Originally posted by: karkuzhali
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<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">There is a chapter in Thirukkural about Kooda Natpu,that is, whom not to choose as a friend.</font>
<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">The kuraL says,</font>
<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">Pagai natpaam kaalam varungaal mugam nattu</font>
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<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">It means, when a person, who was your foe originally, comes to make friendship with you, (don't trust him completely, but) avoid his friendship gradually.</font>
<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">Another one, in the Chapter Sutram thazhaal ( On showing kindness to relatives) which goes,</font>
<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">Uzhaippirindu kaaranaththaal vandaanai vendan</font>
<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">Izhaithirunthu eNNikkoLal </font>
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<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">Explanation:</font>
<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">When an acquaintance, once left you with animosity comes back to you for some reason of his own , don't trust him completely, because, given an opportunity, his animosity towards you will grow to the maximum and he will become your greatest enemy.</font>
<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">It is sad to note that Chanakya, who wrote the Arthashastra didn't think along these lines!</font>
<font face="Times New Roman, Times, serif" size="3">Saraswathi Akka.</font>
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