MJHT Member Discussion

Hello MJHT Members,

Why do members feel the need to go bash other members in Chat club?

Sachin i am not among the invites .... but i am the member who was bashed badly in CC along with code words . Half of them who made fun of me i dont even know them and i never even communicated with them . Then there were 2 members who mods already banned never to quote me . and they repeatedly quoted me there and bashed every statement i made .. I seem to hold a candle and i seem to be the Postiive angel ... beside this I seem to blow my own trumpet .... Chat club ??? it was hate club against me ....

i guess by raising my voice i m hurting some good frnds of mine .. so i had to edit ... n above all i have realized m not an invitee ..

Please, members this is for some of the on-going issues in MJHT&CC forum. If you do not have any idea about this please do not post here.

Okie I have a meeting in a few minutes

let me be the first from the Chat GANG to respond!

while at it let me raise my own few points

earlier on when kavya and I(the two people that sana apparently spoke about being banned from quoting her) were active in the forum..

when sana came in she began incessantly quoting us and giving us bhashans..

we did not like it.. she told us she was 27 years old and we were too young to understand and even went ahead and asked kavya's age....

we did not like it..
I personally PMed gagan and DV that I dotn want any communication with sana as I dont like her preachy tone with me nor do I like the too many hugs and kisses she showered on me while telling me my opinion was wrong! the mayank going talli thread that she created is a proof on the endearment abuse and we made sure we quit it! we left that thread and we gradually left the forum.

gagan and DV asked me to talk to sana directly and there I told her We are not interested in talking to her..the CC that gagan created is an existing proof to that fact! SO technically it was based on MY request that gagan declared a ceasefire!

LEt em tell you.. Sana accuses me of BASHING EVERY POST She makes.. I dont even read most of her posts because of the fact Im not fond of them...I have commented on topics she has been in at the CC

She accused me of taking revenge on her due to reasons known to her for voting her as the most dramebaaz member..it was a nominations and I voted what I thought!isnt that a slander on my name?or is it my mistake that such categories were brought in?


I have refrained from quoting her in the forum..after the ceasefire ..
as much as I can and I can she has quoted my topics here in tehf oruma s mcuh as I did.. that is hardly a handful...

in recent times apart from harassing a newbie fr posting a negative view...she says she knew about our "attitudes" of the 10-member gang..when did we become a gang i dont understand!

anybody who has been around the forum for a while understand that we mostly spoof .. fr fun sake we brought up one of our older spoof topics in a new thread...We were threatened with mod action be a fellow member!

Also,
about the criticism part of it..yesterday I got a new lesson that criticism equals bashing..is this the new tolerance level of I-F?

again
If a new promo has been aired, even lookigna t the context if people can praise it sky high, why cant we criticize it sky high! i mean we are allowed to have different perspectives are nt we or has that been restrained?


accusing teh CC of being exclusively a hate club is preposterous.. As anybody who lurked/snooped on teh CC knows..wwe discuss everythign thats personal to TV and MJHT is only a part of our discussions..we provide our point of view... we comment on posts... we disagree with each other as well disagree with the forum!
In the CC we discuss a whole lot of other topics that are not allowed in the forum as well!


Snide remarks at us in the forum include
jealous people
bhejaaz brains
need to be given "get well soon" cards
people full of hatred in their minds

and latest direct quotes aimed at us

"gun point par kissi ne nahi kaha k show dekho ok nahi pasand na dekho pasand hai to aise natak mat karo simple"


"i m not giving u advise ok im just saying k pagalon wale msg daina band karo"



We thought I-F provides an equal platform for debating and discussing but I am not sure anymore. Can I stay in the forum ONLY if I can praise mjht?


last but not least.. as u know I am A member of the CC... if somebody quotes me or indirectly bashes me(even if it is sugar coated or loaded with a zillion smileys), am I allowed to talk of it with my friends saying this person accused me of this fact? or is that going to be construed differently too?


PS: my next response ,if at all, will take atleast a few hrs

Originally posted by: carolinecj

Okie I have a meeting in a few minutes

let me be the first from the Chat GANG to respond!

while at it let me raise my own few points

earlier on when kavya and I(the two people that sana apparently spoke about being banned from quoting her) were active in the forum..

when sana came in she began incessantly quoting us and giving us bhashans..

we did not like it.. she told us she was 27 years old and we were too young to understand and even went ahead and asked kavya's age....

we did not like it..
I personally PMed gagan and DV that I dotn want any communication with sana as I dont like her preachy tone with me nor do I like the too many hugs and kisses she showered on me while telling me my opinion was wrong! the mayank going talli thread that she created is a proof on the endearment abuse and we made sure we quit it! we left that thread and we gradually left the forum.

gagan and DV asked me to talk to sana directly and there I told her We are not interested in talking to her..the CC that gagan created is an existing proof to that fact! SO technically it was based on MY request that gagan declared a ceasefire!

