Can good intentions invite bad reactions? - Page 3

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

This analogy is really misplaced. That way you are even justifying terrorism by saying somebody killed somebody's kin and set their kin on path to terrorism!!! Every act of War has something called collateral damage and that is unavoidable...sometimes...you cant use that as justification to stop all wars!!... Bitter pill also works like that... you have to drink this horrible medecine so you could get better.. kind of thing... all this falls in different discussion...

Originally posted by: -Nymeria-

I'm not saying Wars don't have collateral damage. But the superheroes in MCU did ignore international law. They were a bunch of Americans fighting everywhere and the other countries had no say in it. Especially considering Ultron was because of them (Tony, Bruce, Wanda). How on earth is that justifying terrorism?!

Originally posted by: Starkheart.

Good intentions defy Law of attraction if you speak// act bad. Even though some people always have good intentions they sub consciously believe that their Good intentions will be misunderstood, hence they'll end up inviting bad reactions.

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

half true, half false i think..that sub conscious part is debatable.. since if they believe what you said.. they should harbor bad intentions rather than good.. since they know anyways they are not going to get a good reaction,..

Originally posted by: Starkheart.

If you have these sort of beliefs deep inside your sub consciousness, then you're not going anywhere with your good intentions because sub consciousness is the part which directly connects us to the universal mind where everything manifests.

It's more the other's interpretation about your action than your intention.

Even bad intention are thought of good and vice versa.

It's rather reaction that plays a vital role than just action.

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

if you knew what was in your sub conscious.. you wont call it sub-conscious... its that part about which we are unaware. I was just making a point! I like the bold part which makes veri little sense even to my conscious mind 😆 - universal mind.. is that a mind inside every head being universal... I am not trying to make fun.. but the way you put it, couldn't help laughing!!!!

Originally posted by: zorrro

A conversation that I read recently set me thinking. I have often heard people say that their good intentions somehow always get misunderstood. They set out to do good but the people for whom they meant to do good end up resenting their efforts. My question is why does that happen? How can a well intended effort end up in resentment? That seems to defy the "law of attraction" which seems to suggest that good thoughts should attract good. Please share your views whatever they be 😊

Originally posted by: Nynaeve

Hi,

Here is my two cents, for whatever it is worth:

Your intentions are your own - to the rest they do not matter, what matters is their perception of your intentions. And perception and reality are two different things.

The law of attraction is for us - our intentions and actions - as they long as those are without malice then we would attract good things - how others react to you is depended on them.

The basis of the law of attraction rests on the fact that we continue to do good, irrespective of how others react. After all, you are responsible for what you say not for what the other understands. It is difficult, especially when something we say with good intentions or make a subtle humourous comment without malice and are totally stunned by the adverse reaction we get.

I have only one suggestion to make - take a step back and think - is this a standard reaction to everything you say - then maybe your perception of the goodness of your intentions needs to be checked, if the adverse reaction is only from one person then it could be that that person is a little too sensitive or simply rude.

Best,

Nyna