Forum is not balanced - Page 31

Originally posted by: HearMeRoar

Oh, God. The mommy bloggers kill me. I don't post pics of any of my family online, even on my FB page and such. I don't even like sharing pics in whatsapp family groups, but everyone does, so I'm forced to. Never, ever on IF. Not even vaguely suggestive details. There was one time I said something about my writing. Thankfully, a member told me she could easily find me even with those minimal details. Deleted the post.

When I was new here and knew nothing about the dangers lurking here....I actually used to talk about everything....and some creepy lurker figured it out and called me at home....and scared the shit out of me.....thankfully my husband was home and dealt with him....and I was off IF for 3 years....it was scary....now I don't utter anything personal here.....except some vague details that no one can figure out...learned it the hard way

Originally posted by: Justice4us

This whole drama started when SK dragged a rape apologist post which is fine. No one should make light of rape. But based on her whim and feeling she publicly defamed and dragged Nathu Pyare for making that MID. This is very serious matter. Her rational brain did not even stop to consider that she maybe making a very wrong accusation and tainting the life of a forum member here.

So someone making a rape apologist post should be protected? Trying to understand your argument here.

Or maybe Minty could lead by example and stop bullying people herself. She is the problem, not others. My gosh, the irony of this post is unbelievable.

Originally posted by: carisma2

Vijay /Jayshree can you do something about the harassment or bullying aspect.

Maybe for a while you shouldn't allow any newbies to join. It join process should include a data check.

The audacity to make MIDs in a thread about MIDs

Originally posted by: Sorein

Or maybe Minty could lead by example and stop bullying people herself. She is the problem, not others. My gosh, the irony of this post is unbelievable.

Originally posted by: Sorein

Or maybe Minty could lead by example and stop bullying people herself. She is the problem, not others. My gosh, the irony of this post is unbelievable.

What?? When did Minty bully anyone??? She is one of the sweetest members here...are you talking about the TM or someone else....#genuinelyconfused

Originally posted by: Justice4us

NO. Problem is how are we sure it is Nathupyare? It is a serious accusation. Are you saying someone should be proven guilty based on feelings?

The following is what you said.

"This whole drama started when SK dragged a rape apologist post which is fine. No one should make light of rape. But based on her whim and feeling she publicly defamed and dragged Nathu Pyare for making that MID."

This actually sounds like NP did make the MID. Maybe I am reading it wrong.

Did SK actually say it without proof?

The thing is, I get people can get passionate and sometimes rude when they get involved in fan wars. But she is literally starting pointless debates or provoking people and then screams bullying when they reply (the responses were so tamed in that SRK post that I was shocked she created so much drama).

Originally posted by: Maroonporsche

I did say Minty's list of grievances seemed hollow. But thats her perspective I suppose.

No offence against you but she is absolutely not sweet. She has personally attacked members and her posts on Saba were borderline disturbing and nasty (hence her pretending she was drunk). I wouldn’t have mentioned this again had she not created yet again a post trying to stir drama.

Originally posted by: blue-ice.1

What?? When did Minty bully anyone??? She is one of the sweetest members here...are you talking about the TM or someone else....#genuinelyconfused