My version on Om Gauri

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Posted: 8 years ago
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I am not writing it to demean Gauri but writing to show that not only Om but Gauri is also at fault. I want to give applause to writer that they wrote good story but due ato lack of proper presentation it doesnt look good. Omkara is behaving as angry rude guy is he is coming across as a bad guy who doesnt want to accept his wedding not only for fans but for family and Gauri also and Gauri is crying and seen in pain so coming across as good person and victim in front of family and viewers also. But the truth is both are equally pained and suffering. I will agree with harneet Om is in pain. If Om is not ready to see beyond Gauri lies and see his goodness then Gauri is also not seeing beyond Om anger to see what damage her lies has done to Om. If Om is rigid at his truth not understanding the grave reason made Gauri to lie then Gauri also took lie as handy tool and small thing about the consequences her lies have caused. Shs too is not understanding her lies have severely broken Om.
She wanted a job in Mumbai so she disguiaed as man to get a job but she came to mumbai just 2 days ago so instead of struggling with truth for month or 2 she took easy route and just grabbed a first oppurtunity came in her hand even if it meant her to lie and disguise as man (it was small thing for her because she was not going to do something very wrong just work hardly. Intentions were not wrong but means was wrong because she did have time to find a job as people do struggle in big cities to get job initially without comprimising their identity but she didnt even try at that time). Then when she came to know its omkara she wanted to run but then she needed money fof her mother i know grave situation but still atleast she could try somewhere else before but she chooses to use that oppurtunity to get job which was based on lie and she felt its just a job and she will remain as servant finish 3 months and leave how this lie will affect Om and who become friend with servant. But she didnt know Om as he is person who dont make friends based class but goodness and he recognised that goodness and become her friend. She again didnt understand how much this friendship valued for Om if she devoted herself in marriage he did devoted himself in friendship.
She underestimated his devotion in friendship as she always thought from her POV that he will hate her when he will know about chulbul but didnt thought from his POV how will it broke him. She wanted to make him go from KT home when he came to save chulbul then also she underestimated his depth of love for his friend who for others is his servant and wanted to send him back. She didnt understand if she was ready to do anything to protect her husband then he is also equally dedicated to his friendship can do anything for him. This was simple lie for her for survival but it was trust for him who was already broken by too many lies starting from his parents. She still is not getting the depth of his pain, the fear of him to trust again. She is not getting reasons of his blames that like she is getting hurt by his harsh words letting her to cry or something lashing back at him it has equally hurt him by her lies and betrayal as he had put his heart and soul in this friendship. Because it was not a romantic love between couple doesnt mean it was less painful it was equally painful for Om too.
Now he is the person who cant explain his feelings and none of his family including Gauri is not understanding his depth of pain making him look as bad person. He is not able to stand her betrayal not want to see her reason and she is not able to understand her rude behavior. He is taking out his frustration by blaming her for all wrong reasons and she is also crying and rhinking what mistakes she has done. He is taking easy way out to throw her out and she is taking easy way out by leaving thinking it will make him happy. Now i after thinking i understand Gauri is also flawed character. For now she is also thinking from her side only. By the end of this track if Om will understand that not every person who lie is bad sometime their circumstances force them then hopefully Gauri too will understand lying is not just option or handy tool even if intentions are pure and can badly affect someone so she shoul find different solutions. If you see closely most of time she lies and making plans it is so eaay for her to lie she is flawed and I am happy.
I made this post because everyone is bashing Om and no one is thinking from his POV. If becoming rude was his mistake then lying to him was her mistake. I agree later she tried to clarify but by then it was too late and it had done its damage. Its more his betrayal from friend now rather than gold digger truth.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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In gauri's style " jee baat "
completely agree with u
actually rikara story is paused in MS
so a age dente hai
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Completely agree!! 👏👏
I would say that its good that nothing progressed in the MS and it will when its actually DBO... Lets just hope from Tuesday we get a proper Rikara track and story and that goes for a long amount of time! 😊

Yes I want it to go for a long amount of time! 😆 I want to see all the elements and shades of their relationship and all aspects of both Gauri and Omkara.. For example, I want to see emotionalkara, guiltykara, caringkara etc etc... I also want to see their hatred, their friendship, jealousy, possessiveness, care, love etc etc... 😳


I just want our DBO set, our characters, our actors, kaali thakur, Rikara, svetlana etc etc etc... I am very tired of this Mahashit and just want it to end... I cant believe they didnt give a proper closure to the CPR scene which was a very important scene for Rikara... I hope they do something of that sort again so that Om can feel the same level of concern and can take care of her... If they are going on honeymoon, then to pakka yeh scene hoga hi...

