Why such hatred for Teni? - Page 2

Originally posted by: _goofyCat_

Insecure of whom, Teni? You gotta be kidding me 😆

And if it was always indicated that Parth and Teni were the end game, why were you so desperate to see Teni's love story with Aman and hated the prospect of Teni falling for Parth back then? 😕

Originally posted by: rajh

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you are kidding yaar...😆

pari fans insecurity showing everywhere in this forum..

people are not blind...😉

Originally posted by: Shambavishivam

People who like and support moral stuff and support right things dont get insecure over jerks and filth...
U shud maybe learn the difference between hating something and feeling insecure over something..first learn that and then come and give ur wise judgements here

Originally posted by: rajh

your rudeness showing your frustration and insecurity only...nothing else...

you people are in denial mode..😉

Originally posted by: rajh

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you are kidding yaar...😆

pari fans insecurity showing everywhere in this forum..

people are not blind...😉

Originally posted by: g.sreedurga

Hi,

I am just a reader in this forum. I have never posted anything. Today, I just strongly felt like sharing my thoughts.

You are right in few points. I respect your perspective. But I do have some points to put forward.

Regarding Bhanushali family:

Fine. The explanation you gave is understandable. But still I feel they are being very very unfair to Parth. It has been just 2 months he lost his wife whom he loves dearly. Wouldn't he need at least few more months and years to get over it? How are they imposing marriage decision on him? Shouldn't he be emotionally ready for that? Doesn't he have right on his own life decisions? It takes lot of time to heal. I have never seen any widow/widower marrying within 2-3 months to another person. And to take care of tunnu is not a valid reason. Tunnu is not going to remember anything till he turns 2-3 years. Teni or family can take care of him. They can at least give time to Parth and then talk about his re-marriage just when Tunnu is about to get to school going age. Moreover there are hundreds of widowers who take care of children all alone. This big family with dada, dadi, pardada, pardadi and many more can't take care for 1-2 years? He is not even born and Parth is being harassed for that. They need to understand and empathize with Parth.

Regarding Parth:

I agree. He did few stupid steps out of negligence but ultimately he was always clear about Shorvori's importance in his life.

Regarding Shorvori:

Yes, she is selfless. I agree. But, she too can't impose her decisions on him without knowing what he actually wants. She is always way too over confident about her plans. But, did she think of something? The day Teni will show that video to Parth, how exactly would he feel? How would he hate himself, how would he hate Teni? How can she think he will forgive Teni? She is just complicating their relationship. Instead it would have been nice if she simply tells Teni to be nice to him after she leaves the world without doing all this drama. That would not give Parth a reason to repel from Teni even after knowing truth.

Regarding Teni:

This girl confuses me. Sometimes I feel she is good. But the next day she does something or the other that irks me or confuses me. She keeps on telling Shorvori 'Let's say to Parth'. She knows Shorvori would deny. But if Parth is himself on the way to find out, she stops him from knowing it. I don't understand if she really wishes Parth should know the truth or not. If she wished he should know the truth and is not saying just because she promised Shor, she need not switch off the lights when he dashed Shorvori or she need not warn Shorvori that Parth is coming to her hotel room. If she wished he shouldn't know because just like Shorv she can't see him broken, she shouldn't have told Shorvori 'Main ab bhi bolti hu Parth ko bata dete hain'. It just appears as if she is wanting to be good both before Shorvori and parivaar. Even after Aman's fiasco(many things irritated me about her back then), there are many incidents where this girl's behavior confuse me or irritate me. For instance, yesterday tying blouse knots. She had so many ladies in the house but she wanted Parth to tie them saying Shorv used to do it when she is there. Come on, Shorvori is a woman. Parth isn't. And after Indu and baa came there, this ladki didn't ask them to help her in getting ready or tie knots. If it was so unreachable, why couldn't she ask Indu? All this 'make me ready' things come with Parth. I hate this behaviour of hers. On one end, she blackmails Parth to marry her on saying of Shorv. On this end, she says Indu not to blackmail him. She projects herself as too sweet in front of Indu and everyone.

Originally posted by: snowflakes2119

Thanks @Tm for indicating the positive points of the leads in the show. Admiring PaRi doesn't imply that I should dislike Teni. People have solid reasons to hate her but I have my own good reasons to like her. Even in the degradation of her profession she was able to maintain her chastity. This shows her in a very good light. However my liking for this character doesn't absolve her from the mistakes she has done. I believe in giving benefit of doubt before forming a conclusive opinion. Also in the absence of any direct evidence to prove that Teni made a deliberate attempt not to disclose Shourvari's truth to Parth, I would like to believe that she was not entirely at fault. For her uncertainty, she can't be termed as guilty. Not a single scene in the show has projected her as manipulative in her approach to avail Parth. She has been foolish but certainly not wicked.

There has been a considerable growth in Teni's character. Her maturity is in the making. In her imperfection lies her truthfulness. The moment she understood PaRi's unwavering love for each other, Teni tried her best to keep her feelings for Parth in check. However she looked unconvincing in her attitude. Perhaps Friendship has nothing to do with caste colour or gender, therefore Parth and Teni has been comfortable with each other. Parth was very clear about his relationship with Teni. Therefore he didn't hesitate to hug her as a friend. Teni has to upkeep the promise made to Shourvari. This may be the reason supposedly, she is making efforts to bridge the distance formed between herself and Parth post Shourvari's sickness. Some of the scenes may give rise to suspicions. We have to understand Teni's situation. Shourvari's promise keeps her haunting. She is under duress as she has got to talk to Parth about their marriage. Probably this is the reason she is drawing herself closer to him.

It is Teni's uncanny attitude that prevents her from getting type cast in a conventional role.