MJHT Member Discussion - Page 3

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/miley-jab-hum-tum/1195896/pd-wasnt-joking-mayank-shirtless

Next Concern is PD..

@ Sana - I'm part of the CC, and it was never created with the intent of bashing anyone. Perhaps I'm not allowed to post here, since I was not part of this, but the point being that yes you were mentioned in the CC, but the members of the CC have now mutually decided that no member will be brought up again in the CC. Can't we move on from what has happened? I understand your point of view, but I'll be honest with you no one intended to hurt you or attack you personally. You were mentioned in the CC in passing, and the members of the CC do not necessarily hate or dislike you. Enough feelings of like and dislike. Let us all just stick to the show :-) And, forget what has happened. This won't happen again.

Originally posted by: carolinecj

let me be the first from the Chat GANG to respond!

while at it let me raise my own few points

earlier on when kavya and I(the two people that sana apparently spoke about being banned from quoting her) were active in the forum..

when sana came in she began incessantly quoting us and giving us bhashans..

we did not like it.. she told us she was 27 years old and we were too young to understand and even went ahead and asked kavya's age....

we did not like it..
I personally PMed gagan and DV that I dotn want any communication with sana as I dont like her preachy tone with me nor do I like the too many hugs and kisses she showered on me while telling me my opinion was wrong! the mayank going talli thread that she created is a proof on the endearment abuse and we made sure we quit it! we left that thread and we gradually left the forum.

gagan and DV asked me to talk to sana directly and there I told her We are not interested in talking to her..the CC that gagan created is an existing proof to that fact! SO technically it was based on MY request that gagan declared a ceasefire!

LEt em tell you.. Sana accuses me of BASHING EVERY POST She makes.. I dont even read most of her posts because of the fact Im not fond of them...I have commented on topics she has been in at the CC

She accused me of taking revenge on her due to reasons known to her for voting her as the most dramebaaz member..it was a nominations and I voted what I thought!isnt that a slander on my name?or is it my mistake that such categories were brought in?


I have refrained from quoting her in the forum..after the ceasefire ..
as much as I can and I can she has quoted my topics here in tehf oruma s mcuh as I did.. that is hardly a handful...

in recent times apart from harassing a newbie fr posting a negative view...she says she knew about our "attitudes" of the 10-member gang..when did we become a gang i dont understand!

anybody who has been around the forum for a while understand that we mostly spoof .. fr fun sake we brought up one of our older spoof topics in a new thread...We were threatened with mod action be a fellow member!

Also,
about the criticism part of it..yesterday I got a new lesson that criticism equals bashing..is this the new tolerance level of I-F?

again
If a new promo has been aired, even lookigna t the context if people can praise it sky high, why cant we criticize it sky high! i mean we are allowed to have different perspectives are nt we or has that been restrained?


accusing teh CC of being exclusively a hate club is preposterous.. As anybody who lurked/snooped on teh CC knows..wwe discuss everythign thats personal to TV and MJHT is only a part of our discussions..we provide our point of view... we comment on posts... we disagree with each other as well disagree with the forum!
In the CC we discuss a whole lot of other topics that are not allowed in the forum as well!


Snide remarks at us in the forum include
jealous people
bhejaaz brains
need to be given "get well soon" cards
people full of hatred in their minds

and latest direct quotes aimed at us

"gun point par kissi ne nahi kaha k show dekho ok nahi pasand na dekho pasand hai to aise natak mat karo simple"


"i m not giving u advise ok im just saying k pagalon wale msg daina band karo"



We thought I-F provides an equal platform for debating and discussing but I am not sure anymore. Can I stay in the forum ONLY if I can praise mjht?


last but not least.. as u know I am A member of the CC... if somebody quotes me or indirectly bashes me(even if it is sugar coated or loaded with a zillion smileys), am I allowed to talk of it with my friends saying this person accused me of this fact? or is that going to be construed differently too?

Caro has pretty much said all that I wanted to say.
Just because she voted for a certain member in a certain category in the member awards , she was accused of taking "revenge" against that person. I personally thought that the member awards were for fun and not meant to be taken personally or seriously! Some people seem to be having this notion that whatever we do (i.e. the '10-member gang' as they themselves have named us), we do it as a part of our so called 'plot' against them.

Also is it okay to call people negative and classify the forum into positives and negatives if some people do not believe in praising the show ALL THE TIME? To be honest, I think such people are instigating the others also to speak ill of us. We were amazed at how every second person was making a post yesterday after some of us expressed our HONEST views about the latest promo. Some were preaching us, some were threatening us, some were BASHING us directly while some were warning us that they would ensure the moderators would take action against us because we were 'spoiling their fun'- they all seemed to imply only one thing - "Like the show no matter what or stop watching it and just leave the forum!". Actually some members have been kind enough to say that directly too.

Zainab's thread where we were having a quality discussion was closed because some member started bashing, calling some of us 'Paagal' etc and an argument ensued between us and that member. I am sorry if THAT is not bashing then what is? On the CJ thread, when one of the members criticizes the show and tries to bring the flaws to the creative's notice we see that posts praising the show sky high crop up immediately after that burying the criticism ones- now I am not saying that they should not praise the show, good for them if they like it and want to praise but the problem is it seems deliberately done to debase us, not that we care or that our life depends on it, its just that the intentions behind their praising posts are unfair on us.

What is the harm in spoofing? It is fun to spoof and we have a great time laughing while doing that, what is wrong with having some good time with our friends on the forum? 😕 😕

The only solution I can think of to sort this issue is let us have a separate thread for the people who want to express honest views about the show, whose wavelengths are on the same level and who can accept others' POV which conflicts theirs without being offended. Mods can leave a note asking the rest of them not to read it for they would already know what to expect of it!

Sana, I apologize on everyone's behalf, who bashed you.

Originally posted by: Gossip Girl

@ Sana - I'm part of the CC, and it was never created with the intent of bashing anyone. Perhaps I'm not allowed to post here, since I was not part of this, but the point being that yes you were mentioned in the CC, but the members of the CC have now mutually decided that no member will be brought up again in the CC. Can't we move on from what has happened? I understand your point of view, but I'll be honest with you no one intended to hurt you or attack you personally. You were mentioned in the CC in passing, and the members of the CC do not necessarily hate or dislike you. Enough feelings of like and dislike. Let us all just stick to the show :-) And, forget what has happened. This won't happen again.

i leave it up to mods to decide .... its not in my hand..

gagan
why is the mappu boy question being directed at me?
because I use it?

as sidra said it was a joke and I hope a joke is taken as one!

gagan I request that you also address indirect bashing and name calling in the forum

Im done
got work... Bye

Everyone my next issue is PD.

Gagan you know what, please just give us all an official notice to leave this forum and we will.

No one wants us to ever disagree with PD or not like a track being put forth by the creatives....fine.

If that is going to continue to be interpreted as 'bashing', then this is all a moot point.

We will gladly take leave from this forum...not that we were welcome here to begin with.....lol