I also want to see Monday's episode because of Friday's precap.. The zindagi milke bitayenge made it seem like all of them are very happy...😆 I really hope the mehendi scene also happens...The one we discussed in AT! Caringkara milega! 😉

Lets just hope CVs have a proper track for Rikara from Tuesday and we can see a good storyline! Shrenal and Rikara both deserve this... 😳
Edited by unicornangel - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yes, even I feel this is much bigger than Gold Digger truth. I think part of him doesn't even believe the Gold digger part anymore. He has had some time to introspect at least. (Though they don't show it). He must know she is not interested in marrying Kaali. (This is one of the reasons I feel he has not shared this truth with ShivRu).

I feel they are not doing a good job in presenting his POV or his sense of betrayal or the trapped feeling he has. He said to Gauri "Tume bachathe bachathe main khud barbaad hogayi" or some such thing. (I cant remember the whole thing, need to watch that scene again).


Your right just like Om doesn't want to move from "You lied to me so Ce La Vie" mode..LOL, Gauri is also not moving from "He thinks the worst of me, why is he not understanding me" mode. From what she has seen of this guy in the past few months was she really expecting him to let go of this so easily? She's dreaming. They are both stubborn. But Gauri is a woman and when she stands up for herself people feel bad for her and cheer her on. But men have feelings too and they get hurt as well. More than Gauri, Om has been hurt in all this a lot more. No matter how we try to dress it up, it's a fact. He got involved in a situation that had nothing to do with him, and this is the result. It's like he is paying again and again for that ONE action of saving her.
Edited by MrDarcyfan - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Gauri is again saying u judging me wrong, but can she tell why Omkara don't judge her wrong , when gauri herself created a wrong image of her in front of omkara, then she fails to justify it. Omkara definitely don't have magical powers to read anybody mind. Jhanvi thakurain died infront of him cursing gauri, then he saw gauri in arms of Kali , gauri dancing happily, when second time he went barelli gauri herself said Kali gave her rupees to marry him, then she could not prove herself right coz Kali's smartness, on d top Cb truth coming out. Gauri did deceived Omkara with whatever reason she has 4 it.these all things dint leave a gud taste on omkara.
People say gauri did a lot 4 Omkara , yes she did but 4 her so called patni dharma but Omkara saved gauri out of humanity thou he hated her.
One ques more fans r very happy that in drunk state gauri questioned Omkara but if u Omkara still kept his calm , what if he had answered back gauri on marriage thing , coz gauri very well know why this marriage happened, why Kali is after omkara. Ml r always blamed
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Awesome post 👏 completely agree with whatever you have said about Gauri and Om.
I think Om still somewhere in his herat feels that Gauri is not the person what he thinks and he wants his judgement about her to be proven wrong but the circumstances are not allowing it and Gauri herself is a reason for that. When Om went to Kali Thakurs haveli in search of CB and when he saw Gauri there, Om couldnt beleive what he saw and that itself proved that he had a little trust on Gauri but it was again destroyed when Gauri herself said that she is going to marry Kali for money. Then came the biggest betrayal in his life his friend CB's truth. Om has seen betrayals earlier too but this time it was more personal for him he was emotionally attached to CB and as you mentioned he was too much devoted to his friend so the betrayal has hurt him more than anything else. So now Om is in a condition where he is not ready to trust anymore and he is feared of further betrayals. He didnt say anything about Gauri's betrayal even to his brothers this time and is keeping all his pain to himself as always.

Gauri had an oppurtunity to see the Real Om by being with him as Chulbul and she saw how he was with his bros and his mom and Buama and what kind of problems he is surrounded with still she is unable to understand him. She just sees his anger, she cant see the pain behind it and she cant see how hurt he is because of her betrayal but Om on the otherhand doesnt know anything about Gauri and she herself has increased the misunderstanding between them but still she wants Om to understand her and trust her.
I hope soon Gauri would be able to see the pain he is going through and understand Om and I hope Om too understands and trust Gauri soon... both Om & Gauri are just victims of circumstances.
Edited by -yami - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Aww what a post rachu. Your analysis always superb.

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