Sidmi? Love can happen with anyone. Married, unmarried Or Dark fair , same castedifferent caste .

5. I really feel sad to see They are showing Ipshita is just like her mom Reno. For God sake. She is Shorovori's n parth's baby. Ipshita is NOT teni's child. Yes she can be step mom considering she is Parth's second wife but Atleast give shorvori credit for being Ipshita '' momme

6. I would blame Parth for this threesome mess and Not Teni thoughall 3 are responsible but after getting back Shorvori he shud hv taken divorce with one and wedded other. Having two wives is no solution lAnd can't believe the Bhanushali family supported threesomel

Yes Parth is the most stupid and shameless one here. He was throughout confused (after Sid's exit) and he wanted both the women in his life. It was Teni's idea to live in a threesome and stupid Shorwari agreed, so all three are to be blamed here.
Parth emotionally blackmailed Shorwari to come back knowing he will be a confused husband all along. About Teni being a Bhanushali, that marraige was illegal and they knew it the moment they saw Shorwari, as per Hindu marraige act. But stupid makers made it seem so Pure and surreal. Also, they used God's name to justify this saying God is with them. Normal viewers like us can't digest such tracks.

Coming to Shorwari, yes she has been stupid all along. Her decisions were based on her stupid emotions which proved wrong for her. But why Teni is blamed is not for falling in love with a married man, but for wanting to be his second wife. Which is pure disgusting. I will give u an example which I have given in my previous posts, I used to watch a Turkish series and it was based on extra marital affair of a married woman. It was a great show as they portrayed her emotions, guilt, helplessness, vulnerability all so well that we audience fell in love with her and cried for her in each scene. Till end we wanted her to leave her husband (who loved her madly) and reunite with her lover. One more reason was the actress portrayed the role of a rich spoiled wife and a vulnerable lover so powerfully that her pain seemed real. We literally suffered when she suffered due to her realistic acting and amazing storyline. Just go to imdb or any YouTube video of the show Aski Memnu and see the comments in favour of the actress and her how loved her character of Bihter was. It means love after marraige isn't unacceptable if it is shown in a realistic and mature way. The show is considered the best show in Turkey and the actress have fans in many parts of the world due to this show. Even in conservative societies like Pakistan it broke all the TRP records.

The difference was, she was never seen justifying her deeds, she resisted her feelings to the point it became irresistible and tried hard to end it many times. She was shown having immense guilt and pain and unlike dsdt she never flaunted such things as something to be proud of. She never wanted to have a threesome relationship. In Dsdt, these things were shown as if they are normal. She wanted to leave her husband and tried many times but failed and this led to her emotional breakdown. In dsdt certain illogical things were considered normal and family was literally dancing with joy. When first wife is sleeping in another room, making out with second(illegal) was considered normal. Dancing in parties with both the wives was considered normal. Going out for honeymoon leaving first wife behind (who helped packing) was considered normal and no one raised concern.

Now tell me which sane loving wife will tolerate this, answer is no one. That's what make us loathe dsdt, plus given the expressions of Teni and Parth and given how much the actual Parth loved his wife this whole love story look forced, and it's hard to connect.

A woman lusting after a married man was live!? Cool! If someone tries to snatch your husband you should be all cool ! Great! If something like this happened with you then you would not have said so.

Originally posted by: xxxlgirl2001

A woman lusting after a married man was live!? Cool! If someone tries to snatch your husband you should be all cool ! Great! If something like this happened with you then you would not have said so.

Grow up kiddo ! Couples are not made via looks! There should be depth, understanding and love which Parth and Teni lack.

You better see the whole serial to know why we hate Teni.

I never watched this show 😉 just small glimpses n promos n updates 😲 which made hate to this dilchasp concept 😡 how a surrogate break the couple n fall for the man Top on that whole family support this Relation 😲 🤪 makes even more nonsense that too a time Slot 10 pm which have viewrship more 😲 Conveying this unethical Threesome .n glorifying that one annoying character beyond limits . N Jasmin acting never made it pleasing to Watch for sake of Acting too 😆 . 😉 she may better in any other Role or Different show 😛 don't know 😉 here her acting n expressions n language makes 👎🏼 very Lowww 😵 n New Parth Actor Suit to Her in terms of Acting 😆 n his character too Dropped to Teni level 🤪 ...How people Accept this Worst Relation Status just by Promoting so Much in Show 😲 Glad to see This Forum 👍🏼 Most of People Voicing it Wrong In Many Levels n Terms 👏 . ⭐️ ...

They can Show Dilchasp Ristha by Showing ParthShorovari n Teni with any New partner in her life 😉 two couples 😉 n Their Friendship 😳 Wat problems they face n how they over come in matured way 😛 not this having two wives promotion n now Two men for Teni 😆 🤣 ..
even Heart Have Four Chambers 😉 to Beat but always End up 3 here 🤣 ... 🤣 ..

Originally posted by: rajh

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