TallyHo thumbnail
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Staring at the window displays in a Mall, randomly entering shops and browsing through stuff , most of which I don't need….rummaging through heaps and heaps of clothes on sale…

This is one of the ways I relive my stress…they even have a term for it… "Retail therapy"!...and if you buy stuff to cheer you up they call it "comfort buys"

But sometimes when it goes far they refer to it as " compulsive shopping" and it is as dangerous as any other addiction

I haven't really met too many males who say that they enjoy shopping…

So here are some questions…

1) Do you like shopping? Why?

2) Is shopping to cheer oneself a good thing or bad?

3) Is shopping another activity which reflects the great gender divide?

4) What are the things you like to shop for and what do you hate buying? Is there a gender divide there as well?

5) What is the best part about shopping and the worst?

6) Which is the one thing that forces you go shopping - is it your mood..(Too happy or too sad)? Is it the time on hand? (Nothing to do so good time pass)? Is it the ads ( man this looks good I have to have this)? Is it sheer necessity ( I ran out of toothpaste or the fridge is absolutely bare), is it the money..( Got my pay check today..Lemme go and blow off some money!)

7) Do you enjoy shopping for yourself or for others?

Would love to hear your views!

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fatmah5000 thumbnail
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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: TallyHo

So here are some questions…

1) Do you like shopping?yes,i love shoppingWhy?i feel comfortable and happy inside me,its my only thing i would love to do without being forced for entire of my life......😆

2) Is shopping to cheer oneself a good thing or bad?....good,but one should never cross the limits...

3) Is shopping another activity which reflects the great gender divide?yes..

4) What are the things you like to shop for and what do you hate buying? i love to buy everything that attract infront of my eyes,be it clothes,jewellery,cooking books or some interior decorations...i hate buying vegetables.Is there a gender divide there as well?..i guess,yes.

5) What is the best part about shopping and the worst?...its always makes me feel happy and comfortable,and when im abroad i feel like im in heaven while shopping...and the.worst part of shopping,,you should be careful on how much you want to spend for shopping,and sometimes you should think twice before buying ,as most of us(women) tend to buy things which we will never use them,,otherwise you can be left empty pocket .........

6) Which is the one thing that forces you go shopping - is it your mood..(Too happy or too sad)? Is it the time on hand? (Nothing to do so good time pass)? Is it the ads ( man this looks good I have to have this)? Is it sheer necessity ( I ran out of toothpaste or the fridge is absolutely bare), is it the money..( Got my pay check today..Lemme go and blow off some money!)...ALL the above......😆

7) Do you enjoy shopping for yourself or for others?....mostly,i enjoy shopping for myself,but at least once in a year i do shopping for my husband too.😆

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Posted: 18 years ago
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1) Do you like shopping? To an extent. Why?

I like shopping when I know exactly what I want to buy. Window shopping and Retail Therapy are not my thing. I really get bored if I have to shop for more than 15 minutes in one go. That's why I only go shopping once in two months, and that too if I need something urgently. Otherwise shopping is a big no no for me.

2) Is shopping to cheer oneself a good thing or bad?

There is nothing bad in this world if it cheers up oneself. The most important thing in life is to be happy. And if that happiness comes from shopping, then I would certainly say it's a good thing. But yet again, there has to be a limit. It is not a convincing excuse for anyone to say 'I want to shop for the whole day long because it makes me happy.' There are also other things in life. Shopping cannot be the number one priority.

3) Is shopping another activity which reflects the great gender divide?

Though the majority of men don't enjoy shopping at all, there are some who do. And taking me as an example, there are also women in this world that don't. So I wouldn't say that all men hate shopping and all women love shopping....there are always exceptions.

4) What are the things you like to shop for and what do you hate buying? Is there a gender divide there as well?

I am a very athletic person, therefore I love buying any sport equipments, clothes, shoes, etc. Personally I really don't want to buy any make up. One reason is because I don't wear any. Another is because it takes away the natural beauty. I believe that a person with make up is, in a way, hiding their true self. It shows something which is not there. Accepting a person as they are is very important. And in today's world, most women and men are not doing so with a simple step....applying make up.

5) What is the best part about shopping and the worst? Shopping really teaches one what type of trend is in the world. It is a very good source to know what sort of things went out-dated, what sort of things are currently in high demand, and most importantly, what sort of things will do well in the future. In the core of it, shopping can help some business companies get to their best by predicting the likings in the future.

But shopping can be highly addictive too, if done frequently. Some people get so tied up into it that they forget their real lives. They forget that they have a family, friends, jobs, etc. So it's always good to go shopping, but be aware of the limit.

