molestation - Page 5

Originally posted by: gengarjetty2

hmm i think all molesters are dirt bags and should be sent to hell.

just like KSG......BTW, nice avi😆

Originally posted by: punjabi#1

it happened last month when i was visiting india. i said molestation, not rape.



I can't seem to hate him because my cousin (his mom is no more) and he had a tough childhood. He has 5 masi's and i am one of them. My dad pays for his education, cloths and paid for his first motorcycle....so i am constantly getting updates on him from my family. I have been back before and he had always treated me with respect/love but never as a masi more of as a friend. He is taller than me and feels weird calling me masi. This time I went back there was a wedding and he knows i don't feel comfortable around so many people i don't know. He was by my side always introducing me to people, rescuing me from people when i didn't want to talk. Fetching me food and drinks and just being there for me. He would defend me when someone teased me, his poor brother got beat up alot. Like he was so sweet to me before this stupid act and even afterwards. I was distant from him after what he did but he still made sure I was taken care of from afar. It happened the night of the wedding...



I think he just screwed up. i don't know. There are 5 of us of same age and they spend more time with him then I, they live in india. I don't think he does this as a normal thing or someone would have spoken out by now. I don't live there...i don't want to ruin my life and his.

Originally posted by: gengarjetty2

hmm i think all molesters are dirt bags and should be sent to hell.

Case gets complicated when it's difficult to ascertain what actually happened.

Originally posted by: PhoeniXof_Hades

Case gets complicated when it's difficult to ascertain what actually happened.

errr, example?

Originally posted by: finicky2010

I suggest you talk to a mature person in your family. An elder sibling or your mom, whoever you are close with.

Or possibly a psychologist, if you (Punjabi) are unwilling to come out to a family member. Psychologists can provide you with comfort, help you cope up and make decisions, and most importantly, they will keep the matter confidential.

Originally posted by: PhoeniXof_Hades

Case gets complicated when it's difficult to ascertain what actually happened.

Here in America, if two people get drunk and the male has sex with the girl and it's consensual, then the girl can charge the guy with rape because according to the coroner, the girl 'was not in the right frame of mind' to know what she was doing. It's too much, really.

Originally posted by: gengarjetty2

errr, example?

Example: Read through the thread.

Originally posted by: PhoeniXof_Hades

Or possibly a psychologist, if you (Punjabi) are unwilling to come out to a family member. Psychologists can provide you with comfort, help you cope up and make decisions, and most importantly, they will keep the matter confidential.

sorry to butt in, but even guidance conselors can help.😊

Originally posted by: debayon

Here in America, if two people get drunk and the male has sex with the girl and it's consensual, then the girl can charge the guy with rape because according to the coroner, the girl 'was not in the right frame of mind' to know what she was doing. It's too much, really.

lol... well, then its not molestation i guess..

Originally posted by: gengarjetty2

lol... well, then its not molestation i guess..

it is according to the law over here.