LEt em tell you.. Sana accuses me of BASHING EVERY POST She makes.. I dont even read most of her posts because of the fact Im not fond of them...I have commented on topics she has been in at the CC

She accused me of taking revenge on her due to reasons known to her for voting her as the most dramebaaz member..it was a nominations and I voted what I thought!isnt that a slander on my name?or is it my mistake that such categories were brought in?


I have refrained from quoting her in the forum..after the ceasefire ..
as much as I can and I can she has quoted my topics here in tehf oruma s mcuh as I did.. that is hardly a handful...

in recent times apart from harassing a newbie fr posting a negative view...she says she knew about our "attitudes" of the 10-member gang..when did we become a gang i dont understand!

anybody who has been around the forum for a while understand that we mostly spoof .. fr fun sake we brought up one of our older spoof topics in a new thread...We were threatened with mod action be a fellow member!

Also,
about the criticism part of it..yesterday I got a new lesson that criticism equals bashing..is this the new tolerance level of I-F?

again
If a new promo has been aired, even lookigna t the context if people can praise it sky high, why cant we criticize it sky high! i mean we are allowed to have different perspectives are nt we or has that been restrained?


accusing teh CC of being exclusively a hate club is preposterous.. As anybody who lurked/snooped on teh CC knows..wwe discuss everythign thats personal to TV and MJHT is only a part of our discussions..we provide our point of view... we comment on posts... we disagree with each other as well disagree with the forum!
In the CC we discuss a whole lot of other topics that are not allowed in the forum as well!


Snide remarks at us in the forum include
jealous people
bhejaaz brains
need to be given "get well soon" cards
people full of hatred in their minds

and latest direct quotes aimed at us

"gun point par kissi ne nahi kaha k show dekho ok nahi pasand na dekho pasand hai to aise natak mat karo simple"


"i m not giving u advise ok im just saying k pagalon wale msg daina band karo"



We thought I-F provides an equal platform for debating and discussing but I am not sure anymore. Can I stay in the forum ONLY if I can praise mjht?


last but not least.. as u know I am A member of the CC... if somebody quotes me or indirectly bashes me(even if it is sugar coated or loaded with a zillion smileys), am I allowed to talk of it with my friends saying this person accused me of this fact? or is that going to be construed differently too?


PS: my next response ,if at all, will take atleast a few hrs

Fantastically said, Caro👏 You've clearly elucidated every single point. I don't want to get involved in this airing of dirty laundry publicly but some ppl seem to be leaving us no choice. The rest is upto the mods to decide.

Originally posted by: carolinecj

accusing teh CC of being exclusively a hate club is preposterous.. As anybody who lurked/snooped on teh CC knows..wwe discuss everythign thats personal to TV and MJHT is only a part of our discussions..we provide our point of view... we comment on posts... we disagree with each other as well disagree with the forum!
In the CC we discuss a whole lot of other topics that are not allowed in the forum as well!


Snide remarks at us in the forum include
jealous people
bhejaaz brains
need to be given "get well soon" cards
people full of hatred in their minds

and latest direct quotes aimed at us

"gun point par kissi ne nahi kaha k show dekho ok nahi pasand na dekho pasand hai to aise natak mat karo simple"


"i m not giving u advise ok im just saying k pagalon wale msg daina band karo"



We thought I-F provides an equal platform for debating and discussing but I am not sure anymore. Can I stay in the forum ONLY if I can praise mjht?


last but not least.. as u know I am A member of the CC... if somebody quotes me or indirectly bashes me(even if it is sugar coated or loaded with a zillion smileys), am I allowed to talk of it with my friends saying this person accused me of this fact? or is that going to be construed differently too?

anu
I didnt want to enter into the game of public washing of dirty laundry
but I have been quoted not so obviously in the 2nd post as the member who was BANNED from a quoting an individual while everybody who was around knows it is the other way around..

anywayz
out of respect for the mods who posted this topic... I have replied.. anymore tantrums are welcome.. I just hope Im not flooded with hate pms now..see ya

having said all that no justification ... no matter how much .... disagreement in r POV .... the way i was called a candle holder , a person who blows her own trumpet and God Knows what not .... not hate club ????? when thread after thread i was abused ??????? ...mods read their thread ... and be the judge urselves whether it was chating or hatred towards me .......


caro u dont like me ... its a mutual feeling ...but i repeat i never dropped to ur levels..........