todays epi was brilliant in terms of story for me....bcs I totally releate it with me.....
Deepika's story is almost mine,just the diff is I am almost 18 and she is 30+.
The show is set in Bihar as the backgrd,and its the harsh reality of TODAY.Yes,I am born in Gujarat but my native is Bihar so everyone in my family is born and raised in Bihar.
So guys do u remember Vik saying his father is judge,brother IAS but he didnt say anything abt his female family membrs....same is with my male family membrs IAS,lawyer,engineer,surgeon,proffesor....just as Vik family looks educated to the outer world but has retrogressive thinking...its the truth for many family in north.....Education degree can never determine ones perspective and looks can be deciving...
its so true males are mostly taught that they are the earning member that the final decision has to be theirs,whatever they decide is right,its what the betterment for everyone...typical V's character...
I girl is taught to say yes to her partner,uski pasand na pasand ka khayal sirf woh kyu rakhe? kyu sirf woh adjust kare?kyu sirf wo sacrifice kare?agar mard kare toh mehnat,sacrificing ha woh,tarif ke layak aur aurat kare toh uska faarz?....same shown btw D and V in flashback
Agar ladki ho tum,tumhe ham kaam karne de,toh sirf woh kaam karo jo hu jahe,jisme tum ghar ka sara kaam kar ke office ja sako aur aa kar baccho ko samal sako...9 to 5 job...aisa kaam jisme family priority ho....jaise V chaata tha D se
career wo chuno jo parents chate hai..jab tak unki pasand se chalte ho,tab tak tum acche agyakari ho warna beshram,nalayak ho tum...jaisa D ke papa ne use kha
kyu jab ek aurat aage badti hai toh dursi aurate saath toh jhodo,peeche khichti hai,kyu ek dusre ka saath nahi de sakte...jaise D ki mom,V ki behen aur mom
We are freaking living in 2021.And how can it been still so deep rooted?how do people still promote this kind of stuff and behaviour yaar?and its rooted so deep that to the ouside world they appear so progressive but their actual thinking hasnt changed!
I am sorry for all the writing but I literally had tears in my eyes watching the epi.....