6) Which is the one thing that forces you go shopping - is it your mood..(Too happy or too sad)? Is it the time on hand? (Nothing to do so good time pass)? Is it the ads ( man this looks good I have to have this)? Is it sheer necessity ( I ran out of toothpaste or the fridge is absolutely bare), is it the money..( Got my pay check today..Lemme go and blow off some money!)

As I said earlier, I go out shopping only if I really need anything urgently. In other words, I'm shopping only if I can't live without a particular product.

7) Do you enjoy shopping for yourself or for others?

I like to keep shopping simple. And when I shop for others, it gets way complicated than I ever want it to be. I don't know what the other wants, therefore I have to search for all the possibilities, and then pick the best one. So for me, it's shopping for only myself. Because then I know what to get and where to get it. It involves no tension....whether the other person will like it or not, will it fit him/her or not??

Great questions Tally!👏 I got to know myself better as a person....got to think about issues that I have never thought of. And most importantly, I enjoyed answering all of them! Thank You Very Much!

Cheers,

Anjali

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Nice Topic!!!

When I go alone or if I should spend the money then I go for Window Shopping .If go for shopping with my brothers I do shopping whole heartedly😆.

Shopping is a costly hobby.But it gives immense pleasure!!

Cheers,

Mythili

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Interesting post Tally ho ji. Thanks.

Originally posted by: TallyHo

So here are some questions…

1) Do you like shopping? Why?

Here in the US, No. I get exhausted. Things that I truly like are extremely high end and my priniciple doesn't let me buy them even if for once I could afford them 😆. I get pretty bored looking at the same things over and over again.

2) Is shopping to cheer oneself a good thing or bad?

Good thing, if it cheers someone. Very bad, if it takes one the other way.

3) Is shopping another activity which reflects the great gender divide?

Broadly, I do think so. Yet, there must be women like myself.

4) What are the things you like to shop for and what do you hate buying? Is there a gender divide there as well?

I shop things that I genuinely need / need to gift. I like to shop CDs, anything that APPLE makes, TV (window shopping), GARDENING tools and plants, seeds, soil etc, used to buy books, but not anymore. I hate buying clothes. It is a nightmare.

5) What is the best part about shopping and the worst?

Decorated clean malls and Food court. Worst- Not finding what u need.

6) Which is the one thing that forces you go shopping - is it your mood..(Too happy or too sad)? Is it the time on hand? (Nothing to do so good time pass)? Is it the ads ( man this looks good I have to have this)? Is it sheer necessity ( I ran out of toothpaste or the fridge is absolutely bare), is it the money..( Got my pay check today..Lemme go and blow off some money!)

sheer necessity. When I was younger, I used to shop a LOT!! I did not repeat clothes/ shoes for months at a stretch. I believe I over-did that and now retreated to simple living.
"Sou choohe khaake billee chalee Haaj ko" 😆

7) Do you enjoy shopping for yourself or for others?

For others. Definitely!!

Would love to hear your views!

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: TallyHo

1) Do you like shopping? Why? Yes i get so many new things i can wear and use

2) Is shopping to cheer oneself a good thing or bad? its good

3) Is shopping another activity which reflects the great gender divide? not at all

4) What are the things you like to shop for and what do you hate buying? i love buying clothes and hate buying well nothingIs there a gender divide there as well? no that i know of

5) What is the best part about shopping and the worst? best i get to spend all my parents money and worst is that i always get in trouble

6) Which is the one thing that forces you go shopping - is it your mood..(Too happy or too sad)? Is it the time on hand? (Nothing to do so good time pass)? Is it the ads ( man this looks good I have to have this)? Is it sheer necessity ( I ran out of toothpaste or the fridge is absolutely bare), is it the money..( Got my pay check today..Lemme go and blow off some money!) Everything you listed😳

7) Do you enjoy shopping for yourself or for others? mostly myself but i like shopping for others too

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: TallyHo

1) Do you like shopping? ahhhh, not really (Yes, im a 15 year old girl..when i usually tell people that i dont really enjoy shopping, there like are u a guy!)Why? because looking around for things, I mean for hours just going thru cloths or whatever you are buying, and just coming home with a bag or two...

2) Is shopping to cheer oneself a good thing or bad? sometimes its good...

3) Is shopping another activity which reflects the great gender divide? No not really, cuz my brother likes shopping as much as my sister...

4) What are the things you like to shop for and what do you hate buying? I really hate buying vegetables, hmmm cloths too well sumtimes it depends on my mood....Is there a gender divide there as well? kinda, yea, like my brother hates shopping for food, and my sister doesnt really mind...

