Why such hatred for Teni?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I'm trying to understand this sudden and immense hatred for Teni on the forum. Sure she is not the usual cry and sacrificial lamb tagged as bahu of Indian television but she has done nothing to deserve this kind of hatred.
Personally I think the drama and emotional aspect of this show is quiet good and in flow with the story. People think that there is butchering of character but I believe otherwise.

Let take a look at each part of this show:

Bhanushalis:-
The only thing more precious than social respect for this family is the child of Parth. They never truly accepted Shorvori for her own good qualities. They only realised her goodness when they gave her chance to socialize with other memebers of family. It's the same with Teni except that Teni was able to earn extra brownie points due to some of her twisted but noble actions. The few things that make Teni more acceptable than Shorvori for Bhanushalis family are:-
1) Her ability to give birth to Parth's child.
2) The bitterness attached to her entrance in the family is nowhere as strong as the bitterness attached to Shorvori's entrance in the family.
3) Guess the fact that Teni is gujju but Shorvori is bengali makes things more better.

At this point Bhanushalis are not wrong to shower such love and praise to Teni. To them Shorvori is ditcher whereas Teni is supporter of Parth. Shorvori separated Parth from his family then ditched him but Teni is pregnant with Parth's child and is the closest person in his life. Personally if I was a Bhanushali (with no knowledge about Shorvori's real intentions) then even I would have liked Teni and hated Shorvori.Teni is doing her best to bring Parth out of his misery and is the only person capable of talking to him. They do share a bond beyond that of the child. Despite all the Bajirao-Mastani fiasco their friendship stood strong. Parth and Teni does wish well for each other from bottom of their heart.

Parth:-
Parth stood for what he felt right. He has never let down a person that has put all of his/her faith in him. He did not leave Shorvori because he was the one to promise him a happy married life with him and he did not leave Teni because he was the one to promise a strong friendship and unbreakable bond to her. I do believe, he, at times, got too physically close to Teni but never with wrong intentions. His attention towards Teni never compromised his love for Shorvori. He never took Shorvori's devotion for his family for granted. He knew that he had to overlook few incidents to get the bigger picture. His attachment for Teni goes beyond the child. His care for her is his idea of friendship. Only he truly knows about the struggles that Teni faced in her life so its understandable to see him give all happiness of life to someone who is giving him biggest happiness of his life.

Shorvori:-
Shorvori is the most selfless and lovable person of this show. Except for small jealousies and insecurities (which makes her more human and relatable) she is the most sweet person. Everything she has ever done in this show is for good reasons. It's sad that no one could see her selfless acts because there was too much bitterness attached between her and their relationship. She was a good person but with all the wrong tags. I don't see how her character was butchered when she tried to match-fix Parth and Teni? She has seen Parth and Teni's bond and knows that Teni is the only person besides her to understand and care for Parth. She saw Teni develop a bond with whole Bhanushali family. She isn't bothered about source of this bond because she herself has been through the same situation and knows that something is better than nothing at all. Is she wrong to chose Teni as Parth's next wife after knowing Parth-Teni's bond, Teni's position in Bhanushali family and witnessing Teni's care for the child?

Teni:-
Teni has wrongly become the victim of everyone's hatred in the forum. It's like a necessity to hate the character that is liked by everyone in the show. Teni has twisted morals because she has seen more thorns in her life than anyone else in this show. She is a person with twisted mind but noble heart. After the Bajirao-Mastani fiasco i never saw her try to separate Parth and Shorvori or wish to have Parth all to herself. I do not understand this immense hatred for her. Is she wrong to show concern towards Parth or wrong to try fulfill a dying friend's last wish? Is it her fault if she fell for the first person that showered her with love and care? To be so attached to the only person that loved (if even just as a friend) her for her own self rather than some hidden agenda. Initially Parth's care towards Teni was only because of the child but it did went beyond the child. The girl who never witness love from anyone finally had a person that stood on his promises despite them having their consequences.


The show is absolute failure when it comes to presentation of sensitive concept of surrogacy or logic but quiet good when it comes to presenting relationships between the characters and all the drama in between. It would have been a hit if Parth-Shorvori would have been the selfish rich couple that took advantage of Teni and Teni's growth from a helpless poor bar dancer to a strong single mother would have been the main focus of the show but that can never happen.
Edited by libsrocks - 7 years ago

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I agree with you dear. I like what you told and I always loved the bond the three of them shared. They always stood by each other. I still love the show and I love how it progress. Like you said no one is wrong from their own points of view. It's the situations that made them do like that. I like all the characters in the show and I don't like when someone point a finger at anyone. So I rather stalk the thread than commenting. I cannot blame anyone as they have right to share their point of view. So it's better to keep quiet and enjoy the show the way it's going.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Love this post. I Agree, the bond the three hAve is unbreakable. It's extremely Beautiful. I also love the fact that you mention the family treatment towards the two girls. It showed how the family were still having problems before teni arrived, and remove the idea of her being a homeracker. The writers gave us a beautiful example of three strangers bonding and learning to trust one another, but poor example of surrogacy. If they were going to take it this far, they should have change the time to late night. Like color did to the show about an old man marrying a young Woman.
Anyway. I assume, she's being hated because she has feeling for a married man and the way she handles it. So because of that anything she does will be judged as a negative hidden agenda. If the writers erased the whole falling in love equation and just leave it as just friendship, the hate would be less I presume.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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There is so much truth , is this message .
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Posted: 7 years ago
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its because insecurity of of pari fans -nothing else--cvs from day one symbolically showing teni going take shorwari place in this serial and parth and teni is end game -which making pari fans insecure and they think this might happen sooner or later..which making them hate teni...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: rajh

its because insecurity of of pari fans -nothing else--cvs from day one symbolically showing teni going take shorwari place in this serial and parth and teni is end game -which making pari fans insecure and they think this might happen sooner or later..which making them hate teni...


Insecure of whom, Teni? You gotta be kidding me 😆
And if it was always indicated that Parth and Teni were the end game, why were you so desperate to see Teni's love story with Aman and hated the prospect of Teni falling for Parth back then? 😕
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Posted: 7 years ago
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The insecurity of the Pari fans? No! We love alot Pari is his fans never sleep insecure. And then Parth and Shorvori have been so brutally separated. ..The fans are waiting for Shorvori 's return to Parth 's life as before. . Because, they are done together until the end ❤️
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Posted: 7 years ago
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@Libs: great post... 👏 finally someone dared to get it to the point... 👍🏼
Edited by NatalyMusketeer - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: NatalyMusketeer

@Libs: great post... 👏 finally someone dared to get it to the point... 👍🏼

Hi @Nataly...missed over debates in other forum! The good old days...good to see we are back on track! ⭐️
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