Honestly, I never spend a lot of time to think what makes a movie stick with me. As I reflect on it, movies that stick with me tend to have quotable dialogues and iconic characters. My absolute favorite movies that I can watch again and again are - Mean Girls, Miss Congeniality, Legally Blonde, Bring it On, Pitch Perfect, and My Cousin Vinny.
Other movies that stick are not necessarily the movies themselves but the experience and rite of passage around it. As a nineties teen, DDLJ will forever have a place in my heart. It was one of the first movies I saw with my school friends. My dad never came with us for many things, but he joined us for Karan Arjun and that made the movie memorable. HAHK we went as a large group with three families from our building complex, my friend and I woke up so early to be early in line for advance booking tickets for all of us. Biwi number one was the last movie I saw with friends in India before coming to the USA. Each and every one of my building friends was there. A few of my friends at tuition bunked tuition to rent a VHS of Judwaa and watch it.
Titanic was the first movie I saw in townside/SoBo. We took the harbor line to VT station one weekend to watch the movie. And like many people - those were my first big screen boobs. Harry Potter movies, I was part of large group that would camp out in line for the movies - it was the era before assigned seating. We had tents and ordered pizzas and read fan fiction to each other.
A lot of queer cinema is forever etched in my memory as my "coming of age" all over again in my twenties. I had a list of movies that I wanted to see. Some of them were not easily available so I would drive to a blockbuster all the way across town to rent. I didn't even know why I had this compulsive need to watch them - Lost and Delirious, DEBS, Loving Annabelle, But I'm a Cheerleader, Boys Don't Cry, The Laramie Project, Fvcking Amal/Show Me Love.
My BFF and I watched a lot of them together, in my basement, doors shut, constantly on the edge that my parents would come in - Room in Rome was one that especially had me on the edge because there is barely a moment in the movie that is appropriate.
Some movies I love because my parents loved them and we would watch them together as a family - Star Wars, ET, Back To the Future, Indiana Jones, Teen Wolf.
And sometimes some stars just make an impact. As a little girl - I was a HUGE fan of Arnold Schwarzenneger. I don't know why - but I just loved his movies. My dad was probably grateful tp have a girl who wanted to watch action-hero movies instead of Disney Princess flicks - but I am sure even he got exhausted at how many times I wanted to watch Commando, Predator, and Terminator.
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