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Originally posted by: Ecrivain.

@bold I strongly believe that one cannot have a physical satisfaction without any emotional connect. It is utter crap when people they sleep around for just physical need. It is a falsified notion that is uttered for sep satisfaction or for make belief acceptance.

And I can give examples of real life, but since that wont be relatable to you all, lemme quote a fictional character. Arnav had an active sexual life with Lavanya in IPK1. He fell in love with Khushi later on, while he was still very much involved with Lavanya. Mind you, the involvement after Khushi stepped in was not physical, far from it but it was emotional, for Lavanya definitely as was shown, but from Arnav's POV also. His gifting her the bag after his outburst, his advice for her to moev in with him, his deceleration of the engagement, was done more so to keep Khushi and her impact on him away, but it was also a testimony for himself to prove to himself that Lavanya mattered to him. And lets, also not forget that he did stand up for Lavanya in front of his Nani and Shyam, when he questions Shyam in the beginning of the show as to why Lavanya is disrespected if she is his girlfriend. So yes, Lavanya's being and her respect and her emotions, did matter ti him, albeit remotely. And ASR1 was one of the most thick-headed and insensitive human to begin with, one who was not affected by emotions, least of all love. So if he can have teeny-weeny bit of pang of guilt and feeling for Lavanya, so do normal humans, in real. 😛

Originally posted by: Dreamer-89

Anu word on Kangana, I think her lack of acceptance in her own family really has messed up with her head 😕 but all said and done on KJos show a mere quiz answer escalated into a full blown hungama which was not at all needed. Makes me feel like she indeed ruffled up the feathers of the King KJo. I watched that iv even if she was purposely targeting him his response to it made him look like a silly person. She took the bait and he sunk his teeth into the bait too.

Even if she's messed up in the head and simply doing this because she's lost it, for a woman to keep standing up for herself is something. Wrong or right how many women have the guts to stand up for themselves. Not saying she's right but her guts is something that everyone is trying to silence. Hope she knows to pick her battles wisely. That much i want to tell her from woman to another.

Originally posted by: dey.bh

Its not about the damsel in distress scene alone but the overall story telling is very much slow.

Heir of LM was so important that despite security risks, a seventeen year old boy was declared the heir. He was a minor then. When the only son/ grandson died his relatives didnt have the time to mourn his death and choosing a new heir became the most important thing.

Then came Anami, the reluctant and not acceptable heir of LM by law who unknowigly had challenged the new heir. This clash od two possible heirs was so bad for the family that Vikramaditya couldn't take thr pressure and was hospitalised. Then a hotch potch dna test and bas, the whole idea of having an heir is just about a family tradition. So, Avdhoot got the heirloom and Anami is being groomed so that she can take over the business and the palace. If Anami has time, why did they hurry for Vatsalya?

The story is opening new sub plots almost every week and I must say its intriguing but at the end of the day the story has not moved an inch since Anami's entry or even after that dna test.

I hav no hopes left for Baldev. Mental or evil, Narottam is stii his son and he and his family have been really inhuman to him. After Vatsalya died I genuinely felt sorry for him with those flashback s buy yesterday when he casually said Anami.must have left I wanted to ask him, ' Are you serious?'. That girl is your only daughter, you don't acknowledge Narotram as ypur son and Vatsalya is dead. Are you even human to say that? Go and adopt Avdhoot. You deserve him.

I dont t mind men saving women especially when he is a trained cbi officer and she is a minor but my point is why is Satrupa so unprepared for such attacks?Vatsalya was attacked thrice before tht accident. Now, Anami has enough reasons to be attacked.. I know Anami won't listen to her but still a bodyguard should have been there.Suddenly, Satrupa is a complete bechari auraat who is helpless even before Narottam. Give this chap some work when Anami is at home, dont let him go out when she is in college. Satrupa's fire is missing since that Pujan kand. I want her back. Sudhais being shown as more cunning which looks ridiculous at times because what is her source of living? How is managing everything? How is Narottam happily meeting her when Satrupa gayatri knows his closeness to Anami.

