General Discussion Thread #43 - Page 30

Originally posted by: DemonStar

"Women themselves condition their daughters to serve the system of male primacy. If a daughter challenges it, the mother will generally defend the system rather than her daughter. These mothers, victims themselves, have unwittingly become wounded wounders. Women need to attack culture's oppression of women, for there truly is a godlike socializing power that induces women to "buy in" or collude, but we also need to confront our own part in accepting male dominance and take responsibility where appropriate." - Sue Monk Kidd

There cannot be progress of any sort until this perverted, vicious and inhuman mentality is eradicated from the root, by whatever means. Period.

100% true!!!!! Thats the whole point... The system.. the culture... that needs up-gradation... Why don;t they understand that ..people who created all this were also humans they also could make mistakes.. Its time to amend it... I wish the whole "Culture" would just vanish/erase like a memory loss from everyones mind.. and people could start neat and clean from the beginning

In some families it is... But why don't they understand that success is what a boy got and success is what a girl got.. Both are equal.
But what I said was, our thoughts matters a lot in making our personality. That was a story of how a family treats a girl. I was basically talking about our thoughts as many of us somewhere in our lifes used to think Why are we girls so that was what I was telling.
Don't you agree that what we think makes us?

U r pure in inside.dat's why u dare to tell these things to us. Really brave.

i feel this topic ends but rather yes i think i should better face it than turning my back towards it.i feel sick.such discussions always touch a raw nerve.thanks to someone that i am able to write this than feeling some vacuum in me again. i would love to write down my whole bio here,tough its not worth anything. leave.
you know,i know of a lady who was thrown out of her home ,with her kids,whilst her studies,post divorcing her cheating husband.it was only after her remarriage she was able to complete her studies and get a more decent job than she already had.some families don't even bother making sure their daughters are independent before marriage. they take nil responsibility of the girl post marriage. err

anyways
this article is irritating
http://m.rediff.com/movies/slide-show/slide-show-1-the-top-ten-shows-on-television/20130808.htm

Ingredients :
Bournvita solidified
Hot Water - 1/2 cup
Brown sugar - 1/3 cup
All Purpose Flour - 1 1/2 cups
Butter - 1/4 cup
Sugar - 1 tbsp to sprinkle
Preparation:
1. Heat water and pour over
solidified bournvita. It makes
a very thick chocolate syrup
of 1 cup.
2. Heat the heavy bottom
vessel and add butter and
allow to melt.
3. When it turns into ghee or
burnt butter add APF(all
purpose flour) and roast it
well to remove the raw smell.
4. Add the chocolate syrup
and brown sugar and mix
well to form a soft dough. The
mix should come together.
5. Transfer into a buttered
tray and spread it out with a
buttered hands and pat it flat.
6. Cut into pieces and
sprinkle with sugar and place
in the fridge for it to set.😛

Mini what is this recipe for? It looks damn interesting! But I don't have bournvita at home and I can't run to the shops either is there an alternative? 😳 Gosh you made hungry! 😆

was trying some random chocolate recepie :)))
alternative ..dont know.

Barish ki in lamho main
ek cup coffee toh banta hain