5) What is the best part about shopping and the worst? best part is the things u get..the worst is the things u like cost wohoooo...

6) Which is the one thing that forces you go shopping - is it your mood..(Too happy or too sad)? Is it the time on hand? (Nothing to do so good time pass)? Is it the ads ( man this looks good I have to have this)? Is it sheer necessity ( I ran out of toothpaste or the fridge is absolutely bare), is it the money..( Got my pay check today..Lemme go and blow off some money!) Ummm actually none of these..its acutally when my sister or mom dont wanna go alone so they force me to go with htem...

7) Do you enjoy shopping for yourself or for others? I like shopping for others!


😃


~~~Mahak~~~
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Posted: 18 years ago
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1) Do you like shopping? Why?

i love shopping, i just get a diffrent pleasure in doing it!, im alwaz shopping

2) Is shopping to cheer oneself a good thing or bad?

shooping really cheers u up!

3) Is shopping another activity which reflects the great gender divide?

mayb yeah

4) What are the things you like to shop for and what do you hate buying? Is there a gender divide there as well?

i love shopping, for jeans, kurtas, cute tops, skirts etc

5) What is the best part about shopping and the worst?

the best part of shooping is the lovely thngs u get to buy , the worst part is the long bills😆

6) Which is the one thing that forces you go shopping - is it your mood..(Too happy or too sad)? Is it the time on hand? (Nothing to do so good time pass)? Is it the ads ( man this looks good I have to have this)? Is it sheer necessity ( I ran out of toothpaste or the fridge is absolutely bare), is it the money..( Got my pay check today..Lemme go and blow off some money!)

i go shooping mostly when im happy

7) Do you enjoy shopping for yourself or for others?

for myself afcourse, selfish here😆, but shooping is my sport, to shop is to catch a glimse of heaven for me😳

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Posted: 18 years ago
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Originally posted by: TallyHo

So here are some questions…

1) Do you like shopping? Why? yes of course!! becuz its fun and i like buying new things..

2) Is shopping to cheer oneself a good thing or bad? good becuz if that gets ur mind off of something bad then of course its good

3) Is shopping another activity which reflects the great gender divide? kind of..guys dont rly "shop"

4) What are the things you like to shop for and what do you hate buying? Is there a gender divide there as well? i luv shopping for clothes...jewelry..books...i dont like to 'shop' for food...my mom or dad do that...but i do sometimes..

5) What is the best part about shopping and the worst? best: buying new stuff and enjoying urself and havin fun...worst: spending too much money and getting addicted to shoppin

6) Which is the one thing that forces you go shopping - is it your mood..(Too happy or too sad)? Is it the time on hand? (Nothing to do so good time pass)? Is it the ads ( man this looks good I have to have this)? Is it sheer necessity ( I ran out of toothpaste or the fridge is absolutely bare), is it the money..( Got my pay check today..Lemme go and blow off some money!) i usually go shopping if i need new clothes or when i dont have school...also since yes. it was black friday😉

7) Do you enjoy shopping for yourself or for others? myself cuz i wouldnt rly know what others like...and then they might hate it😭

Would love to hear your views!

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Posted: 18 years ago
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1) Do you like shopping? Why? Heck no....cuz it gives me a headache!!!

2) Is shopping to cheer oneself a good thing or bad? whatever makes one happy....if it cheers u up, then thats fine wit me....in my case, it usually depresses me...lolz

3) Is shopping another activity which reflects the great gender divide? sum pple say so...

4) What are the things you like to shop for and what do you hate buying? Is there a gender divide there as well? i like to electronics....only thing i actually like going to stores for...lolz...i dun think so....lolz

5) What is the best part about shopping and the worst? best part when u finally find that one thing that u r looking for since so long...worst part when u dun like anything u see!!!

6) Which is the one thing that forces you go shopping - is it your mood..(Too happy or too sad)? Is it the time on hand? (Nothing to do so good time pass)? Is it the ads ( man this looks good I have to have this)? Is it sheer necessity ( I ran out of toothpaste or the fridge is absolutely bare), is it the money..( Got my pay check today..Lemme go and blow off some money!) its necessity...if i need it rite now then i go shopping but if i need it in a couple of days, i get my credit card out and go to my computer!!!😆

7) Do you enjoy shopping for yourself or for others? i hate shopping for any one!!!

Warning - I am a girl...dun dare call me a guy after reading my answers...lolz...i love being the odd one out (unique)

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