Originally posted by: Dreamer-89

Chick/Ecri: Generations come and goes but the true nature of humans don't change. Love is there and will always be there. There's no perfect love humans are incapable of giving perfect love, we all love expecting it to be reciprocated regardless of which century we belong to. The love on television movies and books are wistful thoughts on a utopic world. Love cannot be perfect but it's about accepting the imperfect and making the best of it.
While it's easier to say older generation was more stable compared to younger ones. The comparison merely on statistics of longevity of a relationship is unfair. Longevity of a marriage doesn't necessarily mean the relationship was a wholesome satisfying relationship for the people involved! People in the older generation had a stricter societal rules where it was not easy nor acceptable to question a relationship even if one is unhappy in it. As much it's nice to say they stuck together, it's not fair to say they're a model of perfection. Many women in the older generation are stuck in unhappy relationships sticking with it simply because they were taught marriage is for life, they have no options because of the society they are part of or simply because they don't have the strength to walk out. Living in a suffocating unhealthy relationship is worse than having no relationship at all!! You'll not only hate the partner you'll end up hating yourself.
Younger generation is not fickle unlike what's perceived, there approach is more straightforward they live by the follow your heart principle. Which is not wrong. Failure in a relationship has always been there just not so obvious. Most were silent, now that people are more bolder so it's more open now than behind closed doors. Having said all this there are still relationships that are thriving in both sets of generation, I'm not talking about the Twinkle Khanna section of society, just normal people like us!!

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Originally posted by: chicksoup

😆 Adhiraj grumbling after falling down.

Originally posted by: Ecrivain.

Dey

After watching the scene today with Pujan and Baldev and Adhiraj, its almost clear that Baldev is an asshole. Let alone a father, he is not even a man. A young girl goes missing and the asshole has the gall to say that she must have run away.😡

I am actually wary of how Satrupa has not taken precautions to take care off Anami after losing Vatsalya. That is absolutely unbelievable.

Originally posted by: chicksoup

Very well put, Benna. I will explain to both of you what I meant.

If I take the example Ecri mentioned... I have gone through that situation. Attraction would be there, and one would have no fear of being turned down... But one would still keep a healthy distance, because it is healthy. 😆...I mean, for the heart.

One would think a hundred times, before taking that step. I reflect back on those times, and I am thankful things ended where they did.

When I talked about my juniors... I think people jumped in too fast into a relationship, got excited with the idea of a romantic involvement, and fought battles to get married. When life happened, they realised their own self was more important. Was it love that united them in the first place?

As opposed to my parent's times, or even most of my peers...where people didn' t seek love so much...it was not glorified...life happened, and then love happened. Most couples just fell in love along the way.

What is lacking now, is parental love and care. Parents are so proud to see their kids achieving what they dreamed about, children are decision makers from an early age and end up making these major decisions, with no proper guidance.

It is good that more and more men and women can opt out of a loveless marriage, the flip side is, love is not given a chance. Most people just leave halfway...which is what marriage prohibited people from doing. It made people give love a chance.

Originally posted by: Dreamer-89

Originally posted by: Dreamer-89

Baldev is a prick 😡 forget him acknowledging her as his, this fool lacks basic human courtesy or his hatred for Satrupa is bigger than being a good human. If at all anyone has to have an issue it's Satrupa and his parents. He screwed up Sudha fathers a child something happens to sudha's mental health he vanishes giving her false promises. Had he not Sudha won't have never come to the mahal with hope that Baldev still wants her. After messing up sudha's life he screws up satrupa's life impregnated her and disappears 👏 His mummy dearest has to clean the mess he created!! Whatever be Narottam's sexual orientation that gives Baldev no right to treat him like that. Never takes any responsibility of the things he was involved in but goes on whining that he's not given a second chance. Disgusting is the word!!