In india elders think for everything marraige is the fix
Man is drunkard marry him off he will stop drinking
Man is irresponsible marry him off he will become responsible
Man is unemployed marry him off he will start working
Man has sickness marry him off he will get cured
Man is doing wrong marry him off he will leave unlawful activities
Man has girl friend parents dislike marry him off to another girl
Man is idealistic marry him off it will make him worldly wise
Man parents die no one to take care marry him off
Man first wife dies marry him off as fast as possible so someone take care of him and his house
For girls exact opposite you do if girl is wayward, bad, sick etc never marry her shes unfit to be anyone wife
Anyways boys or sons are spoilt rot by parents in india from childhood than daughters because having a son is very big thing in india and hence wife has to fix them after marriage mostly.
in reality no one changes much after marriage like drunkard will not stop drinking or bad man will not become good or unemployed will turn employed, its just that woman will bear all responsibility of man and his house and family mostly do job for them on behalf of husband and themselves. Parent just push thei son responsibility on wife head thats all. Very few change after marraige mostly they reamin same with minor changes
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