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Originally posted by: dey.bh

Thank you @ Ecrj

I so agree about twinklr khanna. She is a highly overrated writer also. She is hardly funny.

Originally posted by: dennisdmenace

So someone has given a piece of her mind to twinkle khanna. Saw it coming though. Why do these celebs forget the age old advice of people living in glass house blah blah. Though the language could have been a little more polished.

This akshay Kumar has become holier than thou. Together they are couple goal. Why do they always feel that public is gullible?

Twinkle can crack a little joke on herself as an actress and she thinks herself as a literary genius.

Originally posted by: chicksoup

More than damsel in distress... I agree it should have been executed better, but I didn't mind the plot.

Narottam will never get into Satrupa's good books. I don't think that is sudha's plan. She wants Anami to have Marne maarnewaali nafrat for Lal Mahal and use her as the ladder to LM. So, Narottam's part is to make sure Anami is alive, and gather any info that can help them tackle Pujan. Or.. worse still, what if she implicates Baldev here?!

Narottam is the shadow that is ever present in Satrupa 'S children's lives. He knows what is happening to them, yet he doesn't lift a finger to change anything. He is looking for snippets of information he can use.

Satrupa will never melt towards Narottam until the core issues between her and Baldev are sorted out.

Originally posted by: dennisdmenace

My two cents on kangana. She is talented but anchor less. Bollywood is a nasty place for regular middle class people. Behind the flashbulbs and glitter it is lonely, selfish and cruel place. You can't trust anyone. So the presence of strong family and friend support matters. I think kangana made her own way up. And obviously met wolves like Aditya pancholi and likes. She was not guided properly how to deal with them. And see where it lead to?

Originally posted by: dennisdmenace

I am never up to date with RKC. 😭

Though this much I can say that I never thought gayatri will have a positive impact on me. I like her role as grandmother.

Adhiraj saying sorry was cute. Ila was very unprofessional but completely ok like a girl in love.😉

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Ecri,

I haven't been fortunate enough to watch an Indian show or movie or a book that explains love. The closest I have watched is, Zindagi Gulzar Hai.

I think people have varied definitions for love. Self seeking comes into the definition, when we put I in love first. You know those quotes which say in order to say I love you, you should be able to say I first. I don't believe in that. For me, you say I love you when I becomes insignificant before you. I am not talking about the sacrificing Devis... It's purely when a woman feels secure enough, she doesn't need to look out for herself. There is no I or you, it simply becomes we.

I see it in a labourer couple returning home after their day's work, the husband giving his wife a ride in the pushcart, both chatting away.

I see it in an elderly gentleman I knew who would fret after his own surgery, about how his wife would survive without him...

I see it in a lady I admire, a relative, a peer, who doesn't have a problem sitting down and massaging her husband's feet, because she knows he has had a tough day...

In all of these, I don't find self seeking. Love is such a feeling...you feel loved, the more love you give. And at least in the last two instances, I know the feelings were returned with equal fervour.

Of course, sometimes people end up loving the wrong persons, holding fast to an ideal called love, and end up hurting themselves...I call that stupidity.

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Anu,

Completely agree on Ila. She didn't annoy me. She was bitchy, because Adhiraj was giving Anami all the attention she herself was seeking.

I loved how the apology ended...I am giving up...This was a bad idea...Goodbye!😆

Kangana- If you come from.a stable family, it is easier to behave well in public. But having an unstable family is not an excuse for bad behaviour.

There is hardly any film/TV celeb that I take seriously for their views on social causes..coz all of them are hypocrites somewhere or other..I detest it when they use their "pet causes" in other to get good PR and image building

Words in bold 👏 these celebrities shouldn't be taken seriously because most if not all try to stand out as the real human amongst their clan to grab eyeballs of normal people out there. To an extent these people succeed with a lot of gullible people out there who worship these people and stay tuned to every word these people say but a larger section of people like us won't get impressed with these stuff.

Hypocrisy at it heights when these people give gyaan on stuff and give lectures on things that I'm sure they're not even aware of In the real sense.

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Twinkle - I think she made a similar controversy last year too. The reply was all little rude, but someone needed to put her in her place too. Anyway, I have never looked up to celebrities. The pseudo feminists seem to love nitpicking on other people's choices, and often forget other people have a thought process too. They are so high on themselves, they don't deserve to know nobler thoughts. Let the frogs live in their wells.😆

On love being self seeking...no way! I know quite a few couple who love their partners unconditionally. Some of it is returned, in most cases partially, in some fully.

Parental love, yes...it is the most secure love.

Loving one's partner...it is a journey. The dynamics change everyday. It is about learning to love, despite the circumstances.

That's why I talked about my juniors...big difference when it comes to the generation before us, where love took risks. Theses days, either people fallbin love with equals or risk is taken for the filmy experience. And then when circumsrances change, it is a use and throw culture.

That is why I value tradition. Watching undinon ki baat, I know why I am like this, and unlike people 10 years younger to me. I consider myself so lucky for the upbringing, friendship, teachers...the integrity is lacking these days.

Chick loved your take on love friendship and above all integrity. Character building is so important for us as humans. Love is not a concept and values are not something to be mocked nor to be ignored as old thinking. Both are good and beneficial to us if we cultivate it and apply it the right way.
Love can be misunderstood by young kids if their perspective is based on the movies and television shows out there. Having a strong family support is so important. Having strong mature unbiased elders around the younger ones instills in them what real love is. Love is not a passing fancy or merely a physical attraction and a need that has to be fulfilled. Physical is very shallow but having emotional connection is so essential. No one has the time to invest into a relationship. Or they're too hurt by something or someone so the whole perspective is so messed up in the head resulting in broken relationships.

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