Why such hatred for Teni? - Page 3

Originally posted by: libsrocks

Hi @Nataly...missed over debates in other forum! The good old days...good to see we are back on track! ⭐️

Originally posted by: g.sreedurga

Hi,

I am just a reader in this forum. I have never posted anything. Today, I just strongly felt like sharing my thoughts.

You are right in few points. I respect your perspective. But I do have some points to put forward.

Regarding Bhanushali family:

Fine. The explanation you gave is understandable. But still I feel they are being very very unfair to Parth. It has been just 2 months he lost his wife whom he loves dearly. Wouldn't he need at least few more months and years to get over it? How are they imposing marriage decision on him? Shouldn't he be emotionally ready for that? Doesn't he have right on his own life decisions? It takes lot of time to heal. I have never seen any widow/widower marrying within 2-3 months to another person. And to take care of tunnu is not a valid reason. Tunnu is not going to remember anything till he turns 2-3 years. Teni or family can take care of him. They can at least give time to Parth and then talk about his re-marriage just when Tunnu is about to get to school going age. Moreover there are hundreds of widowers who take care of children all alone. This big family with dada, dadi, pardada, pardadi and many more can't take care for 1-2 years? He is not even born and Parth is being harassed for that. They need to understand and empathize with Parth.

Regarding Parth:

I agree. He did few stupid steps out of negligence but ultimately he was always clear about Shorvori's importance in his life.

Regarding Shorvori:

Yes, she is selfless. I agree. But, she too can't impose her decisions on him without knowing what he actually wants. She is always way too over confident about her plans. But, did she think of something? The day Teni will show that video to Parth, how exactly would he feel? How would he hate himself, how would he hate Teni? How can she think he will forgive Teni? She is just complicating their relationship. Instead it would have been nice if she simply tells Teni to be nice to him after she leaves the world without doing all this drama. That would not give Parth a reason to repel from Teni even after knowing truth.

Regarding Teni:

This girl confuses me. Sometimes I feel she is good. But the next day she does something or the other that irks me or confuses me. She keeps on telling Shorvori 'Let's say to Parth'. She knows Shorvori would deny. But if Parth is himself on the way to find out, she stops him from knowing it. I don't understand if she really wishes Parth should know the truth or not. If she wished he should know the truth and is not saying just because she promised Shor, she need not switch off the lights when he dashed Shorvori or she need not warn Shorvori that Parth is coming to her hotel room. If she wished he shouldn't know because just like Shorv she can't see him broken, she shouldn't have told Shorvori 'Main ab bhi bolti hu Parth ko bata dete hain'. It just appears as if she is wanting to be good both before Shorvori and parivaar. Even after Aman's fiasco(many things irritated me about her back then), there are many incidents where this girl's behavior confuse me or irritate me. For instance, yesterday tying blouse knots. She had so many ladies in the house but she wanted Parth to tie them saying Shorv used to do it when she is there. Come on, Shorvori is a woman. Parth isn't. And after Indu and baa came there, this ladki didn't ask them to help her in getting ready or tie knots. If it was so unreachable, why couldn't she ask Indu? All this 'make me ready' things come with Parth. I hate this behaviour of hers. On one end, she blackmails Parth to marry her on saying of Shorv. On this end, she says Indu not to blackmail him. She projects herself as too sweet in front of Indu and everyone.