Miss granger😉😛 hello there😆
ok so here it is - I agree with everything u guys said, anshu, u, uma...that asher should have given her one chance to explain what is happening or rather shouldnt have felt insecurities at all, when he himself was so pally with sara...
and I dont forgive asher for actually believing that khirad could cheat on him...the girl couldnt keep a simple lie around the shade loving plants from asher...why would she lie about something so ridiculously big...
But...asher was always flawed...right from the beginning
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if one goes to see - the story of HS where it begins and where it ends...is at the same point...the story began, when asher came to know what khirad felt about the marriage...when he overheard the conversation with baseerat...and khirad was hurt with asher's painful words on a call that she isnt on upto his standards and hence became robotic in her actions...asher had hurt khirad even then...unknowingly...and then on it was him rectifying it...and taking first steps to build a relationship with her...and they both obviously fell for each other because they are the same - are innately good people. are people of few words, like to keep fewer people in their lives...and they both are not good readers of people around them...
and it ends at the same point too...khirad hurt - this time, magnitude is huge, pain is for lifetime, hurt will never subside completely...but asher will again take steps to rebuild their relationship...like the last scene...
asher misunderstood khirad in the start - and he accepts it also that his initial impression of khirad was nothing to rave about...
khirad did not judge khizar properly...when the MUs started of sorts, I thot asher was very clear in his hints at not being impressed or comfortable around khizar at all...and honestly I myself wanted to go inside the screen and just throw khizar out for the way he used to praise khirad around asher...dude she is somebody's wife...maintain ur damn limits😡 coming over to asher's house just to inquire why khirad dint come for classes...praising that soup and that ridiculous apnaayat dialogue🤢🤢 OMG...if I was asher I would have hated it too and this is where asher expected khirad to understand without saying that he is plain annoyed...him walking off dining table, or being sarcastic after that apnaayat scene...and then walking away to office in a huff, before khirad's confession...I think asher was giving her plenty of hints of his annoyance...and khirad's confession kind off made him relieved that ohk guess...she understood about his insecurities...but the nuzrat wedding stuff...had his blood boiling again😭 and the nail in the coffin - ek shauhar ka mood kya hota hai biwi ko pata hona chahiye - again - same thing - expectations galore from khirad to just understand what he is feeling as regards khizar...
one person who was the best reader of people around was sara...she understood that khizar is creepy - hence kept avoiding him😆 she figured out asher's moods better than anyone...she knew how much asher had changed, how cold he had become after khirad left, how he suddenly had life back in him, without knowing about hareem herself, ...sadly she wasted her life too bad...if only she understood that asher was a friend for life...and let go off of "love"/ obsession for him...😭
sorry for detracting...coming to farida's entire plan...I find asher wrong in just walking away...if he had to, he should have taken khirad and farida away with him and confronted straightaway - but still if that would have happened - why would he ever doubt his mother - till she would herself accept it - which she would never have atleast that time? - farida put up the best face around khirad...she was always encouraging towards khirad-asher relationship - why would she want to hamper it?...and khizar himself just put things so horribly in farida's side...asher was more angry at himself than khirad - that he really wasnt meant for khirad? - too bottled up inside...and too shocked to understand the happenings...hence some lone time...and he did come back to give khirad the chance of explanation (can I just stop and drool and fawad in that scene with farida😳😳😳😆 gives me goosebumps when he shouts😆) - but farida again just😡😡😭😭 again why would he doubt what his mother told him - khirad wanted to go away...or that khirad will only again call him up only for a divorce...
on top of it the way farida had played her cards, even if khirad would tell him she is pregnant...khizar may have again said...yeh baccha mera hai🤢🤢 yikes I get shudders thinking abt this situation🤢
point being till asher wouldnt hear it from his mother herself - like he did in the end...he wouldnt ever believe that farida was capable of this level of scheming - he made a very good statement, that a wife can betray, but how can a mother think of taking away the happiness of her own son...or betray her own son...
and whatever happened post leap - I think subconciously asher had already realized he had wronged khirad - when she told him about their daughter, hence all the false face being put up of hating her...but he dint really throw her out of his office, or dint throw the files on her face...instead got her back in his house...but his male ego, would not let him accept his mistake...when he asked her to come back in his life...that was one hell of a scene...I mean the one where he still hasnt read the letter...a helplessly in love asher, to an angry asher, to a frustrated asher, to a sad asher,to again anger...to a broken vulnerable asher...he was literally screaming out loud, hopefully to get some explanation from khirad...for all of his confusion...but obviously khirad just did not want asher anymore...and kudos to her for that👏 the opposite to love is indifference - and that is where khirad was - she dint even hate him...she was just indifferent...
and the end - for all the cursing, hating, getting angry on asher - he corrected or atleast tried to correct everything - his apology to sara was just 😭😭 man im probably the few of them who really enjoyed asher-sara scenes a lot...he gave back the place and respect to his wife...love and affection to his daughter and for all his mother did, he was still her son😭
as for his punishment - he got khirad back...but she will never be the same ever...and more than her...I think eventually even if khirad will forgive asher completely, he himself will not forgive himself...that is what I love about humsafar...they ended at a perfect note...all the characters perfectly wrapped up and still - one always wonders about the lost moments between asher and khirad...the new beginnings between them...the little tiffs as a couple they may have, or them as the parents...
phew a lonnnggg post😆
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